Originally posted by silver_tears
Because if a preference exists, and you for example prefer females to males, you'd then be straight. If you prefer one over the other why would you need the other is my question I suppose.Unless the answer is variety, or maybe true bisexuals like both genders completely equally. shrug
Though you'd still **** a guy 1 out of 5 time? Well, in that case your definitions are worthless.
Urizen's example was pretty accurate. Would you rather **** Condolezza Rice or Jared Leto. Rather Angelina Jolie or....George Bush?
No, that's not how bisexuality is defined.
Also kayakat, read what Storm said, she is the only person I would trust giving me advice in this thread anyways. (Me included)
Originally posted by Storm
Struggling with one' s sexual attractions is very common. Relax and give yourself time to explore your feelings. Be patient with yourself.Ceterum censeo OTF esse delendam.
Originally posted by Bardock42
Though you'd still **** a guy 1 out of 5 time? Well, in that case your definitions are worthless.Urizen's example was pretty accurate. Would you rather **** Condolezza Rice or Jared Leto. Rather Angelina Jolie or....George Bush?
No, that's not how bisexuality is defined.
Those examples are ridiculous since they're so disproportionate in hotness. If for example you pit (haha I'm clever) Angelina vs. Brad, then that would be valid.
For the record I'd do the men (I choose to ignore who they are here) just because they have what I'm interested, ie peni. doped
Like how do bisexuals decide which sex to pursue, wouldn't it be a purely looks based decision and nothing else, based solely on hotness?
Originally posted by Storm
Do you get more excited about the idea of kissing a man or kissing a woman? Are you more physically attracted to men' s or women' s bodies? Who do you fantasize about more, men or women?Ceterum censeo OTF esse delendam.
i get more exited about the idea of kissing a man, but the idea of kissing a woman doesn't disgust me... 😮 not even at all 😮 😱
I am physically more attracted to men and I do fantasize about men more
Originally posted by silver_tears
I'd **** a guy 5 out of 5 times, since I'm straight.
I can easily admit a chick's attractive, doesn't mean I'm sexually attracted to her does it.Those examples are ridiculous since they're so disproportionate in hotness. If for example you pit (haha I'm clever) Angelina vs. Brad, then that would be valid.
For the record I'd do the men (I choose to ignore who they are here) just because they have what I'm interested, ie peni. dopedLike how do bisexuals decide which sex to pursue, wouldn't it be a purely looks based decision and nothing else, based solely on hotness?
No, that's the point, they are not ridiculous. That's the point, if you would choose a woman over a man you are not only straight. But since you apparently are that's alright. But can't you accept there are people that are attracted to Guys as well as girls and depending on the hotness of the person decide who to ****?
Yeah, it would be based on hotness. Though isn't it the way with us as well? just that we find the opposed sex usually way more attractive?
Originally posted by Madman_V3N0M
Yes but u guys are taking love out of the equasion, if for instance u were bi but more into men, and then the perfect girl came along, you'd do her right?
But then that's the whole you being "attracted to their soul, personality etc" thing that BD over there discounted when I asked him. He said it was purely based on looks. So if it's based solely on looks, someone who is bi must prefer one sex over the other since the majority of males look nothing like females and vice versa. shrug
Originally posted by silver_tearsLike how do bisexuals decide which sex to pursue, wouldn't it be a purely looks based decision and nothing else, based solely on hotness?
I can't speak for everyone that is Bi, but knowing myself. I like most guys for the way they look. I don't really fall in love with them. Women mean more to me. They can't just be hot, they have to show me that their different from every other girl.
Till now, I've only been sexually with women, and I'm fine that way.
Originally posted by silver_tearsWhy are you a girl???
Go ahead and tell me why people are bisexual then?
Why are there homosexuals???
Why are there heterosexuals????
Why do flowers produce their own food????
Why does 2+2=4???
Do you get it??
You make it seem as if Bisexuals are a whole different breed and need further explanation for being who they are.
I mean didn't we go through this with the whole Black and White thing?
Blacks are black, whites are white, Bisexuals are bisexuals.
It's not as if they need a reason.
Do you need a reason for being you?
You just are.
They just are.
You don't choose, you just are.
anata wa wakarimasu ka.....
Originally posted by Bardock42
No, that's the point, they are not ridiculous. That's the point, if you would choose a woman over a man you are not only straight. But since you apparently are that's alright. But can't you accept there are people that are attracted to Guys as well as girls and depending on the hotness of the person decide who to ****?Yeah, it would be based on hotness. Though isn't it the way with us as well? just that we find the opposed sex usually way more attractive?
Yea, but for you to be bi wouldn't you have to be attracted to them completely equal on all counts, because once you start showing a preference how are you still bi?
Like I hear some women say "oh yea, I'm bi, but I've been with men for the past 20 years," well then you're no longer bi, you just appreciate attractive females when you see them imo 😕
I mean just because the thought of being with the same sex doesn't disgust you (like the thread starter said about her friend) that doesn't necessarily make you bi does it.
Originally posted by silver_tears
Yea, but for you to be bi wouldn't you have to be attracted to them completely equal on all counts, because once you start showing a preference how are you still bi?
Like I hear some women say "oh yea, I'm bi, but I've been with men for the past 20 years," well then you're no longer bi, you just appreciate attractive females when you see them imo 😕
Because you would still **** people from both genders? Which is by definition bi?
Originally posted by silver_tearsSO what are you saying????
Yea, but for you to be bi wouldn't you have to be attracted to them completely equal on all counts, because once you start showing a preference how are you still bi?
Like I hear some women say "oh yea, I'm bi, but I've been with men for the past 20 years," well then you're no longer bi, you just appreciate attractive females when you see them imo 😕
If someone is bi they must be with a woman and a man simultaneously therefore cheating on both of them. Or just be alone since you can't have both? If you like Males and Females then that means YOU LIKE BOTH. So you can be with a male or female and be okay.
Once again. Ridiculous.
anata wa wakarimasu ka.....