Why Do Relationships Fail?

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
i brought it up, yes, but you went out of your way to post that you have done it.

SO WHAT ????? WHY DO U CARE ? I HAVE DONE IT..I ADMIT IT...SO WHAT ?

No need to shout.

or to be covered in love lotion.

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Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
love lotion....man juice...lubriderm....white gravy....spunk....jizz......get it?

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Yeah, Rogue is into that... a LOT! 😉

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doingit

Dude I think we should tone down our philosophical beliefs.

Originally posted by Smiter
Dude I think we should tone down our philosophical beliefs.

But why ? Orgasm is one of the main components of every healthy relationship.

And what better way to discuss Orgasm then through the philosophy which promotes it ?

Originally posted by Smiter
Simple Questions, Post Opinions Here

no trust

Originally posted by Lord Urizen
But why ? [b]Orgasm is one of the main components of every healthy relationship.

And what better way to discuss Orgasm then through the philosophy which promotes it ? [/B]

Lets just say that a storm is approaching and we dont wanna get caught by the storm.

Originally posted by Smiter
Lets just say that a storm is approaching and we dont wanna get caught by the storm.

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Yeah...i know what you mean...im done....

Originally posted by Lord Urizen
But why ? [b]Orgasm is one of the main components of every healthy relationship.
[/B]

Like you have a healthy relationship....

Oh no, lemme rephrase: like you have a relationship.

imo it's to do with balances of power and how well people manage their own expectations...

any relationship where one person cares more about it than the other is likely to fail i think...Over time, the amount each person cares or doesn't care is magnified until the whole thing falls apart.

In terms of expectation, we are drip fed so much by the media about how your love life should constantly resemble the state in which you just fell in love ("5000 ways to please your man!!!" etc..) instead of acknowledging the reality that a relationship that extends over any longish period of time is going to settle into a rut....If people could learn to recognise that 'the rut' isn;t in fact a problem, and has it's own charms, and could learn to deal with it on it's own terms instead then i think relationships would be much more successful...

people should stop trying to be 22 forever imo

Balance of Power... ah no... a healthy relationship is not about power.

Originally posted by queeq
Balance of Power... ah no... a healthy relationship is not about power.

exactly my point. If the balance is right, then power is never an issue.
I'm sure we have all been in relationships at some point where we either cared more, or cared less about what was going on than the person we were with.