Originally posted by GCGIt's true. A person can throw around hints galore and the other is in denial, that's why it's important to be up front and honest. I find hints don't work for many people. Sometimes a sincere sentence or two works best. In the end, it is really a kinder way to end it and don't wait until it's at an angry place of "Don't you get it??!!?"...It's harder to speak up, but really you're doing the other person a big favor.
Some people are just ignoring the fact that they are not accepted any longer. The message is loud and clear and they still will not get on with their lifes without you.
Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Yes.So...people aren't forced to wait, they choose to. Although, in the case you mentioned, it wouldn't be knowing that something is worth waiting for, would it? Because you don't know if said person is even going to choose you.
-AC
There are many different factors you have to consider when it comes to "waiting" on someone, or deciding that they are worth waiting for. If, in your heart, you know that it is a losing battle, then you are better off walking. If, by chance, you think there is the slightest chance that things can be worked out, you stick.