Imperial_Samura
Anticrust Smurf
Originally posted by =Mysta=-kILL
Well, there is more to it. She has been best friends with this girl since she was about five. They go everywhere together and do everything together. But to get to the point, sometimes they do some lesbian things. Kissing, fingering, you know. And it really bothers me. At first it just kinda turned me on as it does to most guys, but it got to the point where I feel she has more fun with just her friend and not me.
I was out of town, but on new years, she got drunk with her friend and they did some things. And just the other day, they watched porn together. Lesbian porn! I feel like shes going to just forget about me and become lesbian or something. 🙁
It might be possible that I am channeling some bygone era or something, but technically since you put it like that more then a few people in the world would consider "kissing, fingering" an act of cheating. You know, like if you went of and "made out" with some girl before doing some post making out fingering people might classify you as a cheater - the fact it is done between best friends doesn't really change that (unless you are one of those couples who is fine with that kind of thing.) I mean - say you had a good female friend, would your girlfriend accept you kissing her (as in real kissing?)
Because that is usually what cheating is conceived to be - doing sexual things outside of the whole "monogamous" relationship thing. I'd suggest you'd talk to her, because it doesn't sound quite as clear cut as your first post suggests (that is the whole "she'd never do anything like that" etc.)
if she is in the age 18-25 then she is guaranteed to cheat. WHY? thats the experimenting time, they wanna know how it feels to cheat, its all games. Signs of cheating. Going out without you often. Not answering your calls, or not returning your calls. She dresses too sexy when she's going out with her friends. If you want a girl who will not cheat on you, Go for 30 above. Those women are just ready to stick with you and to get stuck with you. Why? because they know hows it feel to betray and they know hows it feel to be betrayed. And they dont wanna go through the drama of the past.
I'm never wrong on this one.
Holy generalisation batman! And this from the guy who goes on about "brokebacks" and fantasises about Succubi - who'd have guessed you were so educated in the cheating habits of 18-25 year old girls/women.
For the record if she is aged between 18-25 she is no more guaranteed to cheat then anyone else. Cheating isn't linked to age. Some girls will cheat, others wont - it is a personality/choice thing, not a gender/age thing. As for the whole "30 above" thing one could point out the amount of men and women who cheat as they more towards middle age and the like, divorce and so forth. But you can't make blanket statements like "they are guaranteed to cheat. Why? They have grown bored with their mature lives and are trying to regain some sort of freedom, sense of youth, sexual exlporation etc.."
So I would say that you aren't right about it.