My gf cheated on me then dumped me

Originally posted by Slay
How does that help him in any way? It'll only make him feel worse.

Originally posted by Morning_Glory
i didnt know we were suppose to make him feel better... srug

Originally posted by Morning_Glory
i didnt know we were suppose to make him feel better... srug

Originally posted by Slay
Then why did you say you felt sorry for him in the first place? srug

Originally posted by Slay
Then why did you say you felt sorry for him in the first place? srug

when I cheated on my boyfriend in high school he was really pissed and I still dont feel bad about it (which has been about 10 yrs since I was in HS).... because once again... it was worth it

Originally posted by Morning_Glory
i just said "aww sorry" which doesnt mean I "feel" sorry for him... Im just simply saying sorry... and then I told my story --

when I cheated on my boyfriend in high school he was really pissed and I still dont feel bad about it (which has been about 10 yrs since I was in HS).... because once again... it was worth it

Who do you cheat on someone in high school again? srug

I can do this all day long. 😛

Originally posted by Morning_Glory
i just said "aww sorry" which doesnt mean I "feel" sorry for him... Im just simply saying sorry... and then I told my story --

when I cheated on my boyfriend in high school he was really pissed and I still dont feel bad about it (which has been about 10 yrs since I was in HS).... because once again... it was worth it

Elaborate.

Originally posted by Slay
Why say sorry if you didn't actually mean it? srug

Who do you cheat on someone in high school again? srug

I can do this all day long. 😛

srug

all day?? .... I don't think I can be here all day cry

Originally posted by Bardock42
Elaborate.

Originally posted by Morning_Glory
exactly... it was high school... at the time you think that relationship could last "forever" but now I wish I would have never dated anyone seriously in HS... its just worthless

srug

all day?? .... I don't think I can be here all day cry

Well... I see no other option then to kidnap you then.

Looks like I'm the one who is going to have to give a sane response. 😂

I've been cheated on 3 times and I've had 4 serious girlfriends in my life. I treated everyone of my girlfriends like she was the only thing that mattered to me. I know what you're going through right now and it is one of the more horrible things a person has to deal with, my last girlfriend, who I was totally in love with decided to use a family situation as an excuse to break up with me. I later learned that it was all a lie and she just didn't want to tell me she had been cheating on me.

Women are unpredictable and sometimes they do things with no reasoning behind it, men do it too for all of you who just went "OMG he singled out women!" 😛 You can never quite know what they are going to do next and sometimes they cheat for no reason at all. I blame lust.

If your relationship was serious/semi-serious I'm sorry to hear that she treated you like that. But you have to come to terms with the idea that no matter how much YOU loved her, SHE did not love you back! If she was able to cheat on you then kick you out of her life like it was nothing then there were no feelings of love on her side. It sucks I know, I've dealt with those feelings 3 times, but right now you should hang out with your friends, find something to keep you preoccupied. Do anything that will keep your mind off her. Even though time doesn't HEAL everything like people say but over time you will come to realise that you are deserving of much better than someone who throws you out of your life with no remorse or regret.

Originally posted by steverules
Name says it all, now I'm really depressed...

Join the club!

Originally posted by Röland
Looks like I'm the one who is going to have to give a sane response. 😂

I've been cheated on 3 times and I've had 4 serious girlfriends in my life. I treated everyone of my girlfriends like she was the only thing that mattered to me. I know what you're going through right now and it is one of the more horrible things a person has to deal with, my last girlfriend, who I was totally in love with decided to use a family situation as an excuse to break up with me. I later learned that it was all a lie and she just didn't want to tell me she had been cheating on me.

Women are unpredictable and sometimes they do things with no reasoning behind it, men do it too for all of you who just went "OMG he singled out women!" 😛 You can never quite know what they are going to do next and sometimes they cheat for no reason at all. I blame lust.

If your relationship was serious/semi-serious I'm sorry to hear that she treated you like that. But you have to come to terms with the idea that no matter how much YOU loved her, SHE did not love you back! If she was able to cheat on you then kick you out of her life like it was nothing then there were no feelings of love on her side. It sucks I know, I've dealt with those feelings 3 times, but right now you should hang out with your friends, find something to keep you preoccupied. Do anything that will keep your mind off her. Even though time doesn't HEAL everything like people say but over time you will come to realise that you are deserving of much better than someone who throws you out of your life with no remorse or regret.

That was just way to much information.

Originally posted by Röland
Looks like I'm the one who is going to have to give a sane response. 😂

Originally posted by Soleran
That was just way to much information.

I'm trying to help the guy out. srug

Originally posted by Slay
It's true. You have the wrong person if you want sane advice. And to amplify that, I will refuse to read, or even glance over, the rest of your post.

I doubt steverules will see my advice anyway.

Originally posted by Röland
Looks like I'm the one who is going to have to give a sane response. 😂

I've been cheated on 3 times and I've had 4 serious girlfriends in my life. I treated everyone of my girlfriends like she was the only thing that mattered to me. I know what you're going through right now and it is one of the more horrible things a person has to deal with, my last girlfriend, who I was totally in love with decided to use a family situation as an excuse to break up with me. I later learned that it was all a lie and she just didn't want to tell me she had been cheating on me.

Women are unpredictable and sometimes they do things with no reasoning behind it, men do it too for all of you who just went "OMG he singled out women!" 😛 You can never quite know what they are going to do next and sometimes they cheat for no reason at all. I blame lust.

If your relationship was serious/semi-serious I'm sorry to hear that she treated you like that. But you have to come to terms with the idea that no matter how much YOU loved her, SHE did not love you back! If she was able to cheat on you then kick you out of her life like it was nothing then there were no feelings of love on her side. It sucks I know, I've dealt with those feelings 3 times, but right now you should hang out with your friends, find something to keep you preoccupied. Do anything that will keep your mind off her. Even though time doesn't HEAL everything like people say but over time you will come to realise that you are deserving of much better than someone who throws you out of your life with no remorse or regret.

Originally posted by Slay
I never had any friends in high school. All my friends went to other schools. Somehow that made everyone in my school want to tell stupid things about themselves, which I really didn't care about, to me. srug

Well... I see no other option then to kidnap you then.

Originally posted by Kongu Dude
Oh, geez. faint

Good or bad?

Ive never been kidnapped ... i need a new life adventure

I've got some candy in my pocket, want some?