Women suck

This is off topic and will get closed...but, I'm going to vent some. How can you love someone more than life itself and have that person walk out on you without so much as call, text message, in person visit, etc. I was always good to her. I was the first one there when she got in a bad wreck...I did most of her geography homework for her....I gave her money for gas..and paid for other school items...not that I wanted anything back....i didn't...i just loved her and wanted to do these things....then she just leaves without saying anything...and I can't even find her. I know she's alright because I see that she has logged in on Myspace recently. This is actually the third time she left me...but she always let me know something before....and I'd give her space. But, I can't go through this again...all I do is drink...and I got arrested for a DWI a few days ago....shit....how can one woman do all this to a man? I'll never take her back....but, I don't know how to quit thinkin' about her. She took my heart places that it has never been before...and now I have to deal with the fact that it was all a lie...and I feel so used. Don't know if I can ever trust another woman again.

Anyway....sorry guys....just had to vent...I don't really have anyone to talk to anymore...she was really all I had in life.

Originally posted by charlemagne9746
This is off topic and will get closed...but, I'm going to vent some. How can you love someone more than life itself and have that person walk out on you without so much as call, text message, in person visit, etc. I was always good to her. I was the first one there when she got in a bad wreck...I did most of her geography homework for her....I gave her money for gas..and paid for other school items...not that I wanted anything back....i didn't...i just loved her and wanted to do these things....then she just leaves without saying anything...and I can't even find her. I know she's alright because I see that she has logged in on Myspace recently. This is actually the third time she left me...but she always let me know something before....and I'd give her space. But, I can't go through this again...all I do is drink...and I got arrested for a DWI a few days ago....shit....how can one woman do all this to a man? I'll never take her back....but, I don't know how to quit thinkin' about her. She took my heart places that it has never been before...and now I have to deal with the fact that it was all a lie...and I feel so used. Don't know if I can ever trust another woman again.

Anyway....sorry guys....just had to vent...I don't really have anyone to talk to anymore...she was really all I had in life.

Cry me a river...

Originally posted by charlemagne9746
This is off topic and will get closed...but, I'm going to vent some. How can you love someone more than life itself and have that person walk out on you without so much as call, text message, in person visit, etc. I was always good to her. I was the first one there when she got in a bad wreck...I did most of her geography homework for her....I gave her money for gas..and paid for other school items...not that I wanted anything back....i didn't...i just loved her and wanted to do these things....then she just leaves without saying anything...and I can't even find her. I know she's alright because I see that she has logged in on Myspace recently. This is actually the third time she left me...but she always let me know something before....and I'd give her space. But, I can't go through this again...all I do is drink...and I got arrested for a DWI a few days ago....shit....how can one woman do all this to a man? I'll never take her back....but, I don't know how to quit thinkin' about her. She took my heart places that it has never been before...and now I have to deal with the fact that it was all a lie...and I feel so used. Don't know if I can ever trust another woman again.

Anyway....sorry guys....just had to vent...I don't really have anyone to talk to anymore...she was really all I had in life.

Damn it aint a sock, he must be really upset! Bro you're gonna have to get over it, everybody gets hurt.

Originally posted by Alfheim
Damn it aint a sock, he must be really upset! Bro you're gonna have to get over it, everybody gets hurt.

Really ?

Shit , sorry for the image then....

Shit happens

Originally posted by charlemagne9746
This is off topic and will get closed...but, I'm going to vent some. How can you love someone more than life itself and have that person walk out on you without so much as call, text message, in person visit, etc. I was always good to her. I was the first one there when she got in a bad wreck...I did most of her geography homework for her....I gave her money for gas..and paid for other school items...not that I wanted anything back....i didn't...i just loved her and wanted to do these things....then she just leaves without saying anything...and I can't even find her. I know she's alright because I see that she has logged in on Myspace recently. This is actually the third time she left me...but she always let me know something before....and I'd give her space. But, I can't go through this again...all I do is drink...and I got arrested for a DWI a few days ago....shit....how can one woman do all this to a man? I'll never take her back....but, I don't know how to quit thinkin' about her. She took my heart places that it has never been before...and now I have to deal with the fact that it was all a lie...and I feel so used. Don't know if I can ever trust another woman again.

Anyway....sorry guys....just had to vent...I don't really have anyone to talk to anymore...she was really all I had in life.

You sound like me when I was seventeen. 😉

Hopefully the next girl you date will treats you better. 😄

Originally posted by charlemagne9746
This is off topic and will get closed...but, I'm going to vent some. How can you love someone more than life itself and have that person walk out on you without so much as call, text message, in person visit, etc. I was always good to her. I was the first one there when she got in a bad wreck...I did most of her geography homework for her....I gave her money for gas..and paid for other school items...not that I wanted anything back....i didn't...i just loved her and wanted to do these things....then she just leaves without saying anything...and I can't even find her. I know she's alright because I see that she has logged in on Myspace recently. This is actually the third time she left me...but she always let me know something before....and I'd give her space. But, I can't go through this again...all I do is drink...and I got arrested for a DWI a few days ago....shit....how can one woman do all this to a man? I'll never take her back....but, I don't know how to quit thinkin' about her. She took my heart places that it has never been before...and now I have to deal with the fact that it was all a lie...and I feel so used. Don't know if I can ever trust another woman again.

Anyway....sorry guys....just had to vent...I don't really have anyone to talk to anymore...she was really all I had in life.

Sorry if I come off cold but you'll get over it. You did her homework and paid for her school stuff? 😬 A bit obsessive/excessive don't you think?

Seems like you're more infatuated then in love. Your infatuation has become obsession. Your obsession probably scared her off. You're going to have to fix this, clear your head keep yourself occupied. Get over her and next time you find someone don't get whipped.

I suppose you could say its better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all, but I doubt that'd make you feel better...you'll just have to work through it I suppose.

Originally posted by ExodusCloak
Sorry if I come off cold but you'll get over it. You did her homework and paid for her school stuff? 😬 A bit obsessive/excessive don't you think?

lol...it's ok man. Actually, I'm 30. She was my fiance....we were going to get married after she graduated....so, I had a lot invested in her. She wasn't just some random girlfriend. Believe me...i don't just dish out money like that...when I don't really have much to begin with..lol. She had me convinced that we'd spend our lives together...so, spending money on her education didn't bother me. We were together for two years. So, I just don't see how after all of that....she could just walk away and say nothing. The reason I feel used is that she left me the day after I completed her on-line geography course...like she was waiting for me to finish that for her. I just don't get it.

Originally posted by charlemagne9746
lol...it's ok man. Actually, I'm 30. She was my fiance....we were going to get married after she graduated....so, I had a lot invested in her. She wasn't just some random girlfriend. Believe me...i don't just dish out money like that...when I don't really have much to begin with..lol. She had me convinced that we'd spend our lives together...so, spending money on her education didn't bother me. We were together for two years. So, I just don't see how after all of that....she could just walk away and say nothing. The reason I feel used is that she left me the day after I completed her on-line geography course...like she was waiting for me to finish that for her. I just don't get it.

She was your finance and she just walked out? Thats pretty cold, when were you gonna get married maybe she was just nervous?

Originally posted by Sparkz
She was your finance and she just walked out? Thats pretty cold, when were you gonna get married maybe she was just nervous?

June 2nd....well....we were going to get married last August...before she started student teaching....but, she left me a few months before that....we had gotten back together in September....then she left me again in January....then we got back together this past February...she told me that I was the man that she wanted...and that she was tired of running from it. So, we planned to get married again...this time June 2nd....now, she leaves me again....this time with no reason....she always gave me some kind of reason before...this time she didn't...she just vanished. She still has the ring and everything. Of course...I don't want that back. There will not be a fourth time....I can't trust her to be sincere anymore.

Wait ... you're 30 and she's still in school? ... please tell me you don't mean high school.

😐

Originally posted by charlemagne9746
June 2nd....well....we were going to get married last August...before she started student teaching....but, she left me a few months before that....we had gotten back together in September....then she left me again in January....then we got back together this past February...she told me that I was the man that she wanted...and that she was tired of running from it. So, we planned to get married again...this time June 2nd....now, she leaves me again....this time with no reason....she always gave me some kind of reason before...this time she didn't...she just vanished. She still has the ring and everything. Of course...I don't want that back. There will not be a fourth time....I can't trust her to be sincere anymore.

Well it could have been nerves, but if its happened twice already then well it probably wasn't meant to be. You never know she may contact you soon to explain why she left.

Originally posted by Scoobless
Wait ... you're 30 and she's still in school? ... please tell me you don't mean high school.

😐

Where have you been? There is a place called college, and people go there to continue there education. Some professions also require you to go back to school every now and then. I have had 50 year old people is some of my classes.

Originally posted by Scoobless
Wait ... you're 30 and she's still in school? ... please tell me you don't mean high school.

😐

lol...no...she's in college....she's 23.

Originally posted by Ptr_Grifin
Where have you been? There is a place called college, and people go there to continue there education. Some professions also require you to go back to school every now and then. I have had 50 year old people is some of my classes.

I'm going to go out on a limb here and say your a teacher.

Originally posted by Sparkz
I'm going to go out on a limb here and say your a teacher.

Nah, but when I first got into college in some of the my first courses there where aged individuals. Some where actually far older than the teacher. It is amazing how big of an age gap there can be in a college class room.

Originally posted by Ptr_Grifin
Nah, but when I first got into college in some of the my first courses there where aged individuals. Some where actually far older than the teacher. It is amazing how big of an age gap there can be in a college class room.

Yeah I know, when I go to college for plumbing there is a range from 16-mid 40's

Originally posted by Ptr_Grifin
Where have you been? There is a place called college, and people go there to continue there education. Some professions also require you to go back to school every now and then. I have had 50 year old people is some of my classes.

Yea, this is especially true once you reach the upper-level courses and graduate school. I know in some of my grad classes I'm the only young person even there. Kinda strange if you ask me, and it takes a while to get used to.