Would you lay on a grave at night??

its not disrespectful, as long as you dont piss on the grave or dig up the corpse and lay inside the coffin with him.

to lay one someones grave is disrespectful no matter how much someone claims it aint.

its disrespectful under any means. full stop!

When my ex-husband was 19 his dad was killed by a drunk driver and he kind of had a flip out period...at one point laying on the grave after he had gotten drunk (and he was already on anti-depressents so I'm sure that had something to do with it..) Apparently he laid there for a couple of hours before some friends found him and took him home.

that is more out of grief, than doing it as a stunt and at least it was his kin too. You are allowed to miss your loved ones, but spend a night at a grave for I dare you stuff that is totally different

yea...thats VERY different..

oh, btw...
I wouldn't care less if someone did that on my grave or on one of a familymember

well, most people would care

well then that's most ppl's problem

hey, if you are talking about falling asleep on a grave, my answer will be: HELL no, thats disrespectfull!

Originally posted by Sabrea
well, most people would care

i wo uldnt care if someone laid on my grave. it would be cool.

of course you don't care! you can't feel anything

good point

it is not just about the dead ones it is about those left behind too

and if they found out, you weren't good enough to hide it

i wouldnt care if someone lied on a family members grave. id be glad someone could get some joy out of it.

or someone finally visiting

no. I agree with finti, sab and others. it is, and most people would find it, disrespectful if someone lay on the grave of a relative or friend, for entertainment.

and how will you know?