How do you get over an ex you really loved?

I need to know how to do it...cause I have nooo clue

Originally posted by steverules
I need to know how to do it...cause I have nooo clue

Lots of time.

You don't.
You simply learn to adjust and turn your focus onto another person.

Time hug

I'd use a ladder...

I'm so funny.

Originally posted by Ambience
You don't.
You simply learn to adjust and turn your focus onto another person.

For the question itself, it takes time and it's not something you can accelerate. It's a natural process.

I know I'd never get over Thomas 😮

I also know I'll never have to 😊

Was she your first true love?

I personally think you never get over your first true love, but like the others have said, it's pretty much time that will help you get over her.

Originally posted by DarkC
I really, sincerely hope (pray) that we never have to get over each other.

For the question itself, it takes time and it's not something you can accelerate. It's a natural process.

Me to baby.
kisses

Lots of chocolate a lots of time. And you don't really get over them, you just let time help you to think about them less, but everytime you do think about them it hurts.

Great...I feel worse

Not a lot you can do.. Let time take its toll and hope for the best.. A lot of heartbroken I know of did not get over it until newfound love..

Originally posted by steverules
Great...I feel worse

Don't feel worse man.

Here's something I posted in another thread, hope it helps you out.

Originally posted by Röland
If you ever think about that person, even if it's every day and even if you tell yourself you should be with them, remember that there is some reason you are not with them. I know it hurts and it sucks but there is someone out there for you. hug

I'm not sure if this is the exact quote but. . .

Don't live in the past, by living in the past, you have no future.

I wonder who u found that with

I really need to learn to quote more

"God is closest to those with broken hearts."

hm..i wouldn't know. i find that i don't really get over people. i just learn to practice the meaning of their existence in relation to whatever the current state of my relationship with them is. this doesn't mean that i suddenly fell "out of" love with them. or that i hate them. i still appreciate them and all that they were, just from afar. 🙂

and yeah i'd agree with the rest above; time heals all wounds.

Originally posted by Barker
I'd use a ladder...

I'm so not funny.

Originally posted by steverules
I need to know how to do it...cause I have nooo clue

anata wa wakarimasu ka.....

Originally posted by InnerRise
It was never love. You're way too young.

anata wa wakarimasu ka.....

See I disagree. I know that what Leo and I have is real love. I'm only 16, and I know this. We've been going out for almost a year now, and I've never felt like this before. Yeah I've been in other long term relationships, but this one doesn't feel the same. This one is 100 X better. When we talk, nothing else matters. I think about him, every second of my life. I dream about him, every single night. And he's on the other side of the country. I know that we are in love, and I know we are soul mates. I am sure of it. We were meant to meet.

And I agree that usually, thats not the case with people my age. I think that its the maturity of the people, not the age. I know I love Leo, and that one day, I'll marry him. I am sure of it. 😍