KMC, I need a favor

I don't think I could put up with an internet relationship.

Originally posted by Naz
Yeah it is. It's the termination of a life against its will.
And killing a baby isn't harming anyone? 🙄

What happens when their birth control fails?

Originally posted by Naz
Yeah it is. It's the termination of a life against its will.
And killing a baby isn't harming anyone? 🙄

Are you against chopping wood?

Originally posted by Bardock42
Yeah, no one that is conscious. It is less harmful than killing an animal about the same as killing a plant.

Are you against chopping wood?

So you're saying that random forest critters are more important than people? Don't be a raging animal rights freak.

What?

Originally posted by chillmeistergen
I don't think I could put up with an internet relationship.

Would you reject love if you found it over the internet? You meet someone on the web, you meet this person in real life and you fall in love with her entirely 😍

You could only meet eachother rarely, but you do love her. Would you still reject that relationship if you had to spend the majority of the time talking over the internet? 🙂

Originally posted by Sparkly
[b]Would you reject love if you found it over the internet? You meet someone on the web, you meet this person in real life and you fall in love with her entirely 😍

You could only meet eachother rarely, but you do love her. Would you still reject that relationship if you had to spend the majority of the time talking over the internet? 🙂 [/B]

I would.

Originally posted by Sparkly
[b]Would you reject love if you found it over the internet? You meet someone on the web, you meet this person in real life and you fall in love with her entirely 😍

You could only meet eachother rarely, but you do love her. Would you still reject that relationship if you had to spend the majority of the time talking over the internet? 🙂 [/B]

Well I suppose it could happen. But I'd have to meet them as much as possible. No matter what people say the physical side of a relationship is important.

Originally posted by Röland
I would.

I would not 🙂

Originally posted by chillmeistergen
Well I suppose it could happen. But I'd have to meet them as much as possible. No matter what people say the physical side of a relationship is important.

It is imporant ✅ Of course you would meet her as much as possible 🙂 I hardly believe anyone would reject any chance they have to meet the one they love 😄

Originally posted by Naz
So you're saying that random forest critters are more important than people? Don't be a raging animal rights freak.

What?

No, not than people. But than unconscious parasitical cells.

Originally posted by Bardock42
No, not than people. But than unconscious parasitical cells.

No, people.

Originally posted by Sparkly
[b]I would not 🙂[/b] [/B]

Online "dating" relationships require an EXTREME amount of commitment, and I have yet to meet someone in the real world that has that commitment , online "dating" relationships are harder to keep together than real world relationships are.

You've just met shitty people hun. 😬

Originally posted by silver_tears
You've just met shitty people hun. 😬

Yeah I know. 😬

I've never been in an online relationship but I just think it would be so much harder to keep going, considering that the separation may great, you may see the person a few times in the course of 6 months or a year and many people want the physical side of the relationship. 😬

I'm not saying they don't work or people should not be in online relationships, I just look at an online relationship as something that both parties have to be extremely committed to and know for sure they want to be in that type of relationship. 😬

I wouldn't want to be in an online relationship because of the commitment it requires. Not because I don't want commitment, but because I feel too young to appreciate it.

Originally posted by Röland
Yeah I know. 😬

I've never been in an online relationship but I just think it would be so much harder to keep going, considering that the separation may great, you may see the person a few times in the course of 6 months or a year and many people want the physical side of the relationship. 😬

I'm not saying they don't work or people should not be in online relationships, I just look at an online relationship as something that both parties have to be extremely committed to and know for sure they want to be in that type of relationship. 😬

All fair points.
But you haven't met anyone really committed to a "real life" relationship yet so maybe that's why you're so sceptical about online ones.

I mean it's essentially the same thing. Once you give someone your word online or off you're committed to them.
There's no degrees of commitment, there's only one kind.

Originally posted by chillmeistergen
I wouldn't want to be in an online relationship because of the commitment it requires. Not because I don't want commitment, but because I feel too young to appreciate it.

Again, it doesn't require an extra level of commitment, there's only one. You're either committed or you're not. It's not "Oh well I'm committed during the week but the weekend doesn't count etc."

Originally posted by Naz
No, people.

No. Unconscious parasitical cells.

If your God is loving it's a straight ticket to Heaven too. Are you just jealous?

Originally posted by silver_tears
Again, it doesn't require an extra level of commitment, there's only one. You're either committed or you're not. It's not "Oh well I'm committed during the week but the weekend doesn't count etc."

Yeah, That'd be my problem though. It's easier to keep secrets in text, and breaking the commitment would be easier than if I was to see the girl, regularly in person. As cold as it sounds, I think that's how it would work.

I suppose if I was in love with the girl in question, it'd be a completely different story. But I've got no experience of that, so I don't know.

Originally posted by silver_tears
All fair points.
But you haven't met anyone really committed to a "real life" relationship yet so maybe that's why you're so sceptical about online ones.

I mean it's essentially the same thing. Once you give someone your word online or off you're committed to them.
There's no degrees of commitment, there's only one kind.

You're right about that Irene. It's my downfall. 😬

I totally agree with you that there's only one type of commitment. I should have used a different word, I meant that if someone is in an online relationship, they have to realize it will be harder to maintain than a "real life" relationship.

Originally posted by chillmeistergen
Yeah, That'd be my problem though. It's easier to keep secrets in text, and breaking the commitment would be easier than if I was to see the girl, regularly in person. As cold as it sounds, I think that's how it would work.

I suppose if I was in love with the girl in question, it'd be a completely different story. But I've got no experience of that, so I don't know.

If you're finding ways to cheat before the fact you shouldn't be in any relationship tbh. 😬