Your Loyalties....Who are they with?

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Re: Your Loyalties....Who are they with?

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
Let's say a good friend of yours, someone you have known for years, is of the opposite sex. He or she hops from partner to partner, always leaving a broken heart. Then she happens to date someone you know, not a really good friend, but still a friend. Do you tell him or her to watch out, to be careful of the person you have known for years, or do you let it play out?

I'd be tempted to say something to my "good friend" the heart-breaker. I mean, if she is indeed a good friend whom I have known for many years, and always leaves a broken heart, I would think that she and I would have discussed this behavior at least once/twice over the years. Depending on her present attitude, then, I might say something to the lesser friend.

The human race is becoming progressively gayer.

I would probably talk to them both and first of all my good friend who hops from girl to girl.

Regards, Yvonne

Let it happen maybe they are the ones each other has been looking for.

I´d warm the hop arround person not to do a dirty on my other friend, that if he/she just wants to shag then they should find someone else, but if its genuine interest then go for it.

This is like the scenarios they give us in health class to solve.

I think you just shouldn't tell them at all because it could end up working out for them and then it'll be awkward maybe around them together because you -in a way- tried to break them up.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
Let's say a good friend of yours, someone you have known for years, is of the opposite sex. He or she hops from partner to partner, always leaving a broken heart. Then she happens to date someone you know, not a really good friend, but still a friend. Do you tell him or her to watch out, to be careful of the person you have known for years, or do you let it play out?

You could talk to the person that does it.

It's like this one girl I knew she got pregnant, and she really didn't want an abortion, but I convinced her to get it and now we are all happy.

Originally posted by Bardock42
You could talk to the person that does it.

It's like this one girl I knew she got pregnant, and she really didn't want an abortion, but I convinced her to get it and now we are all happy.


Did she believe in Christ? 😂

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
Did she believe in Christ? 😂
Not afterwards.

She killed herself a few months later.

You're such a gas

Originally posted by smoker4
You're such a gas
speaking of gas, his parents died in a horrific gasoline accident.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
speaking of gas, his parents died in a horrific gasoline accident.
gasoline fight accident...actually.

ala Zoolander?

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
ala Zoolander?
that was the joke, I believe.

Originally posted by Bardock42
that was the joke, I believe.
Man, I didnt know if you were serious or not when you told me. FJ was like "Dude, he is joking. That's how he jokes." 😂

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
Man, I didnt know if you were serious or not when you told me. FJ was like "Dude, he is joking. That's how he jokes." 😂

Well, they say "Bardock works in mysterious ways".

I still can't believe FJ didn't take the blowjob thing as a joke...it was such a good one too.

well, we both took it the wrong way initially. no worries now.

Originally posted by BackFire
Tell your friend she's a piece of shit whore and to stop spreading AIDS.
True.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
Let's say a good friend of yours, someone you have known for years, is of the opposite sex. He or she hops from partner to partner, always leaving a broken heart. Then she happens to date someone you know, not a really good friend, but still a friend. Do you tell him or her to watch out, to be careful of the person you have known for years, or do you let it play out?
Considering that both of these hypothetical people are my friends, good or not, it wouldn't be fair to either one of them to take sides.

Being that the good friend is breaking hearts though, I think I may have to warn the lesser friend anyway, b/c what the good friend is wrong.

If the relationship wasn't serious and both of them were just having fun, then I guess I'd let it fly, but if the lesser friend was really falling for the good friend in a serious way, I'd talk to the better friend to see what their intentions were and tell them to end it if they planned on breaking the lesser friend's heart. If they refused, I'd go to the lesser friend and warn them.

Keep in mind this is all considering that I care.

Anata wa wakarimasu ka.....

Originally posted by InnerRise
Considering that both of these hypothetical people are my friends, good or not, it wouldn't be fair to either one of them to take sides.

Being that the good friend is breaking hearts though, I think I may have to warn the lesser friend anyway, b/c what the good friend is wrong.

If the relationship wasn't serious and both of them were just having fun, then I guess I'd let it fly, but if the lesser friend was really falling for the good friend in a serious way, I'd talk to the better friend to see what their intentions were and tell them to end it if they planned on breaking the lesser friend's heart. If they refused, I'd go to the lesser friend and warn them.

Keep in mind this is all considering that I care.

Anata wa wakarimasu ka.....

We should also keep in mind that your first sentence totally contradicts the second.

Originally posted by InnerRise
Considering that both of these hypothetical people are my friends, good or not, it wouldn't be fair to either one of them to take sides.

Being that the good friend is breaking hearts though, I think I may have to warn the lesser friend anyway, b/c what the good friend is wrong.

If the relationship wasn't serious and both of them were just having fun, then I guess I'd let it fly, but if the lesser friend was really falling for the good friend in a serious way, I'd talk to the better friend to see what their intentions were and tell them to end it if they planned on breaking the lesser friend's heart. If they refused, I'd go to the lesser friend and warn them.

Keep in mind this is all considering that I care.

Anata wa wakarimasu ka.....

my thoughts exactly.