Ive been bouncing from the east coast to the west so that alone has me busy. Not complaining about that though. Best of both worlds for what it is right now. But my sister is going through a very rough time (custoday battle) and stays with me on the east coast and while I know she has a lot on her plate.. she can still pick up after herself. Im not talking sharing only a house.. we share a bedroom while Im here.. she doesnt clean up after herself or her 3 year old so I do it. I dont mind most of the time but when she takes off to sleep at one of her friends house leaving her baby here crying and her mess... it tends to make me want to scream. I feel bad about that because she isnt normally like this. She needs support... and Im rambling. Sorry. 😮 bag
Originally posted by Shelbert LemonI clicked this thread by accident.....But I think you need a hug shockyes
Ive been bouncing from the east coast to the west so that alone has me busy. Not complaining about that though. Best of both worlds for what it is right now. But my sister is going through a very rough time (custoday battle) and stays with me on the east coast and while I know she has a lot on her plate.. she can still pick up after herself. Im not talking sharing only a house.. we share a bedroom while Im here.. she doesnt clean up after herself or her 3 year old so I do it. I dont mind most of the time but when she takes off to sleep at one of her friends house leaving her baby here crying and her mess... it tends to make me want to scream. I feel bad about that because she isnt normally like this. She needs support... and Im rambling. Sorry. 😮 bag
hug
And you deserve the right to ramble, dear 😛
Keep being being strong, and Im sure things will begin to look up eventually 🙂
no, thats very well alright.
i can understand that, Thats how i see my life in a few years, im Expecting that to happen, only im not nice enough to let it happen.
To deal with that much stress has to be hard on you, if you feel the need to scream, Scream, it cant hurt anyone if u let yourself feel better, unless you were guna go out and shoot some people.
in which case, Can i watch?
Originally posted by Wild-Cherryhug Thank you so muches... and I know.. everyone should be able to ramble now and then... but I tend to hold back. A habit I learned over the last 2 years.
I clicked this thread by accident.....But I think you need a hug shockyeshug
And you deserve the right to ramble, dear 😛
Keep being being strong, and Im sure things will begin to look up eventually 🙂
Originally posted by dave_kodakreally, in a few years.. you mean stress?
no, thats very well alright.i can understand that, Thats how i see my life in a few years, im Expecting that to happen, only im not nice enough to let it happen.
To deal with that much stress has to be hard on you, if you feel the need to scream, Scream, it cant hurt anyone if u let yourself feel better, unless you were guna go out and shoot some people.
in which case, Can i watch?
Id scream or hit something but I cant.. Im with my daughters and Id rather not scare them to much. They arent a part of my stress.. they actually are getting me through with a little bit of sanity. 🤪 ... 😊
you can watch.. but it would only be a water gun. shock
Originally posted by Shelbert Lemon
hug Thank you so muches... and I know.. everyone should be able to ramble now and then... but I tend to hold back. A habit I learned over the last 2 years.
and yeah.. Things always work out as they are meant to.
You're welcome ^.^
Venting is good sometimes 😉 Try not to keep too much in 🙂 You'll make yourself sick 🙁 hug
Originally posted by Shelbert Lemonyou can shoot me with a water gun, As long as im wearing a shirt, and its not cold water.
hug Thank you so muches... and I know.. everyone should be able to ramble now and then... but I tend to hold back. A habit I learned over the last 2 years.
and yeah.. Things always work out as they are meant to.really, in a few years.. you mean stress?
Id scream or hit something but I cant.. Im with my daughters and Id rather not scare them to much. They arent a part of my stress.. they actually are getting me through with a little bit of sanity. 🤪 ... 😊
you can watch.. but it would only be a water gun. shock
Shes right you do need a hug hug
Well why dont you drive out to like a park or something and scream?
Or pick up a movie with lots of death and guns shooting, If that calms you down, it works for me.
Well, Yes i mean in a few years, my sister is a B****, And she WILL try that, Just outa smight for me.
Well if ur kids are helping why not go and spend a day with them?
Originally posted by Wild-Cherry
You're welcome ^.^Venting is good sometimes 😉 Try not to keep too much in 🙂 You'll make yourself sick 🙁 hug
Originally posted by dave_kodakI know and your both right.. thanks group
you can shoot me with a water gun, As long as im wearing a shirt, and its not cold water.
or hot water.Shes right you do need a hug hug
Well why dont you drive out to like a park or something and scream?
Or pick up a movie with lots of death and guns shooting, If that calms you down, it works for me.
Well, Yes i mean in a few years, my sister is a B****, And she WILL try that, Just outa smight for me.Well if ur kids are helping why not go and spend a day with them?
a super soaker of sorts?
I couldnt shoot an unarmed man though. 😉
mmm I see.. stay on your toes and stay calm.. it seems to help. hug
Well Im staying with them so Im with them all the time unless I step out. I just put my youngest 2 and my niece to sleep. an hour ago. Im staying with them for the rest of the summer and getting them ready for school to start before going back to the west the end August. In this house is my ex-husband, my 4 daughters, my sister, my niece and myself.. then there are the pets. 🙄
Tomorrow is a different sisters bachelorette party. Bar hopping with about 11 other women. cheers
Originally posted by Shelbert LemonOh im Armed 😉
I know and your both right.. thanks groupa super soaker of sorts?
I couldnt shoot an unarmed man though. 😉mmm I see.. stay on your toes and stay calm.. it seems to help. hug
Well Im staying with them so Im with them all the time unless I step out. I just put my youngest 2 and my niece to sleep. an hour ago. Im staying with them for the rest of the summer and getting them ready for school to start before going back to the west the end August. In this house is my ex-husband, my 4 daughters, my sister, my niece and myself.. then there are the pets. 🙄
Tomorrow is a different sisters bachelorette party. Bar hopping with about 11 other women. cheers
Well Thats alot of people, must be a nice sized house.
im stuffed into a 2 bedroom apartment with 3 other guys, so i envy that space.
What do you do on the west?
Originally posted by dave_kodakYeah this is a decent size house. 5 bedrooms plus the usual lr, bathroom, dr, kitchen, laundry room. Nice yard in the back.
Oh im Armed 😉Well Thats alot of people, must be a nice sized house.
im stuffed into a 2 bedroom apartment with 3 other guys, so i envy that space.What do you do on the west?
Originally posted by dave_kodakok, thanks for the chat hun. hug take care & good night.
i would normaly stay and chat, but i gotta go to sleep now.Nighty night, and be well Shelbert