Female rape victims: Stop being weak and get over it.

Started by lord xyz32 pages

Originally posted by long pig
Maybe the thread title was offensive....

But still, why can't you female rape victims simply get over it? I mean, a guy beats you up and screws you and you're mentally unstable for the rest of your life. Why not just say" That sucked. Hope it doesn't happen again."?

I mean, when I got beat up, it didn't scar me for life. Of course I wasn't raped but that shit wouldn't scar me either. Do you know how many men in prison are raped? Do they become crazy crack smoking bastards for the rest of their life? No, they move on.

Honestly, can women be that weak of mind as to allow such a truly small event ruin their lives?

You're being sexist, a number of women have been raped and "got over it", just as there are men who didn't "get over it". Now I know that women react more, but that's probably due to genetic information.

Guys, he got a ****ing point. Why can't you talk about it like adult human beings?

Though the title and the wording of the post are clearly created in order to create 'controversy' (which clearly worked, seeing many of the hysterical answers), I think there is actually a level of truth within the concept.

I basically agree with- I mean, Bardock basically agrees with me:

Originally posted by Bardock42
I partly agree. Now I don't know the whole implications and everything, but it seems to me that it is blown out of proportion.
Originally posted by Bardock42
Nah, I'm serious, I mean if it was treated differently by society to begin with, the suffering of rape victims might decrease drastically.

The argument is framed a bit poorly initially, because by claiming all rape victims turn into hysterical fools (although you could have included many repliers to rape threads), the argument is actually undermined. The 'counter' to the argument: 'many rape victims do get over it' is in some ways support for what I feel is the actual idea being hinted at, which is that the response to the event is worsened by the general portrayal of the event.

Aside from all knee-jerk reactions, many rapes are much less of an event than many physical attacks, yet the fallouts are often disproportionate.

It's a hard topic to discuss though, because people tend to overreact in some vicarious oestrogen-raddled explosion.

The thread itself is a pre-emptive overreaction, and it is complemented by crazed replies:

Originally posted by vivando-loca
long pig, it's guys like you that make me wanna grab a sniper and empty it's contents right in some guy's f* face.
Originally posted by Naz
I hope you die a painful death.

and off-topic casualness:

Backfire: mmm raping.

Schecter: lolin powell ass semen *ejaculates*

Does anyone know anything about "rape" in non-human animals?

I know the concept is really odd, but do females in say a dog species become depressed if they are mated with against their will?

My general hypothesis is that it is not the rape that makes a woman go nuts afterwards, it is the predisposition of the woman and her feelings about power and ego that will likely play the biggest role in her feelings. I would actually suppose that meek and submissive women would not be as affected long term by it, but a strong feminist type would have a much more difficult road to recovery.

Originally posted by inimalist
Does anyone know anything about "rape" in non-human animals?

I know the concept is really odd, but do females in say a dog species become depressed if they are mated with against their will?

My general hypothesis is that it is not the rape that makes a woman go nuts afterwards, it is the predisposition of the woman and her feelings about power and ego that will likely play the biggest role in her feelings. I would actually suppose that meek and submissive women would not be as affected long term by it, but a strong feminist type would have a much more difficult road to recovery.

I suspect it might be the opposite.

in other psychological circumstances, such as insults, people with higher self esteem and ego are more likely to be hurt or react to them, while people with low self esteem are not as affected.

Its a matter of expectation, from my understanding. A person with low self esteem doesn't expect to be treated well because they don't feel they deserve it whereas the person with a strong ego will certainly experience some cognitive dissonance when someone insults them.

I could be totally off, I am just supposing that women who don't feel empowered wont think that the rape is avoidable whereas those who are will have their girl power world brought down around them.

Yeah, I know the phenomenon you are thinking about. I was considering it from a perspective of attitudes towards rape in the first place.

It's probably not concrete either way, because each 'set' of people obviously have, as individuals, many other aspects of their psychological make-up that impact upon such matters.

Originally posted by Victor Von Doom

and off-topic casualness:

Backfire: mmm raping.

Schecter: lolin powell ass semen *ejaculates*

i never said that, you....sweet piece of ass

Originally posted by Victor Von Doom
Yeah, I know the phenomenon you are thinking about. I was considering it from a perspective of attitudes towards rape in the first place.

It's probably not concrete either way, because each 'set' of people obviously have, as individuals, many other aspects of their psychological make-up that impact upon such matters.

ok 🙂

for sure there is no way that we could ever generalize these things, I think the point I wanted to make was that individual differences are the most important factor in determining the effect of a rape. Which you put much more concisely 😉

Originally posted by Victor Von Doom
I basically agree with- I mean, Bardock basically agrees with me:

Ha

Originally posted by Bardock42
Guys, he got a ****ing point. Why can't you talk about it like adult human beings?
Women are silly.

Re: Female rape victims: Stop being weak and get over it.

Originally posted by long pig
Maybe the thread title was offensive....

But still, why can't you female rape victims simply get over it? I mean, a guy beats you up and screws you and you're mentally unstable for the rest of your life. Why not just say" That sucked. Hope it doesn't happen again."?

I mean, when I got beat up, it didn't scar me for life. Of course I wasn't raped but that shit wouldn't scar me either. Do you know how many men in prison are raped? Do they become crazy crack smoking bastards for the rest of their life? No, they move on.

Honestly, can women be that weak of mind as to allow such a truly small event ruin their lives?

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Re: Re: Female rape victims: Stop being weak and get over it.

Originally posted by long pig
Honestly, can women be that weak of mind as to allow such a truly small event ruin their lives?

I'm not going to waste my time aon a well written retort to this moron. However, to the starter of this thread I feel compelled to say...
You're an idiot. Actually, you're a f*cking idiot.

Originally posted by BackFire
lol. What a lazy attempt at gaining attention.

That this post was posted by a Mod is another symptom of the reason that I hardly come here anymore. This place is definately going to sh*t.

Originally posted by Secretus
So, have you ever had a penis up you're ass without permission? Until that happens I wouldn't play a retarded Dr. Phil ...

How does one prove they've had a penis up there ass without permission other than it hurting?

Originally posted by Secretus
So, have you ever had a penis up you're ass without permission? Until that happens I wouldn't play a retarded Dr. Phil ...

Have you ever run the USA? No comment on Bush then.
Had an abortion or where even pregnant? Well, tough luck.
Married a same sex partner? Jesus, you can't comment on anything, can you?

Originally posted by Bardock42
Have you ever run the USA?
Had an abortion or where even pregnant?
Married a same sex partner?

Yes

Yes

And Yes

Originally posted by BackFire
Yes

Yes

And Yes

Dick in your butt? Oh right...talking to the wrong one here.

Quiet down, power bottom.

This is dead.