Originally posted by Rapidashoh that will do it, I know... Just before summer ended we couldn't get out of the rain either. The fall has been very nice though, the horses love it. I do 😄
It's been mutual then, Gillian 🙂 Glad to see you back and doing better than ever!I'm personally doing just perfectly over here. It's been raining for the past two weeks or something, so it's taking its toll on anyones mood 😄
I plan on sticking around here, and I hope you won't mind...
Originally posted by RapidashTheyre all doing well, I've been working a lot. i moved out of my house and into an appartment in a city a ways north. It's been too long Becci...
We had a beautiful summer! A shame our fall hasn't been quite as good. How are things with you and the horses, then? Been a while since we spoke, so not entirely sure how the days of your life are like nowdays 🙂Who would ever mind that? No one sane, that's for sure. Glad to have you here 😄
how are things going for you?
A place of your own? That's big! I'm happy for you 🙂 And it has, hasn't it? Must've been at least a couple of months. Too long for any two friends to be apart 😛
I have been alright. My life has really caught speed. Sadly, there has been some speedbumps, some more significant than other. Nothing I haven't recovered from, though 😄 I too live at a place of my own, and I've gotten myself a proper job. It's nothing advanced, but it's fun and exciting.
It was pretty big speedbumps, the kind where you retract from social life and loved ones and end up in the corner of your closet with a blanket over you 😉
I'm something of a receptionist. Not the most cerebral job in town, but I get to meet and help people, I get a cool headset and I get to say "Please hold" several times a day 🙂
Originally posted by RapidashI'm sorry to hear...I still do wish I could have been there, even if you didn't quite accept it.
It was pretty big speedbumps, the kind where you retract from social life and loved ones and end up in the corner of your closet with a blanket over you 😉I'm something of a receptionist. Not the most cerebral job in town, but I get to meet and help people, I get a cool headset and I get to say "Please hold" several times a day 🙂
Oh that sounds good. I'm glad you've found something steady. headsets are always fun. =P
Originally posted by RapidashThey usually do...but I'm glad you got over it, and I'm glad to see you here.
Oh I got over it rather quickly. Left some marks though, but what doesn't kill you 🙂It feels great to be on the other side of "Please hold" I must admit. It is almost the highlight of the job! 😄 And the headset, it's great. It's like two fluffy clouds around my head.
That sounds like a lot of fun xD
Originally posted by Cammii
It's up to people really, I mean if you want to get married,but the thing is that gay marriage is still banned in most states.Some do let two woman or two man get married. But the only place i know that you can marry more than one is south asia. But that is for a single man to marry more than one woman.Or marry a animal . Many love triangles are shuned upon,But i believe people should have the right to be in any type of relshonship they want. The only thing im a agenst really is a woman or man marrying a animal .I see no point there,but what ever makes someone happy should be allowed . Many people will turn there shoulder on.If three people can be happy with each other and all get along and shair and can work with that type of relshonship.You should just let it be because we can have the finger pointed back as a man and woman are wrong togather.But yet its more comman then gay couples or triangle or square relshonship.The other thing i don't like or don't get and dont think should be out there is a relshonship with 5 people and more,thats just a "sex group"
Everyone feels differnt,and put downs or stupid comments are really pointless.
I think this is a set up for guilt, jealousy and betrayal.Though one may 'love' multiples, the feelings, in my opinion, can never quite level off equally and will come at the expense of someone's happiness. Probably all three parties involved. Let's say A starts a triangular relationship with B and C. How long is it before B or C will feel jealousy? When one is put first, Betrayal, and supposing A is a person of moral he or she will feel guilt.
Some people find their relationships 'easier' if there is an outsider involved, and they can take comfort in them if a disagreement or argument occurs with the primary partner, but isn't that a relationship doomed to fail in the first place? If one can't be comforted by their lover it hardly seems to make sense at all.
As far as 'squares' go, I think even in this situation, human nature will take over and two people will be drawn to each other naturally or not at all. I truly believe that our ultimate human need for comfort overrides lust, which seems to throttle these kind of relationships. And it is also in my opinion that we as humans know no other comfort to be as nourishing as that of two people who can embrace and feel the utmost loyalty toward one another.
A triangular love relationship is nothing but greed and lust confused with love. You meet a nice person and you want more, so you involve a second. It is a narcissistic journey to please oneself in ways that you can not attain with a single partner. It is not love, it is greed.
Love is when you find faults in a person and accept them. Not when you find faults in a person and decide to fill them out with a third partner. The human mind is incapable of evenly distributing love. To not focus all your love on one person is to be cruel towards two as well as yourself.
When you want more than one person, it is not your mind and heart talking. It is your body and mind.
Originally posted by Cammiiheh I dunno. 🥷
How did this get taken over here lol.
Yea i understand where everyones coming from, but i mean if people are happy, i think thats what matter.If they can make thouse relshonships work,than they should be aloud to do so.
But yes, of course they're allowed. And If they can make that kind of thing work more power to 'em. Not for me though 🙂