SEX before MARRIAGE???

Originally posted by PITT_HAPPENS
What if he can't go deeper 😛 What about living together before getting married?

Originally posted by Punkyhermy
how old are you?

Sometimes I think this can cause problems in the marriage because I have known many people that got married sooner than they should because they wanted to have sex.

Originally posted by SelinaAndBruce
If he can't go deeper there are other things I am sure that can be done. Men with little penises get married too I imagine. They must have some trick to make up for it 😛 And no I would not live with a man before I married him.

That is just silly really. If you want sex so badly just have it. Don't marry when you don't want to for it.

Originally posted by PITT_HAPPENS
Now what if you got married and you found out the two of you were totally incompatible in bed 😉

Originally posted by PITT_HAPPENS
Why not live with him before, living with someone help you to truly find out what that person is like. Just dating you always show the best foot forward and living with them you have a all new look from the good to the bad and see the real personality.

Originally posted by SelinaAndBruce
😄 😄
It's nice not be alone. I only have one other friend who is abstinent.

haha. i don't think about it on a daily basis or something tho. its just a decision i've made. nothing more nothing less.*shrugs*my life doesn't reloved around the fact that i'm not having sex, if you get what i mean.

Originally posted by PITT_HAPPENS
What if he can't go deeper 😛 What about living together before getting married?

hmm sure. i don't mind. i don't really care if he's had partner's before either, not as long as he wasn't a manwhore. so as long as he's a good loving person, i'm all in.😊

Originally posted by Punkyhermy
haha. i don't think about it on a daily basis or something tho. its just a decision i've made. nothing more nothing less.*shrugs*my life doesn't reloved around the fact that i'm not having sex, if you get what i mean.

I think I am happier and more focused and fulfilled this way.

Originally posted by 2D_MASTER
How old are you two?

twenty.

Originally posted by PITT_HAPPENS
Sometimes I think this can cause problems in the marriage because I have known many people that got married sooner than they should because they wanted to have sex.

Originally posted by SelinaAndBruce

I think I am happier and more focused and fulfilled this way.

You can't be sure know.

Originally posted by teh_perfection
That is just silly really. If you want sex so badly just have it. Don't marry when you don't want to for it.

yeah. exactly.

if you wanna have sex. go ahead.

if you want to wait .wait.
people make it more complicated than it is.

Originally posted by Punkyhermy
yeah. exactly.

if you wanna have sex. go ahead.

if you want to wait .wait.
people make it more complicated than it is.

✅

Originally posted by Punkyhermy
twenty.

Awesome, not too many girls can hold their resolve that long, I think it's great that you have.

Originally posted by teh_perfection
You can't be sure know.

Originally posted by 2D_MASTER
Awesome, not too many girls can hold their resolve that long, I think it's great that you have.

Originally posted by SelinaAndBruce
I think from watching my friends relationships crumble I can say that I would not be happy dating the way they do.

Well you will never know completly will you. But well done.

Originally posted by Punkyhermy
that very rarely if ever occurs and is never a problem that can't be worked on. i know what i'm getting myself into no worries.😉

Very rarely if ever happens? And is something that can be worked on?

I'd say it probably happens a lot more than you'd think (if divorce statistics are something to go by), and isn't something that can always be solved.