Originally posted by charlemagne9746
Can't tell you that....cause I don't really know you...lolbut, I hope to the good Lord that you're better than my ex
It was sarcasm. You'll learn to catch it. It's practically a second language for me.
Everyone hopes a person is better than their ex. Unless they got dumped, in which case they usually don't think they could ever be as good as.
my ex left me five times...each time just disappearing without sayin' goodbye, screw you...anything. She'd call back about a month or so later..wantin' me back...and i'd always go back for some reason...well, cause I loved her. She did it again over a month ago now....just vanishing...and I don't even know the reason why. but, I absolutely can not take her back again...it isn't worth it
Originally posted by charlemagne9746
my ex left me five times...each time just disappearing without sayin' goodbye, screw you...anything. She'd call back about a month or so later..wantin' me back...and i'd always go back for some reason...well, cause I loved her. She did it again over a month ago now....just vanishing...and I don't even know the reason why. but, I absolutely can not take her back again...it isn't worth it
No ones worth that. You deserve better.
Originally posted by charlemagne9746
my ex left me five times...each time just disappearing without sayin' goodbye, screw you...anything. She'd call back about a month or so later..wantin' me back...and i'd always go back for some reason...well, cause I loved her. She did it again over a month ago now....just vanishing...and I don't even know the reason why. but, I absolutely can not take her back again...it isn't worth it
Way to stick to your guns.
She is obviously doing something bad.
Get rid of that piece of crap. No matter how much you love her...do not give into her sick games. I have "kicked" so many pieces of shit out of my life to get to my wife. There are good women out there and there are good men(If you are a girl reading this)...you just have to keep searching.
Originally posted by dadudemon
Way to stick to your guns.She is obviously doing something bad.
Get rid of that piece of crap. No matter how much you love her...do not give into her sick games. I have "kicked" so many pieces of shit out of my life to get to my wife. There are good women out there and there are good men(If you are a girl reading this)...you just have to keep searching.
What he said.
Originally posted by charlemagne9746
well, she was my fiance actually...she was so perfect...I could see myself with my arms around here while sittin' on our front porch swing when we're 80....but, not anymore...she effectively killed it.
Its going to take a lot of time, but you've got to get over her dear.
Originally posted by charlemagne9746
well, she was my fiance actually...she was so perfect...I could see myself with my arms around here while sittin' on our front porch swing when we're 80....but, not anymore...she effectively killed it.
Be honest with me...we are both men here...
Did you treat her right? Did you verbally abuse her, did you pay attention to her enough, did you give her sex whenever she wanted AND whenever she didn't, did you bring her to climax during your sex, do you work and make enough money to buy nice things everynow and then, were you good with your money, did you ever want children and talk about it with her, did you treat her friends and her family right, do you look at porn, did you show legitimate concern for her concerns and did you listen when she talked to you, did you give her compliments everday like 5 to 10 times, AND did you keep the lord in your relationship? (If you are not religious...disregard that last statement.)
Originally posted by dadudemon
Be honest with me...we are both men here...Did you treat her right? Did you verbally abuse her, did you pay attention to her enough, did you give her sex whenever she wanted AND whenever she didn't, did you bring her to climax during your sex, do you work and make enough money to buy nice things everynow and then, were you good with your money, did you ever want children and talk about it with her, did you treat her friends and her family right, do you look at porn, did you show legitimate concern for her concerns and did you listen when she talked to you, did you give her compliments everday like 5 to 10 times, AND did you keep the lord in your relationship? (If you are not religious...disregard that last statement.)
In all honesty....we never fought nor argued. Every moment we shared was better than the last...that's what confuses me the most about her leaving. The only problem we had was her parents. They were Pentecostals...and I wasn't...and they didn't want her to date me. What's sad..is they never got to know me. I've only met them once in the two years I knew her. I loved her with all my heart. Yes, I'd compliment her every chance I got. I'd pull on the side of the road..make her close her eyes...and give her some wildflowers growin' on the side of the road. We'd go for long rides...she'd have her head in my lap...and i'd run my fingers through her hair and across her face. I'd do papers for her in college...there's nothin' I wouldn't do for her.
Originally posted by charlemagne9746
In all honesty....we never fought nor argued. Every moment we shared was better than the last...that's what confuses me the most about her leaving. The only problem we had was her parents. They were Pentecostals...and I wasn't...and they didn't want her to date me. What's sad..is they never got to know me. I've only met them once in the two years I knew her. I loved her with all my heart. Yes, I'd compliment her every chance I got. I'd pull on the side of the road..make her close her eyes...and give her some wildflowers growin' on the side of the road. We'd go for long rides...she'd have her head in my lap...and i'd run my fingers through her hair and across her face. I'd do papers for her in college...there's nothin' I wouldn't do for her.
but i'v learned that without fighting or atleast a little argument or dissagreement it probably isn't a healthy relationship
Originally posted by Commando Queen
aw thats really cute 🙂but i'v learned that without fighting or atleast a little argument or dissagreement it probably isn't a healthy relationship
Right...no two people can be perfect...there was things that were not talked about in the relationship that should have been...else why would she leave?
Originally posted by Commando Queen
aw thats really cute 🙂but i'v learned that without fighting or atleast a little argument or dissagreement it probably isn't a healthy relationship
it would seem that way...but, we really had nothin' to fight about...we always talked about everything. Even if we didn't agree on something....we immediately respected each others position.
Originally posted by dadudemon
Right...no two people can be perfect...there was things that were not talked about in the relationship that should have been...else why would she leave?
good question....i was absolutely honest with her about everything....but, apparently she hasn't been...and I guess I'll never know why
Originally posted by Commando Queen
aw thats really cute 🙂but i'v learned that without fighting or atleast a little argument or dissagreement it probably isn't a healthy relationship
Originally posted by dadudemon
Right...no two people can be perfect...there was things that were not talked about in the relationship that should have been...else why would she leave?
Obviously because that's not what she wanted. She's stupid for not realizing what she had, she ends up missing it too otherwise she wouldn't ever come back. The point is though, at some point you just need to be done with it.