Are you shy with them?

Originally posted by C. C. Cowgirl
[b]Not really? Then what is the problem? 😛

I see no point in getting embaressed or shy around people at all ermm [/B]

Originally posted by C. C. Cowgirl
[b]
I see no point in getting embaressed or shy around people at all ermm [/B]

Originally posted by miss_swann
getting emabarassed is a waste of time. Gettting shy is understandable.

I mean, big deal! If you make a fool out of yourself and people laugh at you without you wishing for it, then you are too good for them 🙂

If you can not be yourself, be with other people. There is no reason at all to be shy 😄

Originally posted by miss_swann
getting emabarassed is a waste of time. Gettting shy is understandable.

I can understand blushing if you get complimented 🙂 I blush a lot at times 😄

But hesitate to speak because you are afraid of the response or such, is just stupidity 😛

Originally posted by C. C. Cowgirl
[b]I mean, big deal! If you make a fool out of yourself and people laugh at you without you wishing for it, then you are too good for them 🙂

If you can not be yourself, be with other people. There is no reason at all to be shy 😄

I can understand blushing if you get complimented 🙂 I blush a lot at times 😄

But hesitate to speak because you are afraid of the response or such, is just stupidity 😛 [/B]

I don't rate embarasment and blushing from compliments together.

I think shy is understandable because you don't know what someone is like so I hold back until I work out if they're a waste of my time or if they're nice. Then I start being loud.

Originally posted by miss_swann
I don't rate embarasment and blushing from compliments together.

I think shy is understandable because you don't know what someone is like so I hold back until I work out if they're a waste of my time or if they're nice. Then I start being loud.

If you hold back you are not yourself! If you are not yourself and you start to like the person, how do you know if he likes you or the one you pretend to be?

By not saying things you wish to say, the person you are with starts liking the one you are acting to be 🙂

Be yourself to a 100% or you will wind up with problems 😄

If they do not like you for you, they are a waste of time ✅

If you hold yourself back from being you, you are wasting your own time shockyes

Originally posted by C. C. Cowgirl
[b]If you hold back you are not yourself! If you are not yourself and you start to like the person, how do you know if he likes you or the one you pretend to be?

By not saying things you wish to say, the person you are with starts liking the one you are acting to be 🙂

Be yourself to a 100% or you will wind up with problems 😄

If they do not like you for you, they are a waste of time ✅

If you hold yourself back from being you, you are wasting your own time shockyes [/B]

Im really shy/quiet around people Im not familiar with.. guy or girl.

If I don't know them I OBSERVE and then get irritating.

Originally posted by miss_swann
If I don't know them I OBSERVE and then get irritating.

because you don't know how they will take your personality and madness so hold back see how they think and then jump in.

Originally posted by miss_swann
because you don't know how they will take your personality and madness so hold back see how they think and then jump in.

*shrugs* I make no sense

By doing that you might be missing out on new friends 🙂

Getting a friend or relationship is mutual work. If both would observe it would not wind up very well at all. Someone has to make a first step 😄

If you make the first step and show yourself then the first impression is from yourself and not a fake you. The first impression is of high importance always 😄

What if he loves you for being quiet and observing and you like the guy when he is being himself? Then you get the problem that you do not want to scare him away by being yourself! Which is what got you into the mess in the first place 😄

Be yourself mhm

Originally posted by miss_swann
because I can't laugh at them because I have no reason to make fun of them. I make boys embarassed.

Originally posted by C. C. Cowgirl
[b]By doing that you might be missing out on new friends 🙂

Getting a friend or relationship is mutual work. If both would observe it would not wind up very well at all. Someone has to make a first step 😄

If you make the first step and show yourself then the first impression is from yourself and not a fake you. The first impression is of high importance always 😄

What if he loves you for being quiet and observing and you like the guy when he is being himself? Then you get the problem that you do not want to scare him away by being yourself! Which is what got you into the mess in the first place 😄

Be yourself mhm [/B]

There is a lot of wise stuff, but I do observe a lot of the time so it wouldn't be a false impression.

Originally posted by TRH
Hail thee wise one

hug

Originally posted by miss_swann
wise stuff is very wise

It is what I will be getting paid for hopefully 😛