I had crappy day, yesterday.

Started by dadudemon2 pages

I had crappy day, yesterday.

Sit down, guys, I've got a story for you...

I was going to work, my tire blew and nearly shredded on the highway. I pulled over onto the shoulder. Nothing but Semi's are driving in the far right lane, so I've got these Semi Trucks flying past me at 70+ miles an hour just 2 feet away from me WHILE I am trying to jack up my car...the wind from the trucks is probably enough to knock a small child over. I get the car jacked up and I bust out my lug nut wrench and IT IS THE WRONG SIZE!!! somehow, my front tires ended up with different sized nuts than the rear tires...URRRGHH!! I call "work" and ask a coworker to come by with larger Lug nut wrench...I wait in the blistering sun for 40 mins and I get the tire replaced with the donut.....

When I got to work, we were busy as hell...two network drive crashed and the phone was ringing off the hook. (These network drives were used nationally by thousands of people.)

Later that day, I had to go to the doctor's office for my wife to get an IUD. My wife is a "small" lady so the doc could not get the IUD in all the way and had to take it out. No sex for a week because of the damage of putting in and taking out the IUD. We still haven't had sex after the c-section...

That means we can't have sex without a contraceptive.

To make it worse, my wife told the doc that it hurts at first when we start to have sex so later during the appointment the doctor talked to me about that: basically, the Doc thinks I have a big penis and that I am rough with my wife during intercourse.... 🙁 I am nothing but gentle with my wife AND I take it slow 🙁 and, honestly, I have an average size penis.

So my wife's gyno thinks I am a big dicked jerk and I can't have sex for a week after holding out for 8 weeks and on top of that, we can't have sex without a condom. (I don't think it is THAT bad to have to use condoms...) It will be 9...count them 9 weeks before I can get to "know" my wife again....🙁

After we left the doctors office, we both were grumpy because we both wanted the IUD to work. (No hormones involved.)

THEN, I figured out that I don't have enough Paid Time Off for my sisters wedding so I have had to come into work early everyday to make up for it...THEN my wife called me after the doctors appointment (Because I went back to work...I work till 8 PM.) to ask me to take her half way to Tulsa to meet up with her mother because MY sister wanted to try on my wife's wedding dress so she didn't have to buy a new one. (The dress is stored at my mother-in-law's house.) My mother-in-law didn't want my little sister coming over and being there with just those two there because she didn't know my sister and thought it would be scary. I got pissed and said "not no but hell no" because my little sister wanted my wife to go out of her way with two small children during the hot summer and my mother-in-law was just being difficult.

Yesterday was a very very crappy day. Sorry this post was long...just wanted to vent to somebody.

eep. shock

hug

I bet your wife will lighten up 🙂 And hope things get easier.

Is this serious?

If so, 🙁 petpet.

If not, 😐 haermm.

Masturbation?

Sorry to hear that, dadudemon hug

You will see that everything will work out fine ✅

Just seems like there has been a lot of things happening lately, and that might cause unbalance for many people hug

Aww, poor you. However, you make my life seem so great.

Sorry, hope your wifey gets better.

Seriously, you guys are so very nice. I am glad to be part of KMC. I feel a lot better now that you guys have given me your kind words.

I'm going to go home and hold my wife for a long time...I think we both need that.

again, thanks guys...you're the best.

Originally posted by dadudemon
Seriously, you guys are so very nice. I am glad to be part of KMC. I feel a lot better now that you guys have given me your kind words.

I'm going to go home and hold my wife for a long time...I think we both need that.

again, thanks guys...you're the best.

hey, it's forums are for.

I said that to be interpretated any way you want. I would still mean it.

What a rough day, I hope things get better for you.

Well.....the only word I can really say for you and your wife is..... oral? 😂

Not good at this type of thing.

"Keep trucking soldier. You can achieve anything you put your mind to."

😕

*Quickly Leaves*

anata wa wakarimasu ka.....

Originally posted by dadudemon
Seriously, you guys are so very nice. I am glad to be part of KMC. I feel a lot better now that you guys have given me your kind words.

I'm going to go home and hold my wife for a long time...I think we both need that.

again, thanks guys...you're the best.

so how is it going now?

everything ok?

worked out the sex issue? there are ways around it

hope you're both ok 🙂

I am sorry
Do hope that your wife gets better and you have better days soon

Originally posted by S_D_J
so how is it going now?

everything ok?

worked out the sex issue? there are ways around it

hope you're both ok 🙂

We figured that because she hadn't had text book sex in a while...she wasn't quite "ready" for the implant. "Things" tightened up after 3 months. (We didn't have "sex" sex about a month before she was due...we did "other" things for the last month.)

When we first got married, it took us about month of sex at least once a day before sex wasn't uncomfortable for her. She figures that if we have intercourse everyday for the next month an a half, by the time her next appointment comes around in October, she should be "ready" for the IUD with no problems. She does NOT want to do the hormone stuff because of the side effects AND she hates relying on a condom and refuses to use the diaphragm because it is uncomfortable and awkward.

We are both very happy now and I got my tire replaced Friday.

Thanks for askin' bro. Peace my KMC peeps and thanks again for the love.

That sucks dude, hope everything turned out okay, well I mean it seems it did.

I fail. haermm

Life can really suck, huh? All I'll tell you is only the strong survive. The weak must perish. Sometimes it seems as though fate hates you, but it's up to you to determine how you feel about and handle these difficult situations. Just continue to be there for your wife, be strong and stay strong.

Poor you. My 21 year old friend, married at 20, is getting a divorce. Now he's living in my room with me.

Originally posted by Reverend Axel
Poor you. My 21 year old friend, married at 20, is getting a divorce. Now he's living in my room with me.

As long as he is your friend...it should be fun...but yeah, I don't really think it is cool to get married so young.

Originally posted by Grinning Goku
Life can really suck, huh? All I'll tell you is only the strong survive. The weak must perish. Sometimes it seems as though fate hates you, but it's up to you to determine how you feel about and handle these difficult situations. Just continue to be there for your wife, be strong and stay strong.

Yeah, things don't get me down...ever. It was just all of those things in the same day that really sucked...any one or even two of those things in the same day would have been fine. I was just being a whiny b*tch and I am over it now...thanks to my loving wife and my friends here at KMC.

I needed to vent and for someone to give me encouraging words and you guys came through for me.

Originally posted by Röland
That sucks dude, hope everything turned out okay, well I mean it seems it did.

I fail. haermm

Nah...your fine bro. Thanks man.

Originally posted by dadudemon
As long as he is your friend...it should be fun...but yeah, I don't really think it is cool to get married so young.
Okay. I'm not about to argue. Whatever.