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Re: advice greatly needed.
Originally posted by Antoinette
so some people may remeber the last question i had.
well this ones different.here it goes...
Me and my boyfriend now have been dating for 4 months.
i love him so much, and he loves me.
but my jealousy is the major problem and it bothers him.
hes a true chrisitian and would never cheat on him.
but i guess its my past experiences that throw me off.
he lives 45 mins away so i cant see him that much only on weekends,
and he doesnt have a prolbem with that..he said he knows i m here and thats all that matters..
well we keep arguing...
over stupid stuff.
i get angry so quickly.
i think i have bipolar but idk..
we text alot and stuff.
but anyways..
last night was the worst ever...
the pain was undescriable...
he said he cant take it anymore..
he needs a break...
but i said i cant take one..
its either we break up now or give it another shot.
he said i have one more chance.
so now i cant get jealous but if i do, i cant make a big deal about it but still tell him about it...
he still says he wants to marry me one day..
and all i have to do is stop my attitude and jealousy..
how can i stop guys?
i have to act happpy even if i m not for the sack of us..
its really hard..
i get annoyed easily about little stuff..
and whenever we talk on the phone..
he sounds blah and not really talktive..
and i m like "corey do you not want to give in another shot..your not talking"
but he said hes a man of his word and that he does want to..
but when i asked if he wanted a break again today..
he said idk.
but than i gave him the same sppecch about that i cant be on one..we break up or not..
and he said no.
just stop worrying, trust me, and dont fight about every little thing...
so any advice guys?
Ask yourself these questions.Do I still love him?Do we find out selves having disargeements all the time?Do you think he loves me?If you had answear no that you do't love him anymore.
Then yea break out.I would take a break from the guy just to see what happens.You guys can always make up at any given time.jm 🙂
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Re: advice greatly needed.
Originally posted by Antoinette
so some people may remeber the last question i had.
well this ones different.here it goes...
Me and my boyfriend now have been dating for 4 months.
i love him so much, and he loves me.
but my jealousy is the major problem and it bothers him.
hes a true chrisitian and would never cheat on him.
but i guess its my past experiences that throw me off.
he lives 45 mins away so i cant see him that much only on weekends,
and he doesnt have a prolbem with that..he said he knows i m here and thats all that matters..
well we keep arguing...
over stupid stuff.
i get angry so quickly.
i think i have bipolar but idk..
we text alot and stuff.
but anyways..
last night was the worst ever...
the pain was undescriable...
he said he cant take it anymore..
he needs a break...
but i said i cant take one..
its either we break up now or give it another shot.
he said i have one more chance.
so now i cant get jealous but if i do, i cant make a big deal about it but still tell him about it...
he still says he wants to marry me one day..
and all i have to do is stop my attitude and jealousy..
how can i stop guys?
i have to act happpy even if i m not for the sack of us..
its really hard..
i get annoyed easily about little stuff..
and whenever we talk on the phone..
he sounds blah and not really talktive..
and i m like "corey do you not want to give in another shot..your not talking"
but he said hes a man of his word and that he does want to..
but when i asked if he wanted a break again today..
he said idk.
but than i gave him the same sppecch about that i cant be on one..we break up or not..
and he said no.
just stop worrying, trust me, and dont fight about every little thing...
so any advice guys?
Just love him and stop being so jealous. If you know in your heart that he loves you, then you have nothing to worry about, also, compare your current BF to any who may of cheated on you in the past, and if he really is as great as you make him out to be, you should realize that there is no way he would cheat on you. God I feel gay right now.
EDIT: You guys are dicks. She asked a serious question and you all pick on her, Jesus Christ man.