advice greatly needed.

Started by Kelly_Bean7 pages

Originally posted by Antoinette
so some people may remeber the last question i had.
well this ones different.

here it goes...

Me and my boyfriend now have been dating for 4 months.
i love him so much, and he loves me.
but my jealousy is the major problem and it bothers him.
hes a true chrisitian and would never cheat on him.
but i guess its my past experiences that throw me off.
he lives 45 mins away so i cant see him that much only on weekends,
and he doesnt have a prolbem with that..he said he knows i m here and thats all that matters..

well we keep arguing...
over stupid stuff.
i get angry so quickly.
i think i have bipolar but idk..

we text alot and stuff.
but anyways..

last night was the worst ever...

the pain was undescriable...
he said he cant take it anymore..
he needs a break...
but i said i cant take one..

its either we break up now or give it another shot.

he said i have one more chance.

so now i cant get jealous but if i do, i cant make a big deal about it but still tell him about it...

he still says he wants to marry me one day..
and all i have to do is stop my attitude and jealousy..

how can i stop guys?
i have to act happpy even if i m not for the sack of us..

its really hard..
i get annoyed easily about little stuff..
and whenever we talk on the phone..
he sounds blah and not really talktive..
and i m like "corey do you not want to give in another shot..your not talking"
but he said hes a man of his word and that he does want to..
but when i asked if he wanted a break again today..
he said idk.
but than i gave him the same sppecch about that i cant be on one..we break up or not..
and he said no.

just stop worrying, trust me, and dont fight about every little thing...

so any advice guys?


What's your jealousy over? (Mainly).

Originally posted by Kelly_Bean
What's your jealousy over? (Mainly).

Girls hotter than her.

Which is the main jealousy issue for mostly any girl with some sort of guy whose looks are socially acceptable.

I leave you now with peace of mind knowing an ugly girl is mourning somewhere because she thinks she might lose her boyfriend to someone hotter than her, when in actuality, the realtionship will keel over and die because she in fact, is being an emo piece of shit. 😐

Re: advice greatly needed.

Originally posted by Antoinette
so some people may remeber the last question i had.
well this ones different.

here it goes...

Me and my boyfriend now have been dating for 4 months.
i love him so much, and he loves me.
but my jealousy is the major problem and it bothers him.
hes a true chrisitian and would never cheat on him.
but i guess its my past experiences that throw me off.
he lives 45 mins away so i cant see him that much only on weekends,
and he doesnt have a prolbem with that..he said he knows i m here and thats all that matters..

well we keep arguing...
over stupid stuff.
i get angry so quickly.
i think i have bipolar but idk..

we text alot and stuff.
but anyways..

last night was the worst ever...

the pain was undescriable...
he said he cant take it anymore..
he needs a break...
but i said i cant take one..

its either we break up now or give it another shot.

he said i have one more chance.

so now i cant get jealous but if i do, i cant make a big deal about it but still tell him about it...

he still says he wants to marry me one day..
and all i have to do is stop my attitude and jealousy..

how can i stop guys?
i have to act happpy even if i m not for the sack of us..

its really hard..
i get annoyed easily about little stuff..
and whenever we talk on the phone..
he sounds blah and not really talktive..
and i m like "corey do you not want to give in another shot..your not talking"
but he said hes a man of his word and that he does want to..
but when i asked if he wanted a break again today..
he said idk.
but than i gave him the same sppecch about that i cant be on one..we break up or not..
and he said no.

just stop worrying, trust me, and dont fight about every little thing...

so any advice guys?

Ask yourself these questions.Do I still love him?Do we find out selves having disargeements all the time?Do you think he loves me?If you had answear no that you do't love him anymore.
Then yea break out.I would take a break from the guy just to see what happens.You guys can always make up at any given time.jm 🙂

Originally posted by Vathu
Girls hotter than her.

Which is the main jealousy issue for mostly any girl with some sort of guy whose looks are socially acceptable.

I leave you now with peace of mind knowing an ugly girl is mourning somewhere because she thinks she might lose her boyfriend to someone hotter than her, when in actuality, the realtionship will keel over and die because she in fact, is being an emo piece of shit. 😐


Eh...yeah I can see where she's coming from. But she's not really being emo, but this isn't Love-Line and there are advice threads around.

Originally posted by Antoinette
so some people may remeber the last question i had.
well this ones different.

here it goes...

Me and my boyfriend now have been dating for 4 months.
i love him so much, and he loves me.
but my jealousy is the major problem and it bothers him.
hes a true chrisitian and would never cheat on him.
but i guess its my past experiences that throw me off.
he lives 45 mins away so i cant see him that much only on weekends,
and he doesnt have a prolbem with that..he said he knows i m here and thats all that matters..

well we keep arguing...
over stupid stuff.
i get angry so quickly.
i think i have bipolar but idk..

we text alot and stuff.
but anyways..

last night was the worst ever...

the pain was undescriable...
he said he cant take it anymore..
he needs a break...
but i said i cant take one..

its either we break up now or give it another shot.

he said i have one more chance.

so now i cant get jealous but if i do, i cant make a big deal about it but still tell him about it...

he still says he wants to marry me one day..
and all i have to do is stop my attitude and jealousy..

how can i stop guys?
i have to act happpy even if i m not for the sack of us..

its really hard..
i get annoyed easily about little stuff..
and whenever we talk on the phone..
he sounds blah and not really talktive..
and i m like "corey do you not want to give in another shot..your not talking"
but he said hes a man of his word and that he does want to..
but when i asked if he wanted a break again today..
he said idk.
but than i gave him the same sppecch about that i cant be on one..we break up or not..
and he said no.

just stop worrying, trust me, and dont fight about every little thing...

so any advice guys?

Be greatful he lives 45 mins from you and not 4-5 hours. I split up with mine for personal reasons and its killing me.

Stop getting so jealous, the guy loves and you and he is giving you another chance.

Take this chance and learn to appreicate what you got before its gone.

Because he might not give you another one.

Food for thought How many chances do you need to give a cheeter to change his spots.

None because he can never change.

Originally posted by ADarksideJedi
Ask yourself these questions.Do I still love him?Do we find out selves having disargeements all the time?Do you think he loves me?If you had answear no that you do't love him anymore.
Then yea break out.I would take a break from the guy just to see what happens.You guys can always make up at any given time.jm 🙂

Actually, I think if she answers no to the first question then she doesn't love him.

Every one after that makes no relevance to the first question.

Are you retarded?

I'm sorry. Let me be politically correct.

Are you Retarded?

Originally posted by Kelly_Bean
Eh...yeah I can see where she's coming from. But she's not really being emo, but this isn't Love-Line and there are advice threads around.

No it isn't a love-line for problems and it isn't a forum based on popularity either buts that's what it has turned in to.

Just give the girl a break she asked for advice not to be attacked.

Originally posted by Vathu
Actually, I think if she answers no to the first question then she doesn't love him.

Every one after that makes no relevance to the first question.

Are you retarded?

I'm sorry. Let me be politically correct.

Are you Retarded?

Since when were you so great? Back off of her.

Originally posted by Passione
No it isn't a love-line for problems and it isn't a forum based on popularity either buts that's what it has turned in to.

Just give the girl a break she asked for advice not to be attacked.

Why don't you give us a break.

It's the internet.

Attacking retards who ask advice for the most obvious ****ing questions is what makes the internet The Internet.

Well...

Besides boobies.

😂 LOLZORZ

Originally posted by SelphieT
Since when were you so great? Back off of her.

Why don't you re-read her comment.

She basically added three other questions with one answer that was relevant to one of the four questions, the first.

In closing, she is in fact, a "Special person."

amirite? LOL.

Originally posted by Vathu
Why don't you give us a break.

It's the internet.

Attacking retards who ask advice for the most obvious ****ing questions is what makes the internet The Internet.

Well...

Besides boobies.

Excuse me!

She asked for advice from people she gets on with and you make it your point to attack her. You know I read in a report that cyber bullying is at a high! Ans I can plainly see why!

Just because you have been here longer than me does not make you better than me.

Originally posted by SelphieT
Since when were you so great? Back off of her.

He makes a valid point.

Originally posted by Tattoo
He makes a valid point.

He does have a point but he didn't need to be a dick about it.

Originally posted by Röland
He does have a point but he didn't need to be a dick about it.

But it's to Jackie...ermm...she is retarded.

Re: advice greatly needed.

Originally posted by Antoinette
so some people may remeber the last question i had.
well this ones different.

here it goes...

Me and my boyfriend now have been dating for 4 months.
i love him so much, and he loves me.
but my jealousy is the major problem and it bothers him.
hes a true chrisitian and would never cheat on him.
but i guess its my past experiences that throw me off.
he lives 45 mins away so i cant see him that much only on weekends,
and he doesnt have a prolbem with that..he said he knows i m here and thats all that matters..

well we keep arguing...
over stupid stuff.
i get angry so quickly.
i think i have bipolar but idk..

we text alot and stuff.
but anyways..

last night was the worst ever...

the pain was undescriable...
he said he cant take it anymore..
he needs a break...
but i said i cant take one..

its either we break up now or give it another shot.

he said i have one more chance.

so now i cant get jealous but if i do, i cant make a big deal about it but still tell him about it...

he still says he wants to marry me one day..
and all i have to do is stop my attitude and jealousy..

how can i stop guys?
i have to act happpy even if i m not for the sack of us..

its really hard..
i get annoyed easily about little stuff..
and whenever we talk on the phone..
he sounds blah and not really talktive..
and i m like "corey do you not want to give in another shot..your not talking"
but he said hes a man of his word and that he does want to..
but when i asked if he wanted a break again today..
he said idk.
but than i gave him the same sppecch about that i cant be on one..we break up or not..
and he said no.

just stop worrying, trust me, and dont fight about every little thing...

so any advice guys?

Just love him and stop being so jealous. If you know in your heart that he loves you, then you have nothing to worry about, also, compare your current BF to any who may of cheated on you in the past, and if he really is as great as you make him out to be, you should realize that there is no way he would cheat on you. God I feel gay right now.

EDIT: You guys are dicks. She asked a serious question and you all pick on her, Jesus Christ man.

Originally posted by Kelly_Bean
But she's not really being emo, but this isn't Love-Line and there are advice threads around.

Exactly.

That's what 4-chan is for.

Getting all the attention you need while getting maybe one or two posts that really counts as advice.

That's what makes advice threads in 4-chan a true monument to The Internet.

Everywhere else on there is basically infested with pedophiles, people who like to 'get to know' house-hold pets and maybe sometimes gold-hearted people who actually care about the problems of others.

Originally posted by Tattoo
But it's to Jackie...ermm...she is retarded.

Alright, well I didn't know that.

Originally posted by SelphieT
Alright, well I didn't know that.

It's easy to tell from her posts.

Failure to use the space bar.

Which sometimes I assume because it's broken or she just doesn't have one. hmm

Originally posted by Passione
Excuse me!

She asked for advice from people she gets on with and you make it your point to attack her. You know I read in a report that cyber bullying is at a high! Ans I can plainly see why!

Just because you have been here longer than me does not make you better than me.

*does the Z snap*