Originally posted by Grinning GokuHobbies, drugs and other people is a good way to forget. But is forgetting really the solution?
Man, I find it's best to have a hobby or hobbies to drown your sorrows in and take your mind off shit like that. That or beer, vodka or strip clubs or some wicked combination of the three.
It's a gradual process. It's also one of putting yourself in the other persons shoes to see what they are going through also....In the end, people can become good friends with understanding, since we are all people with the same feelings and experiences to some point....better to keep all things friendly if possible and both are open to it.
Originally posted by SelphieT
I typically think about how much I hate myself, and how much I don't blame them for leaving. So, I self loathe, for a couple days, then pretend, or try to pretend everything is peachy keen. Shouldn't take longer than a month, if that.
try 2 and a half years. {or 6-7 years for a previous one}
Originally posted by leonheartmm
try 2 and a half years. {or 6-7 years for a previous one}
Oh geez, I try not to stay heartbroken for longer than a month. That sucks dude.
No matter how many times people tell you, "There's so many fish in the sea" or whatever the f*ck they say, it doesn't make it any better. It might at first, but it still blows Scythe balls.
I always use the line, "If it didn't work out, it wasn't meant to be" for others, but I never use it for myself, because I guess somedays, I just like feeling like shit.
Originally posted by debbiejo
It's a gradual process. It's also one of putting yourself in the other persons shoes to see what they are going through also....In the end, people can become good friends with understanding, since we are all people with the same feelings and experiences to some point....better to keep all things friendly if possible and both are open to it.
what if she totally hates you{not hate-hate. just anger/on the surface justified hate due to misunderstanding} n you decidedly DONT wanna forget her?{n still no suicide}
Originally posted by leonheartmm
try 2 and a half years. {or 6-7 years for a previous one}
Originally posted by leonheartmm
{n dont forget im 19!}
If both of these things are true, it would mean that almost half of your total life, and all of mature life, has been spent in a feeling of self loathing.
It may serve you better to explore why you hate yourself rather than why others hate you.