Sadly, I hate to admit, my mother.
I moved in with my dad a few months ago, because my mother is emotionally unstable at the least. She lives in Nebraska, I now live in Vermont. My brother has decided to move up here too, for college. So, she's all sad that she'll be left alone, blah blah blah. It serves her right, and until a week ago, I didn't feel bad at all, until now.
Right now she's taking care of my cat Hector, and he means the world to me. But I get the feeling that she'll go even crazier if I take him back to Vermont with me.
It's kind of like taking candy away from a really hungry baby, in the way that it's just plain mean.
I'm really nervous if I should just take the cat, or not. Part of me is saying, Fark it, it's your cat, and you'll be able to take care of it the way he deserves. And the other part of me just feels terrible, like he's the only thing she has right now. Ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. So lame.
Originally posted by SelphieTIf she isnt mentally unstable then you should take your cat and care for it as it needs. Its sad for your mom... but she is grown and has to work through whatever it is she is going through. Its not fair to your cat to be left there if you can care for him better. I suggest bringing your cat to where you are.
Sadly, I hate to admit, my mother.I moved in with my dad a few months ago, because my mother is emotionally unstable at the least. She lives in Nebraska, I now live in Vermont. My brother has decided to move up here too, for college. So, she's all sad that she'll be left alone, blah blah blah. It serves her right, and until a week ago, I didn't feel bad at all, until now.
Right now she's taking care of my cat Hector, and he means the world to me. But I get the feeling that she'll go even crazier if I take him back to Vermont with me.
It's kind of like taking candy away from a really hungry baby, in the way that it's just plain mean.
I'm really nervous if I should just take the cat, or not. Part of me is saying, Fark it, it's your cat, and you'll be able to take care of it the way he deserves. And the other part of me just feels terrible, like he's the only thing she has right now. Ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. So lame.
I agree with Shellie. I'm going through stuff with my mother right now, in that I don't contact her and if she contacts me I am civilised but not exactly friendly. She and I haven't had any sort of a relationship for a long time, not since I was old enough to realise she's not all there.
Anyway, it's your cat. As Shellie said, your mother's a grown woman and as sad as it might make her to lose the cat, surely she should be concentrating on the reasons her children are no longer around instead of a pet?
Originally posted by SelphieT
Sadly, I hate to admit, my mother.I moved in with my dad a few months ago, because my mother is emotionally unstable at the least. She lives in Nebraska, I now live in Vermont. My brother has decided to move up here too, for college. So, she's all sad that she'll be left alone, blah blah blah. It serves her right, and until a week ago, I didn't feel bad at all, until now.
Right now she's taking care of my cat Hector, and he means the world to me. But I get the feeling that she'll go even crazier if I take him back to Vermont with me.
It's kind of like taking candy away from a really hungry baby, in the way that it's just plain mean.
I'm really nervous if I should just take the cat, or not. Part of me is saying, Fark it, it's your cat, and you'll be able to take care of it the way he deserves. And the other part of me just feels terrible, like he's the only thing she has right now. Ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. So lame.
I pop a capa in yo moma's ass if youz want me too! 2guns