Finally, The Official Off-Topic Thread

But the thing is I can't with her...I told her today not to call me cause I want some space...I let her text me then when I got home I said I wanted to be left alone right now and that I was turning my phone off...I turned my phone on for a little to check messages and stuff and I got a text saying I'd missed 3 calls from her and tbh I'm angry at her cause I just want space and she's not exactly letting me have it...if this is the way it is me and her aren't going to last long

Well, you two may need to sit down and have a nice long talk about your relationship.

If you really want to be happy about your relationship, then take this drug fruit. It's called a heart fruit. It's one of the most valuable things on Yoshi Island. 😉

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Thanks...that fruit just solved every problem I have ever had... 😛

Anyways back to reality...I have like sat down with her and told her I want my space already but she's always thinking about herself and then she'll try and say all these bad things about herself so I feel bad and try and then tell her she's not...kinda like what some members on KMC do. Sometimes it's just like gimme my space woman and let me breath here.

Yeah, I can think of some members who act like that.

Anyway, if you can't express your true feelings with her, then it might be best to break up with her. You shouldn't pretend or force yourself to be happy in a relationship just to satisfy your love mate.

I suck at breaking up with her, plus we catch the same bus every morning...neally every morning and then theres a chance we may bump into each other in november at the concert we're going to...she has my ticket at the moment.

Well, you should tell her to stop being so emotional. Did you ever have a conversation with her in which she didn't start crying or feeling bad about something?

Oh Aunty Yosh is in the house, head gear and all. 😛

But seriously Steve, if you don`t mind me bumping in you should talk with her and tell her not to be so emotional it seems like the only way.

Well yeah but thats when I'm either not mad at her or not talking about how she's making things hard

Originally posted by Mr Shindiggery
Oh Aunty Yosh is in the house, head gear and all. 😛

But seriously Steve, if you don`t mind me bumping in you should talk with her and tell her not to be so emotional it seems like the only way.

I don't mind, of course.

Originally posted by steverules
Well yeah but thats when I'm either not mad at her or not talking about how she's making things hard

That's the problem. It seems that she cries whenever you try to tell her about your feelings towards the relationship. She needs to learn that your feelings are important, too.

She knows she's over emotional...sometimes I just feel like telling her to leave me f*ck alone because maybe then she'll actually listen

Well, you might need to do that.

The worst that can happen is that she'll want to break up with you. To be honest, that might be for the best.

She's too attatched...I'd need to probably need to...cheat to get her to dump me

Well, don't cheat on her. Just try your best to tell her how you really feel.

It's not good to keep all of these feelings bottled up because they might get released in a negative way.

oooh if you only knew....thats what I do...I've bottled things up since I was 15, I even remember the day I first bottled it all up

Well, you need to stop doing that since it's causing you more stress. You might end up doing something that you'd regret.

Like what?

woah dude...be careful about this k?

You might end up hitting someone or saying something extremely hurtful. I doubt you would do that, but it's possible.

Everyone seems to think I am gonna kill myself or something

Nah, I doubt you would do that.

You don't seem like the kind of person that would end your life because of a temporary problem.