Have you ever fallen in love with a friend?

Started by Rogue Jedi4 pages

this is the ultimate "thin ice" situation.

Yea.
But he confessed he loved me after a month later.

I'm in love with a friend and I will reveal it to her when I return to Stamford. Can't wait! 😊

Originally posted by faraday
Yea.
But he confessed he loved me after a month later.
and?

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Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
you are lucky thats all you lost.

Yup he could have made my life distinctly unpleasant, but I think a deep part of him understood that we never meant it to happen. Tis complicated and I really wish it hadn't happened. I'm not a man given to regreting things in my life but this is one of them! 🙁

Re: Have you ever fallen in love with a friend?

Originally posted by BlackC@
And not told them because there's no way it would work out?
I have fallen, and I didn't tell them... in fact, they started liking me too and somehow I became enraged because I thought they were joking and we had a rather large fight and stopped talking for two years.

Ah, High School.

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Originally posted by Baylin
Yup he could have made my life distinctly unpleasant, but I think a deep part of him understood that we never meant it to happen. Tis complicated and I really wish it hadn't happened. I'm not a man given to regreting things in my life but this is one of them! 🙁
not meaning it to happen doesnt take away from his pain.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
and?

And now we're together? lol

oh.

Yep...
But usually... it's always the other way round. 😬

Originally posted by JacopeX
I'm in love with a friend and I will reveal it to her when I return to Stamford. Can't wait! 😊

Soccer balls have genders?

Originally posted by Barker
Soccer balls have genders?
😆

Originally posted by Barker
Soccer balls have genders?

Ouch 😂

have not, but i dont think ive ever been in love

but i have liked a friend a lot and never told her until 2 years later and we dated for a long time . . . then she cheated on me 🙁

oh well, that was like 4 years ago so ive gotten over it

and then i like another best friend of mine and i just went for it and weve been together for about a year

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Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
not meaning it to happen doesnt take away from his pain.

I know, and thinking about it all has hit me like a punch in the face every day since it happened 8 months ago - one of the main reasons for the 'pissed off' sig I've had recently.

i had a crush on a friend and still do and she knows it

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Originally posted by Baylin
I know, and thinking about it all has hit me like a punch in the face every day since it happened 8 months ago - one of the main reasons for the 'pissed off' sig I've had recently.
It was done to me, and MAN if I had seen the guy the first couple months he'd have ended up in the ICU.

now? I am fine, better than ever. she is his problem now, emphasis on the word problem. 😉

Originally posted by Baylin
I know, and thinking about it all has hit me like a punch in the face every day since it happened 8 months ago - one of the main reasons for the 'pissed off' sig I've had recently.
Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
It was done to me, and MAN if I had seen the guy the first couple months he'd have ended up in the ICU.

now? I am fine, better than ever. she is his problem now, emphasis on the word problem. 😉

Ive been reading what you guys are on about and I just sit here nodding my head... I understand full well what you both are going through.. being on both sides of the spectrum.. something Ive learned though.. As painful and unfair as it is.. it happened as it was always meant to happen. Live, love, learn and move on.

I never fell in love with a friend but I have fell in infatuation with two of them before ✅

Infatuation can be nice too.