I have the impression you act insecurely Clovie. Why?
CLO
Clovie-~=¤=~-
i just don't want to interupt in anything. and why should i act 'secure'? 😕
STO
StormBlack belt BJJ
This is a public forum. You can say what you want. You don' t necesairily have to act confident. Just a bit less as if you' re tiptoeing through threads, afraid to say anything bad or wrong. That' s just my impression.
CLO
Clovie-~=¤=~-
i know i can, but i don't wanna cut into anyones convo, what would most probably end up, by them ignoring what i've said anyway. and what do you mean by tiptoeing? 😕 i don't want to ppl yell at me 😬
STO
StormBlack belt BJJ
Tiptoeing as in being there but not really saying what you think. People have different opinions. And sometimes things are said but once it' s said, it' s mostly over and we all move on again.
CLO
Clovie-~=¤=~-
coz no one cares what i think. *shrugs* and you have point... but i have problems with this moving on. irl too 😬
STO
StormBlack belt BJJ
Why would people not care about what you have to say?
Try to not let worry you what people have to say about you.
CLO
Clovie-~=¤=~-
coz most of them think i'm stupid.
i'm. but most of the time failing.
STO
StormBlack belt BJJ
Prove them wrong.
CLO
Clovie-~=¤=~-
i can't, don't know english good enough.
STO
StormBlack belt BJJ
Use an on line dictionary to look some words up then. Practice makes perfect.
CLO
Clovie-~=¤=~-
words i need are not in that dictionary. or neither in normal one 😬
STO
StormBlack belt BJJ
Then just talk with the vocabulary you have command of. People can help you with words you don' t know.
CLO
Clovie-~=¤=~-
but when i want to say something and can't find right term. i just resignate from telling.
STO
StormBlack belt BJJ
Try nonetheless.
FIR
FireSenior Member
nah don't do that, I sometimes have the same problem but I don't let it stop me from giving my point of view on things
CLO
Clovie-~=¤=~-
ok, kit. i'll.
you're right.. but it is stronger than me 🙁
FIR
FireSenior Member
just remember Clovie your ideas are prolly one of the few things that are truly your own (you might not have though them up but the decision to agree with them if you didn't think them up is yours and yours alone)
STO
StormBlack belt BJJ
If you need help with words, you can always ask me ✅
And besides, it' s the Internet. What can people possibly do to you... Just throw yourself into it 😉