is it possible to hate someone you once loved?

Started by leonheartmm3 pages

if you truly love sum1, then even though you might hate them at times, when you remeber who they really are and what they really mean to you, then you wud realise that you cant truly hate them and love them ultimately.

Probably.

Love and hate are connected that is why they cannot be separated into opposites. However, indifference is the rejection of no longer caring. This is where the real hurt comes from which stimulates the hate. If you still hate, then you are still hanging on to the hurt of love rejected to you.

never thought it would be complicated like that

Originally posted by XvampbenjiiX666
wow...thats something i never thought about...i usually thought hate was opposite of love..not indifference

By hating somone, you still care what happens to them, you just hope what happens to them is bad. Hate involves effort.

love is the opposite of hate. indifference is the middle ground. but at the same time, love is very similar to hate, and indifference is opposite to them both.

love and hate both share sumthing, the fact that they are extremes, and require passion/care for the person. indifference is just normal or light which is the opposite of extreme/passionate/obsession/care.

however, in an emotional range, indifference may be the middle ground to love and hate. minus the care

yes for instance. this one chick who was half arabic played me so i went to a lesbian bar and wrote her name on the wall saying hot sexy butch looking for some muff luving.

ouch....

Originally posted by P23
yes for instance. this one chick who was half arabic played me so i went to a lesbian bar and wrote her name on the wall saying hot sexy butch looking for some muff luving.

How'd that work out?

anyway

Originally posted by Devil King
How'd that work out?

well aparently after that i caught word that she disconected her cell phone and her brother tracked me down and well i believe in self defence so hey wth right?

right...i guess

It is possible but it fades away...You must learn to accept the challenges that life may come to you...

Originally posted by XvampbenjiiX666
is it possible to hate someone you once loved, or still loved but aren't together anymore?

Yes.

Originally posted by XvampbenjiiX666
if you loved someone and they hurt you would you still love them no matter what or would you be able to hate them for life or for a short period of time?

That depends on how he or she hurt you.

Uhhh yeah it's possible. duh.

Originally posted by P23
yes for instance. this one chick who was half arabic played me so i went to a lesbian bar and wrote her name on the wall saying hot sexy butch looking for some muff luving.

Woah, you bad ass.

Hate is actually a really strong word, and most of us actually 'hate' very few people. I've never hated someone I loved, but I did feel indifference for them and irritation. Times change, people change.

But you may love a person who is a 'two-facer' and fakes his personality, but hate him once you find out his real personality.

well looks like i dont hate if i still care...does that sound right?

Originally posted by XvampbenjiiX666
well looks like i dont hate if i still care...does that sound right?

You make less sense then Jackie and that's saying a lot...

Of course you can still care if you don't hate or you can not care if you don't hate.

Feeling any kind of emotion towards somebody means you care.

It's all subjective.