Is it wrong?

Originally posted by GirlAnachronism
Sorry this is an issue thats been on my mind recently, and i think i need help from those who don't know me, lol. I was wondering if it is wrong to distroy someones dreams of their future coreer, if they have emotionaly scared your best friend for life?

The unusual thing about your particular situation is that destroying the dreams of this particular somebody is linked to protecting the "best friend" you speak of. I would generally say no, it's not okay, or even possible. This scenario is an exception though.

I think Jesus had a quote for this.
"My son... I'm not touching that one with a ten foot pole."
Granted, it was from an episode of South Park.