Hey there 🙂
Sorry to hear the news, i hope i can help in some way? you have been a great pal in my time of need, and i would hope i could do the same.Keep the faith and never let anyone get you so down that you loose site of whats important.......be good and i hope to talk to you soon, just get yourself together and hold on, you just have to weather the storm...it will clear up
Hey You prolly don't know me but I read your stuff and its great. I'm sorry for your situation and for a women to say your not good enough **** that ****! Never let anyone make you feel less and always remember that you are better then they know. It's gonna take time and the moment you realize your not thinking about this **** anymore it's gonna put a smile on your face 😄 . Get busy! Mahalo
Darth,
I never knew you personally and I'm certain you didn't know me because I haven't posted much in a while. I have however, read multitudes of your posts, including the gems you've dropped us with the Silver Surfer. While I didn't always agree, I always respected your point of view. You've contributed infinitely more to KMC than I ever will and for that I thank you.
About 2 years ago my life was turned so upside down that I don't know if I'll ever fully recover. That said, I don't exactly have the blueprint for dealing with these types of situations but I can tell you this: time heals all if you let it. Don't allow your wife or this situation to define you or your manhood and you'll pull trough. It's obvious KMC has bought you a measure of peace during this difficult time. For that reason we'll all breathe a sigh of relief once you're back.
Peace.
P.S. If your ever in the Chicago or Central Illinois area and can pm me, Im certain I can help you with the gig.
Darth I never really spoke to you that much but you seemed a very intelligent debater on here thats for sure. So with that being said you obviously have a good head on your shoulders. Dont let anyone especially a woman determine your self worth on this planet.
Everyone goes through bouts of depression and through dark dark times. This is one of your dark times but persevere and get through it. There are more fish out there in the sea. What doesnt kill you makes you stronger. When your life is back on track I am sure we all expect to see you with a return thread like this.
I am telling you look at the positive of this situation even though there might not seem to be any. I know youll come out on top and please talk to someone if times get worse and if you feel like you cant cope. Once you get through it youll look back and will have grown as a human being. Best of luck.
I'm sorry to hear that man. I know exactly what it feels like to lose the one woman in this world that makes your life complete. It's pure hell..and it will be for a while. However, don't give up. You have your family and friends to help you get through this time in your life. I know you joined this site about the same time I did...so, I've seen pretty much everything you've posted on this site. You're an intelligent person who has a lot to give...and don't ever let anyone tell you differently. You'll make it. Take care..and come back soon!!!!
Hey guys, just thought I’d save some time and bump this with an update so I don’t have to keep on explaining it via PM to concerned parties. My wife and I have finally decided to try to push past all the bullshit that’s plagued us since before our marriage began for the sake of our 4 year old autistic son. For the first time in years the two of us are both pretty hopeful of our chances because in our most recent blow up we both got to vent the stuff that we’ve been holding onto all this time and now it seems like we can finally start fresh as a family and make things work.
Since I’ll still be around here and there and I’ll still be checking my PM’s pretty frequently, feel free to get in touch with me if you feel the need for one reason or another. However, one of the major problems that my wife and I had when things started to get really bad was my inability to pull myself away from the Internet(and KMC in particular) for any significant amount of time(except when it got shut off that is). With that realization in mind, I’ve decided to cut back on my time here on KMC… well, a lot. From now on I’ll only be online while my wife’s at work or her moms and my son is with one of his grandmothers because I really want to make the effort to put my family first and I haven’t done that in over a year now.
So to everyone who posted or PM’d me their support I’d like to take the opportunity to say thank you for the kind words. At first it really seemed like I had nowhere to go and no one to talk to, and if it wasn’t for your immediate outreach after this thread was posted there’s a good chance I would’ve ended up walking out into traffic. You’re a good bunch of guys and gals and I’m happy to be associated with you.