Some parents really need to whoop their kids' ass.

Originally posted by Selphie
You have to be careful with whoopings.

When I was a kid, I was hit, but just for discipline. Sometimes I can understand that. Just a smack or two.

But then once I became a teenager, it became much more abusive, where I would get pushed into closets while being punched, slapped repeatedly in the face, and the final straw, nearly being choked.

Wow. That's f**ked up. Man, life is not the candy coated idea that I once had...it looks like more than half of people had something f**ked up happen at home when trying to be raised. If it isn't sexual molestation by that weird ass uncle or someone, it is physical abuse.

On the plus side, it looks like every parent at KMC, including myself, is trying NOT to make the same mistakes as their parents. That has got to be some sort of comfort.

Originally posted by Selphie
Parents need to be careful with the discipline, and make sure there's a clear, definite line between that and abuse.

It clearly affects the child. It can make them violent themselves.

That's why if I become a parent, I'm going to do my best to never hit mine, because I'm scared I might end up like my mother.

I'm not saying a smack isn't a bad thing, but it's something I probably wouldn't be able to control.

I agree. Like I said before, you should never "discipline" your child in anger.

Originally posted by Impediment
So earlier today, I took my daughter, Madison, with me to go and pick up my weekly paycheck. After I deposited my money in the bank, I decided that we should go to McDonald's for lunch. We order our meals and sit down to eat, when suddenly a little black boy, probably about 3 years old, walks up and sits down at our table with us. I laugh, since he was cute little tyke, and I found it humorous that he would just come a sit down like that. My daughter is playing with her toy she got out of her Happy Meal I bought her, when all of a sudden, the little boy [b]snatches her toy out of her hands and runs off. Well, Madison began to cry because her toy got stolen, and I stood up and walked over to the kid and calmly took back the toy that he stole and I said to him, "This doesn't belong to you, son. You have to give it back."

Well folks, the shit hit the fan. This little bastard began to, literally, scream, cry, jump up and down, roll on the floor, and beat his fists. He acted like I had just beat him with a belt and screamed at him. Naturally, his mother walked over, concerned, and asked me, in a rude voice, "What the hell did you do to my boy?!?" I explained to her that her son stole my child's toy and ran away and I took it back. She immediately became unglued. "Why the hell did you do that!! You could have just as easily went back to the counter and asked for another toy! Now you got him all worked up and crying, and now I'll have to deal with this horseshit!" I told her that, maybe, if you would beat his little ass now and again, instead of letting him act like a damn heathen, he probably wouldn't act like this! All the while we are in this argument, the little shit is still on the floor screaming and crying.

She then proceeded to call me "White-ass" and "Racist" because, evidently, I wouldn't have done this were it another white child involved. I was a rude motherf*cker, and I was mean to her child. The manager came out and intervened. I explained to her what happened and I received a refund of my meal, and the b*tchy mom ans her little failed abortion were asked to leave.

Some parents just need to whoop their kids' ass every now and then. I discipline my child, and she is well behaved and courteous as a result. I just thought I'd let you guys know about this little incident, since it was the high point of my day. [/B]

You should've shoved that kid back to where he came from and taught 'em both a lesson! evillaugh

But seriously. Some kids are just monsters, no matter what you do. I remember my sister, when she was little, she was a terror no matter how many times my dad locked her in the toilet or my mom spanked her. She's all cool now, though. 🙂
Beating your kids ain't the answer. I'd say that implies regular smackings. But hitting your kids when they do something bad; that's completely understandable and totally acceptable.

Originally posted by dadudemon
I still don't get it. Why do I fail at making these posters when it was not intended to go on ebaumsworld and make front page?

P.S. My wife wears the pants as well...it wasn't an insult...more like a joke among married men.

Well, that's not really a good excuse.

Let me give you an example:

YouTube video

This guy still fails at shooting goals, regardless of whether he intends to play for the Brazilian National team in a World Cup.

That being said, I didn't find it that bad...just that argument was stupid.

sometimes a pop on the ass get's their attention, let's them see how serious you are.

then again I am not a parent and am prolly full of shit.

There's other ways, that's all I was saying earlier.

Maybe I didn't get my point across earlier, as Impediment seemed quite pissed off about the remarks I made. My point was that i personally disagree with it, I wouldn't do it to my own children, I think there are better ways of handling it. However, what other people do and how they raise their kids isn't my concern.

Originally posted by chillmeistergen
There's other ways, that's all I was saying earlier.

Maybe I didn't get my point across earlier, as Impediment seemed quite pissed off about the remarks I made. My point was that i personally disagree with it, I wouldn't do it to my own children, I think there are better ways of handling it. However, what other people do and how they raise their kids isn't my concern.

Spanking is for the most part unnecessary imo/experience. I've only spanked my daughter once, because she was truly out of control and being unreasonable. Hindsight, it didn't have to be done, I could have handled it with the same outcome sans spank.

Then again, I have an exceptionally well behaved/calm child, I've seen some children that I can't blame the parents for whacking them. But why are they that way in the first place?

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
you think maybe someone who has kids is more qualified to make that call?

What, whether there are other ways or not? If so, then no obviously not, given that there are definitely other ways.

I don't think someone with kids is necessarily more qualified to make the call at all, either. My parents would argue outright against spanking, they're parents and older, plus would give the same argument that I am, who would then be more qualified?

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
you think maybe someone who has kids is more qualified to make that call?

Originally posted by chillmeistergen
What, whether there are other ways or not? If so, then no obviously not, given that there are definitely other ways.

I don't think someone with kids is necessarily more qualified to make the call at all, either. My parents would argue outright against spanking, they're parents and older, plus would give the same argument that I am, who would then be more qualified?

IMO, a spanking is more of a psychological thing, to scare your child. If you're hitting your kid hard enough where it leaves a mark, it's a more like a beating.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
Is a pop on the ass, just an attention getter, necessarily a spanking?

It's my personal belief that you shouldn't need to be physical at all, in order to discipline your child.

Originally posted by chillmeistergen
It's my personal belief that you shouldn't need to be physical at all, in order to discipline your child.

"Shoot the hostage" - Officer Jack Traven

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
so if your child isnt listening, running around being a banshee, nothing you can say gets their attention, what do you do?

You do understand that I'm talking my personal beliefs here, don't you? I'm not arguing that it should be banned or anything, why exactly do you feel the need to interrogate me about it?

To answer you question, I'd employ another tactic, there are plenty of them.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
so if your child isnt listening, running around being a banshee, nothing you can say gets their attention, what do you do?

Give them a swat on their butt. That'll get their attention. ✅

Originally posted by Impediment
Give them a swat on their butt. That'll get their attention. ✅

Originally posted by Bardock42
I am pretty sure that was more addressed at the would-never-spank crowd, not the, I already spank my child in such instances one.

I know. I'm just putting my big penis nose in the middle.

Originally posted by chillmeistergen
You do understand that I'm talking my personal beliefs her, don't you? I'm not arguing that it should be banned or anything, why exactly do you feel the need to interrogate me about it?

To answer you question, I'd employ another tactic, there are plenty of them.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
so if your child isnt listening, running around being a banshee, nothing you can say gets their attention, what do you do?

Depends on the scenario, if you're somewhere the child considers "fun", you grab them and tell them if they don't calm down and listen, they're going home.

If they don't indeed heed your warning, you grab them, load their ass into the car and take them home. I bet the next time they're at that place and having fun, they'll listen. If they don't, you ban them from going there again.

Satisfactory?