Originally posted by Selphie
What happens if I'm bi?Do I have to become asexual for a day? mmm
I can see why certain guys are attractive to girls, and even admire an attractive guy in much the same way that girls freely admit that various other females are beautiful. But I'm not actually physically attracted to them, so there's a difference. I can get to the point where I'm ok with acknowledging attractiveness in the male sex, but one cannot voluntarily become aroused by something that doesn't arouse them.
Homosexuals who claim it's a lifestyle choice more than a genetic inheritance may have legitimacy to their claim, but from my experience I find it far more likely that a genetic predisposition toward homosexuality must exist at least in small amounts for it to happen. Because regardless of how much self-coercion I undergo, I sincerely doubt I could ever "convince" myself to be attracted to males.
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...sorry for the seriousness. But I've actually given this topic some thought before and wanted to share.
Originally posted by DigiMark007I don't know any homosexual who claims to have chosen their orientation. ermm
I can see why certain guys are attractive to girls, and even admire an attractive guy in much the same way that girls freely admit that various other females are beautiful. But I'm not actually physically attracted to them, so there's a difference. I can get to the point where I'm ok with acknowledging attractiveness in the male sex, but one cannot voluntarily become aroused by something that doesn't arouse them.Homosexuals who claim it's a lifestyle choice more than a genetic inheritance may have legitimacy to their claim, but from my experience I find it far more likely that a genetic predisposition toward homosexuality must exist at least in small amounts for it to happen. Because regardless of how much self-coercion I undergo, I sincerely doubt I could ever "convince" myself to be attracted to males.
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...sorry for the seriousness. But I've actually given this topic some thought before and wanted to share.
Originally posted by DigiMark007
I can see why certain guys are attractive to girls, and even admire an attractive guy in much the same way that girls freely admit that various other females are beautiful. But I'm not actually physically attracted to them, so there's a difference. I can get to the point where I'm ok with acknowledging attractiveness in the male sex, but one cannot voluntarily become aroused by something that doesn't arouse them.Homosexuals who claim it's a lifestyle choice more than a genetic inheritance may have legitimacy to their claim, but from my experience I find it far more likely that a genetic predisposition toward homosexuality must exist at least in small amounts for it to happen. Because regardless of how much self-coercion I undergo, I sincerely doubt I could ever "convince" myself to be attracted to males.
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...sorry for the seriousness. But I've actually given this topic some thought before and wanted to share.
Originally posted by Strangelove
I don't know any homosexual who claims to have chosen their orientation. ermm
Originally posted by McLovin
I had the choice but I was like.. naa, maybe later.
Originally posted by Selphie
Yeah, I hate it when people think that you wake up one morning and go, "Oh my god I'm gay".It's something you know, you know you're different when you're younger, etc. It's not like you can choose it.
Originally posted by Strangelove
Yeah, I was denying the truth since I was in 5th grade.