DK
Re: Re: Re: Re: Separate Bathrooms for Gay Students
Originally posted by Quiero Mota
Who's afraid of women? I haven't heard any jokes like that.He's obviously generalizing and he's trying to be funny. I don't think we'll ever hear of Fred Phelps being arrested for rubbing ankles with a cop in a public bathroom.
Who's affraid of women? No one. But most men still applaud and hit the hamster pedal when a women-are-smarter/control-the-pussy: hence the male-mind joke is dropped on a crowd. Men go through their lives thinking they're king of the castle and the key to the front door is controlled by their woman. So, it isn't a matter of men actually being affraid of women or their wrath, but accepting the stupidity of modern humor that women are smarter, stronger and more capable than your average man. it's bullshit. Neither is above the other. It wasn't an accusation.
Should we base our behavior or understanding or judgement on the actions of psycho, Jesus-freak Fred Phelps? We never heard of Jerry Falwell getting his cock sucked by another dude either, but we both know he was full of himself and talking out of his own ass. You and I both were condemned by Mr. Falwell.
DK
Re: Re: Re: Re: Separate Bathrooms for Gay Students
Originally posted by WrathfulDwarf
DK I'm going to disagree with you there. I wouldn't call it fear. Quite the opposite. I know a homosexual implies less competition for me in getting a woman. Whereas a heterosexual is most likely to be more in my way.Guys aren't always afraid of women. They're more afraid of rejection and they rather not even try. I, however, have been told that if I were to act gay (which I'm not) there is a chance women would be more interest in me. Well, to be quite honest...I don't need to be something I'm not to get a female's attention. That's my game.
Again, I'm not saying youre trembling, but you fear reprisal or rejection. And the entire pointof my statement that men have turned into whining vaginas is still pretty accurate, the way I see it. "Aren't always" is my point. Why should you ever be affraid of another person, much less a woman? The involvment of a "game" is my point. When are we going to evolve as a species past the notion that we all have to play a game to win a mate? Sometimes we are what we are and that's all we need to be. If you have to go through motions and holidays and actions and bullshit to win a person who will tolerate your behavior, then you've just exerted yourself to win a mate that depends on you being the person you presented yourself to be...which was a lie!
And when I say "fear", it has nothing to do with approaching or courting a mate, it has to do with existing with them on the long term, and actually being content with your descision. Men will actually sit in the audience and applaud a comedian telling them they're ****ing idiots who are so controlled by their wife's vagina that they'll endure 50 years of a thankless, rewardless marriage because they're too stupid and base to get over their own desire for pussy. Well, it simply isn't true. So it is less that I'm saying something with which you disagree, and more that you agree you aren't stupid.
DAD
Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Separate Bathrooms for Gay Students
Originally posted by Devil King
Again, I'm not saying youre trembling, but you fear reprisal or rejection. And the entire pointof my statement that men have turned into whining vaginas is still pretty accurate, the way I see it. "Aren't always" is my point. Why should you ever be affraid of another person, much less a woman? The involvment of a "game" is my point. When are we going to evolve as a species past the notion that we all have to play a game to win a mate? Sometimes we are what we are and that's all we need to be. If you have to go through motions and holidays and actions and bullshit to win a person who will tolerate your behavior, then you've just exerted yourself to win a mate that depends on you being the person you presented yourself to be...which was a lie!
False.
The game is there for the initial attraction. I don't blame a homosexual man for not knowing this about heterosexuals.
After you win a women over, she probably will fart around you instead of walking around green. FACT!
ROB
Re: Re: Re: Re: Separate Bathrooms for Gay Students
Originally posted by Quiero Mota
He's obviously generalizing and he's trying to be funny. I don't think we'll ever hear of Fred Phelps being arrested for rubbing ankles with a cop in a public bathroom.
Maybe, but I bet you he stares at young men around the swimming pool for uncomfortably long spans of time.