i dunno what to do...

guys wouldn't steal the girlfriend of a mate

Well usually they won't, if they're good friends anyway.

Thats my definition of a true friend, someone I can trust not to have a crack at Mrs.MM if I'm not around. Sad but true.

how true

Hey, BF, I have been in love as well, you know! I know how you feel! But I am afraid that makes no difference at all. You can't rule her with your love, and she has to make her own choices.

All you can do is be as good a person as you can to her. Other than that it is out of your hands because you cannot change the way she feels, no matter how much you want to! I am sorry, but that is true. There are no cunning plans or pieces of trickery you can apply to make sure she prefers you over him, or to bring her closer to you, or anything like that.

So it is simple. Keep being the perfect partner for her. That is all you can do.

"If you love someone, let them go.
If they return to you, it was truely meant to be.
If they don't, their love was never yours to begin with."

UNKNOWN

i am letting her go. i never told her she cant go, i just told her i dotn like the idea, i mean, i have to be truthful with her to be a good partner dont i?

Yes but have a calm talk about it first. My gf cheated on me last summer and words can't express how much it hurts. I would hate to see that happen to you, so go and have a talk to her and let her know your feelings.

i have, i always tell her my feelings.

you can't just trust her? has she ever been unfaithful b4?

dido

not really, but the thing about her is, she follows her impulses, she doesnt think about things, if she feels like doing something for one second she'll do it, without giving it a second thought, thats what im most scared of.

We cross our fingers and hope it all will work out fine

yep

so how is the fish mah?

I don't like fish

Still you choose to live among them 😄

I can handle that. there's some creatures on land here too

landshark

Wow that does sound rough.....well I wish you the best....trust is key....and communication....talk to her alot and go out of your way to be extra supporting to her....