help...

Alright, so I have been dating my girlfriend for over 5 months now, it was great, I had lots of fun and all. I told her I loved her...but now, I don't feel the same way...I wanna break it off with her, but I have no idea how, she is really attached by the way, like really attached. I don't want to hurt her, I still wanna be really good friends with her and all, she is a great person, but I just don't think I want a relationship right now.

I'm scared to do it because she has told me a while ago that being in this relationship really helped her for the good, it was her longest one yet, she stopped doing drugs, she hasn't drunk, she does much better in school. I don't want her to go back to the way she was before...but I also don't wanna keep leading her on...

Help...

If she is as attached as you say, there is no way you can keep from hurting her.

End it, man, now. The longer you let it go on, the harder it is gonna be on her.

Is there any way I can do this and continue to be good friends with her? I have been constantly looking for a route that will lead it to that.

I had it the other way before, I was attached and she wasnt, she broke it off and wanted to be friends. Being friends didnt work because I couldnt stop wanting her with her still in my life.

Originally posted by Sprat
Is there any way I can do this and continue to be good friends with her? I have been constantly looking for a route that will lead it to that.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
Unlikely.

Damnet...I guess I just gotta do what I gotta do...I will do it as easy as I can for her...I wish I didn't have to...

Dont count it out as a possibility, just be prepared for her to hate you for a while.

Alright, thanks a lot...

Originally posted by Sprat
Is there any way I can do this and continue to be good friends with her? I have been constantly looking for a route that will lead it to that.

it is rare thing for that to actually work,

My ex and I were really good mates before we started a relationship, I haven't spoken to her since we broke up, even though we said we would be friends,

it hardly ever happens.

Help, I need somebody,
Help, not just anybody,
Help, you know I need someone, help.

buy a dog.

Honksermm

Originally posted by Sprat
Is there any way I can do this and continue to be good friends with her? I have been constantly looking for a route that will lead it to that.

Just tell her the truth, but lightly. Try not to sound aggressive or rude, and explain that you still want to be friends, and really mean it. She won't want to be, but understand that.
It'll hurt her either way, but it's like picking being punched to being stabbed: Both hurt, but one less than the other.

Originally posted by Sprat
Is there any way I can do this and continue to be good friends with her? I have been constantly looking for a route that will lead it to that.

cough utopia cough

Do it smoothly. Come back from dinner, she gets out of you car, you stay in, take the door and say ''oh, by the way, it's over between us'', close the door fast and speed away.

Originally posted by Mandos
Do it smoothly. Come back from dinner, she gets out of you car, you stay in, take the door and say ''oh, by the way, it's over between us'', close the door fast and speed away.

Originally posted by Mywi
i like that

We'd get along. 😆

Kill her...

Originally posted by Mandos
We'd get along. 😆