Originally posted by Baylin
Good, I find vain people to be quite... vain... or something.... shrugNo seriously I do find vanity to be irritating
I'm afraid that I am vain. I work hard to make myself proportioned. That is vain in and of itself. I don't think I'm even close to perfect, though. I am working hard with what I've got, though.
I still think you're cool, though. 🙁
Originally posted by dadudemonI dont think that is vain... to me vain is when you think you are way better then everyone else.
I'm afraid that I am vain. I work hard to make myself proportioned. That is vain in and of itself. I don't think I'm even close to perfect, though. I am working hard with what I've got, though.I still think you're cool, though. 🙁
Originally posted by Ms Chelle
I dont think that is vain... to me vain is when you think you are way better then everyone else.
Anyway, yes, I think there are things about me that are better than most, and some things that suck about me that are worst than most. Sometimes, though, that comes off as arrogance. (depends on what is being compared)
And The Grey Fox is correct. Wanting to have proportioned muscles is a form of vanity. It is all about looks....naked. lol! Still, if you're on the beach, shirt off, shorts on, you don't want big ol' pecs with stick legs or vice versa. Damn, that sounds vain.
Originally posted by Ms Chelle
Yea thinking about it you both have a point.... So wouldnt some level of vanity be healthy? hmm
Well, there's being healthy, and then there's wanting to look nice when flesh is exposed. I think most people want that, but few people are motivated to go for it.
Originally posted by Ms Chelle
...and dadu: about my avi... thanks. 😛
I like it too.
Did you make that? It is a lady sitting forward and backward melded together, right?
Originally posted by dadudemon
I'm afraid that I am vain. I work hard to make myself proportioned. That is vain in and of itself. I don't think I'm even close to perfect, though. I am working hard with what I've got, though.I still think you're cool, though. 🙁
IMO that isn't necessarily being vain. From what you said that is only one aspect of your life not everything so you know taking a bit of pride in your appearance doesn't have to be vain. No I think it's when you do it to the exclusion of all else that it becomes vanity. 😊
Originally posted by The Grey Fox
Nah, that's more like arrogance. Vanity is usually looks-based, I think.
Yeah I suppose technically you are right, however I often sadly find that the two of them do go hand in hand.
It's either that or vain people end up being hollow which can be just as irritating.
Phew that's my serious discussion over for today, time to get my silly head on again 😑