I don't have any need to find someone else to blame for any of my failings past or present. It's merely trying to pin the blame on someone else for everything that has or will go wrong in life. What's the point?...Just get on with it. Define yourself as a person rather than trying to have it set in stone by the actions of someone else. In other words, if you don't like your life then get off your ass and do something about it. You can't change what's happened in the past, good or bad so why bother giving it any time at all. Why bother letting past troubles take over anymore of your life?