True? Not? that once a guy knows he has a girls love he's not interesed anymore?

Hi I'm new to this site...I saw one question and I liked the (mostly) positive feedback so I wanted to give it a go...please don't be mean and though it's a random queestion I want to know what guys really think about this and not something that you think your girlfiend would want to here cause I'm not her so you're fine! ^.^ Thanks everyone!

Question: Once a guy knows that a girl loves him then because there is no chase anymore do they get bored and dump them? Do they not care that she loves him with all her heart and would do anything to make him happy? This happened to me and I wanted to know if it's true?

Welcome.

I think there may be some truth to that from both sexes. It seems to me that there is a dance going on, in metaphorical terms.

If one pulls away then the other moves foreword and it can go the other way around. Either way there is more to it than that also.

I think showing your cards can sometimes make the other take you for granted...IMHO

1) I'm pretty sure you mean "mai-hime" not "mai-himi"especially considering himi would be pronounced like the word for scream.

2) The are very few hard and fast rules about how people react and pretty much none of them apply to everyone. Then again I know nothing about intimate relationships, but I can say with certainty that there are guys that virtually fetishize doting on women.

) I'm pretty sure you mean "mai-hime" not "mai-himi"especially considering himi would be pronounced like the word for scream.

What are you talking about??? 😑

Originally posted by Deja~vu
What are you talking about??? 😑

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mai-hime

This person didn't say that, did they? dID I miss something?

It's his/her name.

But what significance does that have upon which the question that was presented? It was a correction that wasn't really needed or wanted, dude.

Alot of Men seem to think theyre invulnerable when in a relationship. Females are really emotional, whilst men just think theyre real tough and logical..., they act like they dont care, but call their bluff one day. youll see that its just all an act..

Originally posted by Tommy Jarvis
But what significance does that have upon which the question that was presented? It was a correction that wasn't really needed or wanted, dude.

I misspelled my name when I first joined

If someone had pointed it out earlier it would have been nice

Depends on the guy. For me, personally, it was true, but I have since gotten over that trend with age...or so I think. Meh, who am I fooling, its still true for me.

Originally posted by Tommy Jarvis
But what significance does that have upon which the question that was presented? It was a correction that wasn't really needed or wanted, dude.

None, I'm just a pedant.

I'm unaware of any specific rules for love in relationships. I'm sure some guys do get bored, yeah - but it's also quite apparent that an awful lot don't.

Why not give it a go? You never know, he might just get bored of you without having to fall in love.

Always let them love you more

or become the greatest in bed

If you have to worry about telling a guy you love him then its not the right relationship for you. Forget him and move on with your life.

Originally posted by inimalist
I misspelled my name when I first joined

If someone had pointed it out earlier it would have been nice

You didn't actually misspell it, since it's not a real word. Stupid inamilist.

Originally posted by Mai-Himi

Question: Once a guy knows that a girl loves him then because there is no chase anymore do they get bored and dump them? Do they not care that she loves him with all her heart and would do anything to make him happy? This happened to me and I wanted to know if it's true?

Should have let him have anal, that would have kept his interest, once that got old for him, invite one of your (attractive and preferrably bisexual) female friends for a 3-some, then you could move onto some of the more kinkier things as things played out.

On the flip-side, once a girl knows a guy cares about her, she'll likely turn the ****. It's like a built-in reaction, maybe it has something to do evolutionary-wise.

It works both ways, for both sexes, it depends on the person.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
It works both ways, for both sexes, it depends on the person.

That belongs in a fortune cookie.

make it a sig instead