Originally posted by QuincyI just don't feel like I really connect with anyone anymore, or that anyone connects with me. If I stopped communicating with everyone at once, very few people would ever seek me out or check on me. I have a lot of friendships that have essentially ceased because I decided to stop doing all the heavy lifting and making the effort to contact them, and I was correct that they have not contacted me. It'd be fine if it weren't for the lies. So many people pretend that they care and tell me all sorts of platitudes but when it comes down to it, I've always been right, and have been left behind.
Sorry to hear about your discomfort, do you want to talk about it Scribble?
Originally posted by Scribble
I just don't feel like I really connect with anyone anymore, or that anyone connects with me. If I stopped communicating with everyone at once, very few people would ever seek me out or check on me. I have a lot of friendships that have essentially ceased because I decided to stop doing all the heavy lifting and making the effort to contact them, and I was correct that they have not contacted me. It'd be fine if it weren't for the lies. So many people pretend that they care and tell me all sorts of platitudes but when it comes down to it, I've always been right, and have been left behind.
Hey I get that. It's a drag to step away from friendships and then realize like, the bonds might not have been as strong as you would have hoped. I think we've all been there.
Originally posted by Scribble
I just don't feel like I really connect with anyone anymore, or that anyone connects with me. If I stopped communicating with everyone at once, very few people would ever seek me out or check on me. I have a lot of friendships that have essentially ceased because I decided to stop doing all the heavy lifting and making the effort to contact them, and I was correct that they have not contacted me. It'd be fine if it weren't for the lies. So many people pretend that they care and tell me all sorts of platitudes but when it comes down to it, I've always been right, and have been left behind.
Well some here care. I always remember making jokes about walshy turning you into a lampshade cuz he and piggle would go crazy if you didn't post.
Hell when you were on your 60 day ban I remember making posts wondering if you'd come back. So not everyone forgets you.