I do not hate children, but I doubt I'll ever have any of my own. In fact I know I won't have any "of my own", but there's a chance I could adopt, one day. But even that is unlikely, as I would not do that if I were single, so I'd need a partner to adopt with, and that would require me to break my "Forever Alone" pact with myself, which isn't gonna happen (hopefully).
Say you have a point of a river. It keeps the water clean 🧼 and the nation is able to thrive. In the point of absence you know the tree fell because the point of the river can pool the absence.
That’s how if a tree falls in the forest 🌳 and no one is there to see it fall did it fall?
Then you have depth perception and can see the forest 🌳 for the trees.