I was brought up to be generous and caring, to give to those that had less than me and my number one job on this earth was to make sure the people I loved were happy and to do anything I could do to help with that.
When I have money I'm the most generous person. I will do anything for my friends. I even considered taking out a loan for someone once so they could start up their dream business..
But I need to realise that other people aren't like that.
That lots of people only care about their own happiness.