Originally posted by Phantom Miria
[b]You are now using PW:I just because you can, not because it is a good example. You play PW:I and you know how the classes work, we get it.Malevolent prosecuting?
You making a big deal of things and throwing wood on the fire is the general definition of taking things personal. You can not blame people for seeing what you are writing, even if your intentions differ from your text. A great deal of things you have written, are written to be interpreted as if you have taken it personal, regardless of the fact that you have or have not.
So I can only suggest that you either try write less of your thoughts in the future, or that you try not to make a big deal out of things. People misunderstand you because you give out the wrong signals. Intentional or not, you are forcing the feeling that you are making things personal on us.
We do not know you? You make it personal right there. THAT is taking it personal, MAKING it personal.
Come on, interpretation is a neutral process and your words are basically asking people to take it as if you are taking it personal. There is no denying it, words are objective. Only the intentions behind them are not. You should either learn to formulate yourself better or stop making a big deal out of things. If you do not, the only other option is to accept the fact that people will misunderstand you because of how you write.You are NOT talking to us, you are writing to us. Try to remember that. This is the internet, your tone of voice, your facial expresions and your behaviour is not visible here. We can not read your mind, only your words. And your words are saying you take this personal. [/B]
ok do you always have to try an correct someone?Now when Ibrought up the same thing with you jump up like oh no your totallyin the wrong.Double standard I see no?
Originally posted by Venomancer
ok do you always have to try an correct someone?Now when Ibrought up the same thing with you jump up like oh no your totallyin the wrong.Double standard I see no?
First of all, you lack the intellect to go there with me. You do NOT want to go there with me. This sentence of yours alone is proof of that. Want to know why? You do not, even if you think you do, but I will tell you anyway:
Double standards? What I wrote is an analytic conclusion based on objective facts on what is and what is not. You blow things out of proportion, you target the people behind the posts rather than the posts and you try making yourself a victim all throughout. Ask any Psychology or English professor in the world. You are giving out a signal that you are taking things personal. You are just too caught up in your pink little bubble to see that.
I correct where I find wrong, it is simply who I am. You know this, because I have told you this through Personal Message not many days ago. You accepted this then, but I suppose that the only reason to why you did this was because you did not have any proof of anything. You only had my word on that what I did, I did not because it was you, but because of who I am. You had to trust that, but it seems like now you have dropped that trust.
Next, I said you were in the wrong, because you were in the wrong. Do you read what you write, or do you simply type on impulse and then post it? The things you write are ignorant and childish, and above all, often misinterpreted by yourself. When people claim you take things personal, you take that claim personal. Can you not see the irony in that? Sure, you can tell me now that "I do not take that personal. You do not know me, you do not know that", but here is the inside scoop for you: You take it personal. Otherwise you would not:
1. Blow it out of proportion
2. Persist in telling people how wrong they are about this
Furthermore (Yes, there is more), you who seem to have significant problems in grasping the English language walk about telling people on how they are wrong when they misinterpret the things you say? Study Swedish for a year, get over here and start talking to the people that live here. They will misunderstand you shitload, because that is what your English descriptive level is like. As if you have studied it for about a year. People misunderstand you because you do not have a talent for writing. You give people the wrong signals because you do not know how to formulate yourself.
Lastly, a question: Do you even know what the idiom Double Standard means? Considering your post there, you do not. I would suggest stop using tools you can not handle. There was no Double Standard in my post. It was me, being me, telling you how you were. If you think that is a Double Standard, you not only were in the wrong there, but you are in the wrong here as well.
Originally posted by Venomancer
hmmm play the way what class do you play and lvl? Lvl 76 veno hybrid armor here?maybe we should meet eachother some day in game andhave an little battle
Was a time since I last played. I have a Barbarian of unknown level. Somewhere in his 50s or something. I have no interest in any battle.
Originally posted by Phantom MiriaListen here you flat footed fool.You don't know shyt about my intellect.So stop trying to toss around words as if you could even have an clue.Sorry little child.Pretty words don't mean jack round her and just are your "Friends" just to cover up your lack of any real personality.So don't you dare in your usless life try and tell me anything about my self.Now why don't you do us all an favor and kick rocks better yet I'll leave.I'll go were I'm celebrated AND NOTtolerated.My life was fine with this I can just as easy go back to that
[b]First of all, you lack the intellect to go there with me. You do NOT want to go there with me. This sentence of yours alone is proof of that. Want to know why? You do not, even if you think you do, but I will tell you anyway:Double standards? What I wrote is an analytic conclusion based on objective facts on what is and what is not. You blow things out of proportion, you target the people behind the posts rather than the posts and you try making yourself a victim all throughout. Ask any Psychology or English professor in the world. You are giving out a signal that you are taking things personal. You are just too caught up in your pink little bubble to see that.
I correct where I find wrong, it is simply who I am. You know this, because I have told you this through Personal Message not many days ago. You accepted this then, but I suppose that the only reason to why you did this was because you did not have any proof of anything. You only had my word on that what I did, I did not because it was you, but because of who I am. You had to trust that, but it seems like now you have dropped that trust.
Next, I said you were in the wrong, because you were in the wrong. Do you read what you write, or do you simply type on impulse and then post it? The things you write are ignorant and childish, and above all, often misinterpreted by yourself. When people claim you take things personal, you take that claim personal. Can you not see the irony in that? Sure, you can tell me now that "I do not take that personal. You do not know me, you do not know that", but here is the inside scoop for you: You take it personal. Otherwise you would not:
1. Blow it out of proportion
2. Persist in telling people how wrong they are about thisFurthermore (Yes, there is more), you who seem to have significant problems in grasping the English language walk about telling people on how they are wrong when they misinterpret the things you say? Study Swedish for a year, get over here and start talking to the people that live here. They will misunderstand you shitload, because that is what your English descriptive level is like. As if you have studied it for about a year. People misunderstand you because you do not have a talent for writing. You give people the wrong signals because you do not know how to formulate yourself.
Lastly, a question: Do you even know what the idiom Double Standard means? Considering your post there, you do not. I would suggest stop using tools you can not handle. There was no Double Standard in my post. It was me, being me, telling you how you were. If you think that is a Double Standard, you not only were in the wrong there, but you are in the wrong here as well.
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Originally posted by Venomancer
Listen here you flat footed fool.You don't know shyt about my intellect.So stop trying to toss around words as if you could even have an clue.Sorry little child.Pretty words don't mean jack round her and just are your "Friends" just to cover up your lack of any real personality.So don't you dare in your usless life try and tell me anything about my self.Now why don't you do us all an favor and kick rocks better yet I'll leave.I'll go were I'm celebrated AND NOTtolerated.My life was fine with this I can just as easy go back to that
That is gratuitous, Venomancer. Not once did Phantom Miria insult you in her post or make personal attacks and you make an entire post dedicated to purely bashing her. Her words may have been harsh, but I can't see anything wrong with them. There's certainly not anything in there that insult you as a person. You are oversensitive and rude.
Why do you have to make such a big deal out of everything? Of course she doesn't know anything about your intelligence, beyond what you show when you post in these threads. All she has to base on, is the things you write here.
I must however say that by drawing first blood and starting to insult her and her existence, you have gone too far. She spoke out of honesty and without anything that can be defined as an insult beyond individual interpretation, while you defined her life useless.
Furthermore, you called her a child. She is older than you and she is acting far more mature than you. She's also judging by pictures I've seen not little, she is in fact quite tall.
I hope you apologize, since that's what she ask of you, for what you did right here and now is legitimate reportable offense to moderators. If you are as smart and "aged" as you credit yourself to be, I suggest you do the mature thing and simply apologize and leave this matter entirely.
Originally posted by Venomancer
It matters not.I'm gone far from this place anyhow cause that was an plaine insult of my intellect.So untill she does no quarter shall be given.I'd rather have my lungs pulled out over my rip cage before I belive that lie of that not being an insult
I simply did not think you were intelligent enough to keep the discussion you were asking for up. You have not made the most cerebral posts.
Most I have ended up debating has stumbled over their own feet and hit their nose. It was an honest opinion of mine that you took the wrong way. I did not call you stupid.
I am an idiot in comparison to Einstein, but that does not make me stupid. My brother lack the intelligence to debate my father, meaning he is not intelligent enough, but he is not stupid.
I have met a great deal of idiots on the internet, people that do not think or people that try to think more than they are capable of and end up looking like fools. I have simply stopped expecting people to be intelligent. It was nothing personal, as I would have said that to anyone else that would have said the same to me unless I knew for a fact that such was not the case.
If I offended you, which it seems I did, I am sorry. Sincerely and to its greatest bounds sorry. I apologize.