Originally posted by Hell Lancer
i just feel that censoring words and having one group of people "own" that word is BS. if blacks say nigga to one another--in expressions as offensive as "you're one stupid nigga"--why is it that the mere mention of the world from a white man makes it such a bad thing.i've practically grown up with blacks, my ex-girlfriend was black and my best friend was black. what pissed me off was how after knowing someone for sixteen years the moment i said the n word he turned around and called me racist.....and i just pointed out the irony of knowing him for sixteen years and being his best friend.
what pisses me off is how knee-jerk it is. you siad the n-word, BAM! you're racist. no compromise. its the context that really matters. how can someone you've been practically brothers with, lived with, grown up with be racist?
brothers can fight, fall out and betray one another.
and best friends can feud when one starts taking things for granted.
In summary, where someone has a black g/f or b/f who uses the n word when talking Ebonics with their family and friends, It is verbal abuse to start calling them ****** without establishing whether they are comfortable being called a ****** by their partner from a different ethnic background.