Originally posted by rox
thats just it. i feel like i would be abandoning them. but at the same time i want my own place and i am tired of being treated like pure shit and always avoiding physical confrontation.
But then the issue is just with your emotional connection to it. That's something you will have to figure out for yourself.
Originally posted by roxIf you're 25 you can leave.
thats just it. i feel like i would be abandoning them. but at the same time i want my own place and i am tired of being treated like pure shit and always avoiding physical confrontation.
How old are your parents?
Divorce is pointless, and why? You want to divorce them, but leaving them makes you feel like you are abandoning them? what's up with that?
Re: parent child divorce.
Originally posted by rox
does anyone know how you go about getting a parent child divorce. in other words how do you divorce your parents legally from being related to you.
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Originally posted by WhiskeyGirl
Nice.Rox- You emancipating them isn't going to make you leaving them any easier, it's just going to require time and money, both of which you could be spending on finding your own place.
If it's really as bad as you say it is, leave. Plain and simple.
i tried to leave once and lets just say things got physical(not on my part)
Originally posted by rox
i tried to leave once and lets just say things got physical(not on my part)
If you really want to leave and can let go of the emotional aspect of it, involve the police if you have to and prepare ahead, have a place to go, a place to store your things if need be, your finances in order etc.
Mom/Dad goes to stop you with a spinning back-kick when you're on the way out, have the cops there to intervene, it's what we pay them for.
Originally posted by Bardock42yes you do have to pay. my dad left me 1000s of $ but he was in debt all the money he left we had to pay off his credit cards he owed the bank alot of money. had to pay the dealership some major bucks. all that was left was $500 and thats nothing. usually when someone dies in your family you get a little more than that
...how is that wrong? You got 500$, not any debt. I never said that his debt wouldn't be paid with his assets. I said you wouldn't have to pay it.
Originally posted by roxdo you have any relatives that you get along with and enjoy being with ? any uncles or aunts ? if yes move in with them. if they love you they would understand whats going on and they wouldnt let you mind staying for awhile till u got your own permenant place.
i tried to leave once and lets just say things got physical(not on my part)
Originally posted by chomperx9
yes you do have to pay. my dad left me 1000s of $ but he was in debt all the money he left we had to pay off his credit cards he owed the bank alot of money. had to pay the dealership some major bucks. all that was left was $500 and thats nothing. usually when someone dies in your family you get a little more than that
That's only if you accept the inheritence though. In theory that should be done by the executor of the inheritence anyways. But again, it is not possible to have to pay the debt of a parent unless you consented to it.
So my point, again, is that you did not inherit the debt, you inherited all your dad's assets, which, after paying off debt were 500$. Which is not much, but it's a positive amount.
Originally posted by Bardock42if they leave you a will your good you dont have to pay any of the crap they owe. my dad didnt leave me a will
That's only if you accept the inheritence though. In theory that should be done by the executor of the inheritence anyways. But again, it is not possible to have to pay the debt of a parent unless you consented to it.
Originally posted by rox
i tried to leave once and lets just say things got physical(not on my part)
and lets just say, you haven't tried hard enough.
If you REALLY want to leave, call the police and have them escort you out.
They're free and will be there in a matter of minutes.
There is NO EXCUSE not to.
But, if you're just on here doing this for attention...shrug
Originally posted by rox
because i still take care of one and they still want to act like i am a child and yell scream and fight(physically). i am to a point where i just don't care anymore.
Leave. You are an adult. However, my real advice: take care of your parents, but if they become physically abusive, call the police. Do not put up with that, and let them know that fact.
Your parents helped you into the world and it is your responsibility to help them. However, there is a limit. At that point, pack your bags and go.
Originally posted by Shakyamunison
Leave. You are an adult. However, my real advice: take care of your parents, but if they become physically abusive, call the police. Do not put up with that, and let them know that fact.Your parents helped you into the world and it is your responsibility to help them. However, there is a limit. At that point, pack your bags and go.
I agree