Girls who (as in which man) can ever get them

I met this girl I go to school with two months back the 22th of November, we hit it of really well. We liked talking to eachother felt like we could share almost everything. We had a lot of the same friends. So we graduately became closer friends. We spent a lot of time with eachother in the X-mas holidays. But lately she was acting a bit strange. So I phoned her after she had cancelled on me (we were going to watch a movie) and she told me: I feel cornered by you, I went What the hell? she said: I am trying to create some distance between the two of us, because when we are together we look like a couple, and I don't want that, because I only feel friendship. so we have to change this thing between us to normal friends again.

So I agreed, was a bit upset by this but still that's life. Now the thing is that we had agreed with another friend of mine to go and have a drink, we still did that, and she acted like not much had happened. But ever since monday she is kinda ignoring me. She never speaks to me unless it is really necessairy and even then it is pretty short, she almost never seeks Eye-contact and whenever I do catch her looking in my direction she turns away real fast.

According to my sisters boyfriend and a mate we both know, she is trying to figure out what she exactly feels for me and I should let her be for a while.

well I am planning to but I still think men (atleast my friends and myself) are easier about that, I just tell someone straight up what I feel I don't play games like this

well,let's think of the best.this sounds like the low low ush thread 🙂
Valantine's Day is comming....😄

sorry, well no I just want other ppl their opinions I can accept the fact and dont really mind that much

But your way assumes that you always know what you feel, and it is cruel to expect people to always know that.

yea that's a fact ppl dont always know what they fell, but I think they can atleast admit that they don't know what they are feeling

and then, there's the 'expressing yourself' problem wich is encountered

Have you ever tried to call someone up and explain you do not know how you feel?

not really, but I can assume it is hard, well atleast I would think it is a bit more of an honnest and fair treatment then the silent treatment

*scared tone*
she....she's messing with your mind man!

Nah, you are very lucky if you find someone who can try and talk about their confused feelings so.

well I try to, but maybe the silence is a better idea, atleast ppl cant get the wrong idea by your words

but they might get the wrong idea by your actions

BUT, if it holds for more than let's say 2 weeks...intervention from you could be needed again.

lol dexx we will see, it looked a bit better today already

it's on the good way.....

I sure hope so fitch

do good in classes.....try to make it look like you're actually studying....oh, wait, maybe you really are..😄

don't give him ideeas from our experience,he needs to learn... 😄

lol we will see

so,what's new in u're story ?

yesterday we celebrated our 100 days
that means that we only have 100 school days left untill we graduate it is celebrated pretty big, doing some class activities, having a reception at school and a very big party afterwards
and well atleast we did have some small conversations again 🙂
but I don't really mind that much anymore we will see how things evolve