Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
Hey, I like MG and all, but if she didn't want questions asked, she probably should not have started a thread on it. At this point, no question is taboo.
I don't disagree, I feel the same curiosity, I was just trying to explain why WS is wondering. I think it must be very hard to expose your personal life on the internet though, I hope it works out for her one way or another though.
Originally posted by Rogue Jediyou can ask questions.
Hey, I like MG and all, but if she didn't want questions asked, she probably should not have started a thread on it. At this point, no question is taboo.
there is nothing wrong with me starting this thread -- I basically just wanted to announce that I was pregs and scared - that's all
Originally posted by Impedimentthanks I needed that 馃槉
MG, kids are a trial. Take it from me: I'm one of the few KMC'ers who is an actual parent. My daughter is my life. I couldnt imagine life without her. Kids are hard, but rewarding.When you have a child, you have to give up your life. Period.
No arguments.
I considered aborting my daughter via discussion with my wife, but we decided not to.
I now live my life for the happiness of my child. My happiness is second.
The only thing I can say is: If you have this child, make sure you are ready to so the same.
Originally posted by rader
In my opinion, abortion is a preferable option to adoption. A lot of times kids end up in adoption homes their entire lives, and some of the time these homes aren't the best places in the world. I know people have stipulations on the subject of abortion, but I can't consider it murder, as it hasn't developed a personality, and you could be preventing it from living a miserable life in an orphanage.
Originally posted by Ms.MarvelIf you (MG) give it up for adoption, you should screen the couple/person who's wanting to adopt the kid; there are plenty of infertile married couples who are willing to pay medical costs and even pay you for a chance to have a child. If you feel you aren't ready, I think that's the best course of action.
i dont really see either sides of that spectrum being a good argument ermmit would be better to just... do what you think you should do
Originally posted by Strangelove馃憜
If you (MG) give it up for adoption, you should screen the couple/person who's wanting to adopt the kid; there are plenty of infertile married couples who are willing to pay medical costs and even pay you for a chance to have a child. If you feel you aren't ready, I think that's the best course of action.
Re: Bun in the Oven
Originally posted by Morning_Glory
peed on a stick - it came up positive before I could blinkso yea... I'm pregs... and kind of scared
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also - it's been years since I made a thread here eat
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Not going to try and influence you one way or another. Whatever you do MG, just make sure you try and have no regrets either way. hug
Originally posted by Strangelove
If you (MG) give it up for adoption, you should screen the couple/person who's wanting to adopt the kid; there are plenty of infertile married couples who are willing to pay medical costs and even pay you for a chance to have a child. If you feel you aren't ready, I think that's the best course of action.
It's a hard decision to make, I think. Just make sure that you don't get influenced by people's agendas and be bullied into the wrong decision for you. hug
Originally posted by Wild ShadowI feel like the first couple questions there are no ones business and I don't know why that would even matter in this situation- as far as me deciding what to do
more then one lover? dont know who the baby's daddy will be?what factors?
independence not willing to commit?
tell us woman forum wants to know.. this is my soap opera moment you got me fixated
I am willing to commit and give up a lot of things... but like I said there are just other things that play into this
Originally posted by Morning_Glory
I feel like the first couple questions there are no ones business and I don't know why that would even matter in this situation- as far as me deciding what to do
Well, that's because the father has a legal obligation and they are pretty damn important questions. Even if you don't want to share those, what the father thinks, what you think about the father, what you think about raising the baby with that father, your respective parents, etc. etc. etc. those are all ridiculously important questions.
Originally posted by Morning_Glory
that is a long long story... seriously it would take me pages and pages to tell you about ...
Almost all to all of us will never meet you IRL. If you want to, you can tell us all about it. There will always be those idiots that say negative things, but most of us will be kind and supportive: just ignore the trolls.
Originally posted by dadudemon
Almost all to all of us will never meet you IRL. If you want to, you can tell us all about it. There will always be those idiots that say negative things, but most of us will be kind and supportive: just ignore the trolls.
There is more to think about than whether she will meet us, which I am sure you know.