what do you hate/Sticks in your craw?

Originally posted by King Castle
and you my young lady are very highly attractive.. 😮

trust me i would know. hence why you can get away with the weirdness

Attractiveness is a huge subjective jumble of stuff, of which physical appearance is only a part. And it's different for every single person, the kind of personality that is attractive, certain actions, hair color or body type... to focus on just the physical portion and believe it to be attractive across the board is patently ridiculous and shallow.

Originally posted by General Kaliero
Believe me, it's not weird to consider you superficial.

Attractiveness is a huge subjective jumble of stuff, of which physical appearance is only a part. And it's different for every single person, the kind of personality that is attractive, certain actions, hair color or body type... to focus on just the physical portion and believe it to be attractive across the board is patently ridiculous and shallow.

All of those things are current "mainstream" attractive elements asserted by common media. I'd be more inclined to believe you're simply hoping for a skinny caucasian blonde with a large chest, assertive personality, and just enough broad intelligence to make you look cultured because that's what you've been told you should want.

Originally posted by King Castle
i actually love my women to be smarter then me.. it doesnt bother me. i can learn something new every day. plus, i dont have to feign interest when they talk about stuff if i actually have to ask questions and wanna learn..

but, attractiveness is a high quality last time i lowered it, i got hurt bad.. i rather be burned by some one in my league or above then someone that isnt.. its b/c i actually became emotionally attached with more then just looks so it hurt worse.

athletism is important as well..

really hate ppl with negative attitudes with bad skin, bad teeth, glasses, overweight and extremely unattractive.. with these bad qualities i expect them to be nice and try to win over ppl more attractive then themselves..

What if they are smarter or more skilled, though? Or is attractiveness the main quality for you?

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Oh yeah, the soulless robot parser has spoken! 😎

look if the woman looks like a man with bad skin.. no matter how funny how similar we are we aint dating or getting past the handshake b4 i excuse myself to wash my hand and have a panic/anxiety attack.

it has nothing to be with being shallow maybe a lil but it is far deeper psychological issues..

1) When people wear Sandals/crocs

2) When people take pictures of themselves in bathrooms

3) When people say "Buh-Bye" when ending a phone conversation

4) When people copy my hairstyles

5) When people clap their hands while arguing their point

6) When I can hear people chew their food

7) When people stare into my eyes

8) When people touch my face

9) When people piss next to you

10) When people repeat what I just said.

11) When people try to get a refund at a movie theater...

12) When people try to sound deep

13) Hipsters

14) When people try to backfire at the source of the conversation in order to sound "intelligent."

I can go on.

****.

Originally posted by King Castle
look if the woman looks like a man with bad skin.. no matter how funny how similar we are we aint dating or getting past the handshake b4 i excuse myself to wash my hand and have a panic/anxiety attack.

it has nothing to be with being shallow maybe a lil but it is far deeper psychological issues..

Originally posted by King Castle
look if the woman looks like a man with bad skin.. no matter how funny how similar we are we aint dating or getting past the handshake b4 i excuse myself to wash my hand and have a panic/anxiety attack.

it has nothing to be with being shallow maybe a lil but it is far deeper psychological issues..

Well, I do agree, hygiene is definitely important, so are looks to some degree, I just don't like your phrasing as it puts "attractiveness" above any other quality, and people who lack it should iyo feel ashamed to even talk to more attractive people. Which is silly, they may have much more important qualities far exceeding the attractive person. And in any case I find the phrasing somewhat close minded.

Originally posted by Bardock42
Well, I do agree, hygiene is definitely important, so are looks to some degree, I just don't like your phrasing as it puts "attractiveness" above any other quality, and people who lack it should iyo feel ashamed to even talk to more attractive people. Which is silly, they may have much more important qualities far exceeding the attractive person. And in any case I find the phrasing someone close minded.

I agree, especially when he made a comment about how if you're not (in his opinion) physically attractive, you should be as nice as possible to try and win over people who might look better than you.

**** that bullshit. Looks are temporary. Personality is permanent.

no its more and it isnt homoerotic anxiety..

1) its okay not to be attracted to ppl.

2) its okay not to find a beautiful person that every one agrees is beautiful attractive.

3) not everything is about being shallow but also ppl having physiological issues.. i dont date certain women not b/c they are not pretty but b/c i cant get over something that is mundane but nags me due to my compulsive behavior that is not shallow.

Originally posted by King Castle
no its more and it isnt homoerotic anxiety..

1) its okay not to be attracted to ppl.

2) its okay not to find a beautiful person that every one agrees is beautiful attractive.

3) not everything is about being shallow but also ppl having physiological issues.. i dont date certain women not b/c they are not pretty but b/c i cant get over something that is mundane but nags me due to my compulsive behavior that is not shallow.

It's okay not to be attracted to people, but it's shallow if the immediate determining factor is only physical appearance.

You find someone beautiful unattractive? Kind of defeats the point you seem to be attempting to make.

Being shallow is a psychological issue. Your "compulsive behavior," as far as I can tell, is putting physical features before all else.

the immediate physical appearance is what keeps me from being sociable with certain ppl it doesnt matter if they are smoking hot or fat and ugly.. it isnt being shallow again i repeat it isnt being shallow.

might as well accuse howie mandel of that as well.

no, i have anti social behavior/compulsive issues.. i cannot tolerate touching certain ppl not b/c they are ugly or anything like that but because they may have blemishes that i can see and i obsess over... which is why i prefer beautiful skin and i date women with no blemishes.. i could say i am disgusted by it but, that wouldnt be nice but i do feel that way as i go and clean myself off and have a panic attack..
http://www.killermovies.com/forums/showthread.php?threadid=10813&pagenumber=5880
i dont like touching ppl period. i have anxiety attacks and become fixated on skin... from the pores, moles, birth marks scars..

i also fixate on my own from shaving my body and removing certain blemishes.

Ignoring the rest...

...you know that "not liking people" is not what anti-social behavior is, right?

Originally posted by King Castle
the immediate physical appearance is what keeps me from being sociable with certain ppl it doesnt matter if they are smoking hot or fat and ugly.. it isnt being shallow again i repeat it isnt being shallow.

might as well accuse howie mandel of that as well.

no, i have anti social behavior/compulsive issues.. i cannot tolerate touching certain ppl not b/c they are ugly or anything like that but because they may have blemishes that i can see and i obsess over... which is why i prefer beautiful skin and i date women with no blemishes.. i could say i am disgusted by it but, that wouldnt be nice but i do feel that way as i go and clean myself off and have a panic attack..
http://www.killermovies.com/forums/showthread.php?threadid=10813&pagenumber=5880
i dont like touching ppl period. i have anxiety attacks and become fixated on skin... from the pores, moles, birth marks scars..

i also fixate on my own from shaving my body and removing certain blemishes.

Oh snap, I finally figured out who you remind me of! Patrick Bateman. hmm

Originally posted by King Castle
the immediate physical appearance is what keeps me from being sociable with certain ppl it doesnt matter if they are smoking hot or fat and ugly.. it isnt being shallow again i repeat it isnt being shallow.

might as well accuse howie mandel of that as well.

no, i have anti social behavior/compulsive issues.. i cannot tolerate touching certain ppl not b/c they are ugly or anything like that but because they may have blemishes that i can see and i obsess over... which is why i prefer beautiful skin and i date women with no blemishes.. i could say i am disgusted by it but, that wouldnt be nice but i do feel that way as i go and clean myself off and have a panic attack..
http://www.killermovies.com/forums/showthread.php?threadid=10813&pagenumber=5880
i dont like touching ppl period. i have anxiety attacks and become fixated on skin... from the pores, moles, birth marks scars..

i also fixate on my own from shaving my body and removing certain blemishes.

Further, anti-social behavior is behavior without consideration for others, that can cause damage to society. ASPD is not an urge to be away from others, but an urge to violate others' personal rights.

Neither part of your defense holds up. Either you are lying, or you've convinced yourself of a flawed combination of "crutch" disorders, which is a serious psychological problem that ought to be looked into.

Originally posted by AbnormalButSane
Oh snap, I finally figured out who you remind me of! Patrick Bateman. hmm

Originally posted by General Kaliero
Howie Mandel suffers from mysophobia, an irrational fear of germs. It has nothing to do with physical appearance, and sufferers do not have trouble interacting with others on a normal level, only with physical touch. "Bad skin" or "good," it's all the same to an actual mysophobic.

Further, anti-social behavior is behavior without consideration for others, that can cause damage to society. ASPD is not an urge to be away from others, but an urge to violate others' personal rights.

Neither part of your defense holds up. Either you are lying, or you've convinced yourself of a flawed combination of "crutch" disorders, which is a serious psycological problem that ought to be looked into.

Indeed. And to add to the anti-social bit, people who do exhibit actual anti-social behavior are generally very social with others. It gives them the opportunities to get the attention they crave, as well as the chances to manipulate and use others.

Originally posted by King Castle
noooo.. he was a sociopath. i am more like Adrian Monk.. none psycho nor immediate harm to ppl.

You do seem like a sociopath at times.

Originally posted by General Kaliero
Howie Mandel suffers from mysophobia, an irrational fear of germs. It has nothing to do with physical appearance, and sufferers do not have trouble interacting with others on a normal level, only with physical touch. "Bad skin" or "good," it's all the same to an actual mysophobic.

Further, anti-social behavior is behavior without consideration for others, that can cause damage to society. ASPD is not an urge to be away from others, but an urge to violate others' personal rights.

Neither part of your defense holds up. Either you are lying, or you've convinced yourself of a flawed combination of "crutch" disorders, which is a serious psychological problem that ought to be looked into.

i guess you know when me and my friend had a panic attack at disney land and our ptsd aggravated already existing behavior. he didnt like being touched either and couldnt stand a messy desk or being dirty always wiping his hands rearranging his desk,,, i guess my own inability to want to talk to ppl and also clean my own hands and not be touched didnt happen. i guess me being given benzodiazepines didnt happen.. i guess my hands were constantly sweaty and feeling like all eyes are watching me didnt happen, right?

i dont like ppl in general i dont like being touched.. i see ppl and i am usually disgusted by their appearance and isnt just being shallow. its i cant stop thinking and focusing on their cracks and pores and moles that to me look like the size of dish platters..

but, you know all this and it never happen.. i guess me telling acdc my 1st anxiety experience didnt happen b/c i dont have any physiological issues.

i guess me telling steverule about my step dads constantly telling me that fat ppl were evil and possessed didnt help build a bad image of them which i still struggle with and have stated is also a rooted cause of my psychological problems didnt happen..

i guess i didnt freeze up when my moms neighbor try to give me a hug.. i guess i dont tense up when my mom gives me one.. which she stop.

but, you are right you know about me and know i dont suffer from any compulsive disorder b/c you can tell about ppl by their sentence structure, right?