Originally posted by ~Bun Bun~
Preferbly all three. (In a good relationship)Sex can be whatever one uses it for. But, for me without love or... that type of connection... sex just feels empty.
Gotta have lust involved... If you don't "want" your partner... then why even do it? Could just as easly do it yourself then.
And fun. Really... it your not having fun then wtf are you doing!?
So, all three 😊
Re: Sex, Question of the Year
Originally posted by Phoenix3068
I was talking with a friend and we ended up on the subject of sex. Not perverted things like "Whats your favorite position" but more curious type things, stuff that people ask themselves. So here is my question to all of KMC (if it hasn't been created already). What is important in sex to you?Is it Love? Do you seek a future with your special someone?
Is it Lust? Do you want sex with someone just because of their appearance?
Is it Fun? Are you just bored? Why do we want this, make your voice known to show if the theory that 90% of the male mind is purely "sex" is true or not.A thread for both sexes, this one does not discriminate. What do you want out of what is seen as the ultimate pleasure a human being (and in some cases some animals) can have?
Personally and Ideally having love for someone or being in love with someone is the ultimate way of experience sex. I find I give more of myself to this person freely in the sense that I am more open.
Their has been the occasional person that out of lust their looks or mannerisms instantly turn me on and I want nothing more then to have a freaky night of wild sex with but this passes and comes and goes with these, the next best looking pieces come around here and there. (few & far far far far in between)
Hell yea sex is fun. Sadly I didn't discover how much until I was in my thirties and divorcing my ex husband of 15 years. It was with Alex that I discovered how much I really liked sex and appreciated the body for what it does.
As some of you know I am married, Im married now to a man who wonderful and spoils me as much as he can. His only draw back are his works of 40-60 (and some time 80)hours a week as a mechanic and driving truck at night so he isnt home most of the tome of th time, so that doesn't leave us much time. We have a happy healthy sexual relationship and he excepts that I'm open to other "adventures". Though I'm so attracked to him that I do practist monogamy.
Re: Re: Sex, Question of the Year
Originally posted by Ms ChelleYou are the epitome of awesome.
Personally and Ideally having love for someone or being in love with someone is the ultimate way of experience sex. I find I give more of myself to this person freely in the sense that I am more open.Their has been the occasional person that out of lust their looks or mannerisms instantly turn me on and I want nothing more then to have a freaky night of wild sex with but this passes and comes and goes with these, the next best looking pieces come around here and there. (few & far far far far in between)
Hell yea sex is fun. Sadly I didn't discover how much until I was in my thirties and divorcing my ex husband of 15 years. It was with Alex that I discovered how much I really liked sex and appreciated the body for what it does.
As some of you know I am married, Im married now to a man who wonderful and spoils me as much as he can. His only draw back are his works of 40-60 (and some time 80)hours a week as a mechanic and driving truck at night so he isnt home most of the tome of th time, so that doesn't leave us much time. We have a happy healthy sexual relationship and he excepts that I'm open to other "adventures". Though I'm so attracked to him that I do practist monogamy.
Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
Accio Joey?
Haha naw, I'm talkin' to you numnuts 😛
Originally posted by Ms Chelle
Personally and Ideally having love for someone or being in love with someone is the ultimate way of experience sex. I find I give more of myself to this person freely in the sense that I am more open.Their has been the occasional person that out of lust their looks or mannerisms instantly turn me on and I want nothing more then to have a freaky night of wild sex with but this passes and comes and goes with these, the next best looking pieces come around here and there. (few & far far far far in between)
Hell yea sex is fun. Sadly I didn't discover how much until I was in my thirties and divorcing my ex husband of 15 years. It was with Alex that I discovered how much I really liked sex and appreciated the body for what it does.
As some of you know I am married, Im married now to a man who wonderful and spoils me as much as he can. His only draw back are his works of 40-60 (and some time 80)hours a week as a mechanic and driving truck at night so he isnt home most of the tome of th time, so that doesn't leave us much time. We have a happy healthy sexual relationship and he excepts that I'm open to other "adventures". Though I'm so attracked to him that I do practist monogamy.
Agreed, Shelli you're awesome 😄 And gorgeous 😉
Originally posted by Phoenix3068
Is sex different from rape?
92% of America thinks so!
8% thinks not!
I know someone who has a fetish of being raped.
If all this is true then do the 8% believe that you rape them because you love them?
Whoa whoa whoa...
Ive never heard of that.
The fetish thing... eh it's along the lines of S&M so... whatever floats your boat.
Originally posted by ~Bun Bun~
Preferbly all three. (In a good relationship)Sex can be whatever one uses it for. But, for me without love or... that type of connection... sex just feels empty.
Gotta have lust involved... If you don't "want" your partner... then why even do it? Could just as easly do it yourself then.
And fun. Really... it your not having fun then wtf are you doing!?
So, all three 😊
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Originally posted by Ms Chelle
Personally and Ideally having love for someone or being in love with someone is the ultimate way of experience sex. I find I give more of myself to this person freely in the sense that I am more open.Their has been the occasional person that out of lust their looks or mannerisms instantly turn me on and I want nothing more then to have a freaky night of wild sex with but this passes and comes and goes with these, the next best looking pieces come around here and there. (few & far far far far in between)
Hell yea sex is fun. Sadly I didn't discover how much until I was in my thirties and divorcing my ex husband of 15 years. It was with Alex that I discovered how much I really liked sex and appreciated the body for what it does.
As some of you know I am married, Im married now to a man who wonderful and spoils me as much as he can. His only draw back are his works of 40-60 (and some time 80)hours a week as a mechanic and driving truck at night so he isnt home most of the tome of th time, so that doesn't leave us much time. We have a happy healthy sexual relationship and he excepts that I'm open to other "adventures". Though I'm so attracked to him that I do practist monogamy.
i see women that i know i could easily have sex with, just based off of looks, but this can pertain too any good looking woman.
i think sex is a big part of a relationship, but definitely not the whole thing or even most of it.