Super Heroes and Angry Jews and Foreskins, oh my

Started by Robtard3 pages

Originally posted by dadudemon

Yeah, that's a gentler doctor. He's also doing it a tad slower than most...probably for the vid/documentary?

Anyway, glad "mine" was done when I was a newborn.

I've seen a few, the others were laden with far more shrieking and the babies towards the end suddenly became quiet and had a glazed over look, ie they went into shock from the pain.

At least the Jews wait eight days or so and they drug the baby with wine to numb the pain. I've been to three bris, they were far more caring and gentle then hospital doctors from what I've seen. Still a gross practice, imo.

Originally posted by Robtard
I've seen a few, the others were laden with far more shrieking and the babies towards the end suddenly became quiet and had a glazed over look, ie they went into shock from the pain.

Yeah, I wish they would drug the babies...but it's not safe or something like that? I don't remember. They can do a local anesthetic...but that's definitely not enough (they did it in the vid you posted. It appeared to be mixed in the with the iodine).

Originally posted by Robtard
At least the Jews wait eight days or so and they drug the baby with wine to numb the pain. I've been to three bris, they were far more caring and gentle then hospital doctors from what I've seen. Still a gross practice, imo.

My son is not circumcised and he's had 2 UTI's despite proper bathing care (both related to the foreskin). It makes me doubt this "awesomeness" of not being circumcised. He has the option of getting one done on his own when he's older, however. IMO, that is really best. The modern world makes dealing with UTI's much easier so they are almost always NOT life-threatening. Will my son get pissed at his mother for not having it done (due to the misery from his UTI's)? I don't think so as he may not remember them.

Originally posted by dadudemon
Yeah, I wish they would drug the babies...but it's not safe or something like that? I don't remember. They can do a local anesthetic...but that's definitely not enough (they did it in the vid you posted. It appeared to be mixed in the with the iodine).

My son is not circumcised and he's had 2 UTI's despite proper bathing care (both related to the foreskin). It makes me doubt this "awesomeness" of not being circumcised. He has the option of getting one done on his own when he's older, however.

Jews use a sweet wine, it seemed to work.

I've never had a UTI nor has my brother. Our older brother was circumcised when he was around one cos he used to get them a lot too, he had a smaller than usual opening around the foreskin I believe. So it was do to an abnormality in his case. My son will be three soon and he's never had one. Just could be bad luck in the case of your son, but I don't think having two is something to be wary of, there are circumcised kids that get UTI just the same.

I agree with that, let them decide when they're older.

Originally posted by Robtard
I've never had a UTI nor has my brother. Our older brother was circumcised when he was around one cos he used to get them a lot too, he had a smaller than usual opening around the foreskin I believe. So it was do to an abnormality in his case. My son will be three soon and he's never had one. Just could be bad luck in the case of your son, but I don't think having two is something to be wary of, there are circumcised kids that get UTI just the same.

This was my conclusion, as well: it's just shitty luck. But, as a parent, you can't help think, "Man, did I wrong my child? The little dude is in pain and miserable at the moment mostly because of a decisions his parent's made." Granted, he's not be biological son...but I don't differentiate because I became his father when he was very young.

Originally posted by Robtard
I agree with that, let them decide when they're older.

Meh...seems like it works best in a modern western country. If this were Chad, probably best to get it done...but this is not Chad.

Originally posted by dadudemon
This was my conclusion, as well: it's just shitty luck. But, as a parent, you can't help think, "Man, did I wrong my child? The little dude is in pain and miserable at the moment mostly because of a decisions his parent's made." Granted, he's not be biological son...but I don't differentiate because I became his father when he was very young.

Meh...seems like it works best in a modern western country. If this were Chad, probably best to get it done...but this is not Chad.

I wouldn't beat yourself up over it, as I said, circumcised kids do get UTI just the same. You raised him, he's your son, period.

Yes and no, it's a natural part of the body, we're designed to deal. But yeah, if I had a young son (like my brother was) and he kept getting them over and over and over, then I'd have it done. But I don't think this is common.

Originally posted by Esau Cairn
Well I'm a father of a 5 yr old son.

Personally I was circumcised at birth some 40 years ago.
Back then it was a "normal" procedure to do, for hygiene purposes, especially if you were born in a country that was classified as third world.

Suffice to say I don't remember the pain of getting it done much less the discomfort of the healing after. I don't resent my parents & I'm not living my life in anguish over the "abuse" of having my foreskin & moral rights removed as an infant.

In 2006 when I son was born, the topic of circumcision was never brought up. I was mildly surprised it was a non-issue, whether on religious or hygienic purposes.
And so my son is uncircumcised.

It's been hilarious & sometimes embarrassing trying to teach a child to pull back his foreskin & clean his "willy" in the shower, much less after every time he goes to pee.

I've also heard that he might go through a painful stage around puberty where the foreskin may be tight & constricting during his 1st few erections.

So yeah on hindsight, if the option was given at birth for him to be circumcised, I would've opted for yes, based on my own experiences of growing up.

this doesn't explain why you should have the right to subject your child to needless surgery

if they experience discomfort from it during puberty, then maybe you and your child can make an informed decision about it based on that

having difficulty telling your child to wash their penis shows your own insecurities, nothing to do with them, and tbh, Penn Jillette said it best "how hard is it to get young boys to play with their penis in the shower?"

if he wants it cut when he is older, he can make that decision

I'm also cut, it was done when I was first born. I don't really care, its not something that bothers me, ever really. However, if you asked me now, "would you have liked doctors to cut your penis for no discernible reason?" I would have said no. Not that I really want a foreskin or anything, just that I'd have rather not had a doctor cut my penis, especially against my will.

Originally posted by Symmetric Chaos
Because we give them all kinds of other crazy rights over them due to children being a moral and legal gray zone.

this is true, but rarely do such "gray zones" extend to physical mutilation. You can't beat your child, but you can say, "sure doctor, please take a sharp object to my son's penis, for no reason other than I like how it looks/its a religious thing/its easier to clean [sic]".

Most of the time, such rights like, forcing a child to go to school, taking away their possessions for punishment, forced confinement for groundings, etc, can be reasonably justified.

Originally posted by Adam_PoE
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ugh, I've heard of this before. Considering some of the nonsense reasons F&CS will use to break up families, I can't believe this woman was allowed to keep her child this long

Originally posted by dadudemon
Anyway, glad "mine" was done when I was a newborn.

I think it is a profound statement about how cruel the practice is, if most people who "like" it would probably not have done it as an adult

Originally posted by Robtard
But yeah, if I had a young son (like my brother was) and he kept getting them over and over and over, then I'd have it done. But I don't think this is common.

very true, however, medical procedures for actual medical problems are different than religious or cosmetic motivations

Same way that it really isn't a violation of your child's rights to have them immunized, or force them to take medication they might not like

Originally posted by Symmetric Chaos
For goodness sake, the moment you portray Jews as inherently evil people start crying "antisemitism". ****in' political correctness.
👆

Its seems that not a day goes by and someone is offended by someone or sueing someone.People need to get a life!

Originally posted by inimalist
this is true, but rarely do such "gray zones" extend to physical mutilation. You can't beat your child, but you can say, "sure doctor, please take a sharp object to my son's penis, for no reason other than I like how it looks/its a religious thing/its easier to clean [sic]".

Most of the time, such rights like, forcing a child to go to school, taking away their possessions for punishment, forced confinement for groundings, etc, can be reasonably justified.

I was thinking of a child who is born with [condition you acknowledge as a deformity]. Is plastic surgery to fix that justifiable?

I happen to agree that circumcision should need a medical justification but I find it hard to fit into the other medical rights parents have over children. Take the National Association of the Deaf, they consider cochlear implants to be both mutilation and "cultural genocide", I suspect you could find a similarly extreme neo-hippie group that considers giving haircuts to be mutilation.

What qualifies as mutilation is *highly* subjective and it seems to me that the only standard is that we forbid things that are objectively harmful to the child (where harmful is sort of vague). Circumcision has, as far as I can tell, fairly minor effects in terms of good and bad.

Originally posted by Symmetric Chaos
I was thinking of a child who is born with [condition you acknowledge as a deformity]. Is plastic surgery to fix that justifiable?

is plastic surgery even possible at that age? doesn't the body need to be at some level of maturation before it would work?

but in general, no, so long as it doesn't cause persistent problems in the child's development, I can't really condone "making your child look nicer" any more than I can say "all children with developmental delays should be killed". I know that is a huge extreme, but I think the logic is sort of the same. It isn't the parent's choice in this case, or, at least wait until they are an age where the child has some sense of what is going to happen. Even 4-5 years gives enough time for basic cognition and reasoning skills.

Originally posted by Symmetric Chaos
I happen to agree that circumcision should need a medical justification but I find it hard to fit into the other medical rights parents have over children. Take the National Association of the Deaf, they consider cochlear implants to be both mutilation and "cultural genocide",

being deaf really isn't that problematic, so long as there is sign language infrastructure, so I might be against such a thing in infancy, though, I think an argument can be made for its justification, and neuroplasticity would suggest the earlier such a surgery could be done, the better

however, the NAD's position is clearly idiotic. Nothing is stopping someone from having their implants removed, if they really want to be part of deaf culture. Nothing is stopping me from deafening myself intentionally. hell, I could be part of blind "culture" if I wanted to.

as much as people hate talking about "normal", for someone with a background in perceptual psychology, the idea that a deaf person is "normal" is nonsense. It is clearly an aberration from typical human function, and a disability in that one of their sensory organs or associated neuro-architecture is not functioning properly, if at all. In fact, the only reason I would be hesitant about such implants in children is because society has taken steps to accommodate people without hearing. In a less egalitarian society, the justification for such a procedure would be overwhelming.

Originally posted by Symmetric Chaos
I suspect you could find a similarly extreme neo-hippie group that considers giving haircuts to be mutilation.

yes, but now we are getting into things like "spirituality". Theoretically, not being circumcised might make you go to Hell, so radical Christians might argue that way. an evidence based approach makes all such complaints moot, though, in this case, I can't see any harm in not cutting a child's hair, so have at it hippies

Originally posted by Symmetric Chaos
What qualifies as mutilation is *highly* subjective and it seems to me that the only standard is that we forbid things that are objectively harmful to the child (where harmful is sort of vague). Circumcision has, as far as I can tell, fairly minor effects in terms of good and bad.

sure, there is subjectivity in everything, but rather than banning what is harmful, why not look at it as justifying the benefit of the practice.

while there may not be any long-term harm associated with circumcision, there is certainly no benefit, and a foreskin, unless in rare cases, really doesn't interfere with day to day function for the child. Therefore, with no good reason to do it, it probably shouldn't be done

Other the decades the medical community has given several "valid" reasons why circumcision should be done, my two favorites were:

-Cures masturbation

-Cures overly active sex-drive

I think at one point a 'less chance of penile cancers' was used.

I feel like the odd one out on this as one of those rare intact Jews. I had a bit of the phimosis deformity and would definitely recommend the "plastic surgery" over circumcision. The main difference is that it's out patient with local anesthetic and the recovery time is like three and a half weeks. They just make a tiny verticle slit, cauterize and blood vessels, sew it up horizontally and put on a dab of neosporin. Honestly, the only problems I've had other than that are too minor to mention.

Originally posted by Robtard
Other the decades the medical community has given several "valid" reasons why circumcision should be done, my two favorites were:

-Cures masturbation

-Cures overly active sex-drive

I think at one point a 'less chance of penile cancers' was used.

Well, the last one seems logical, less tissue to go cancerous hmm

Originally posted by inimalist
ugh, I've heard of this before. Considering some of the nonsense reasons F&CS will use to break up families, I can't believe this woman was allowed to keep her child this long

Of course you did, the Young Turks covered it 😛

Originally posted by Bardock42
Of course you did, the Young Turks covered it 😛

lol, I thought so

This comic character is so wrong and yet we are talking about Jews, they never accepted our Lord.

Jesus wants you to give her that extra bit of pleasure with that undulating piece of tissue. Jesus also wants you to wash your dick cheese off with non-scented, pH-neutral soap not every day, but every other day and to make sure you avoid NO-9 and latex. Jesus also wants you to use a condom with a flared tip to help accommodate natural anatomy and motion and to make sure you add 1 drop of a lubricant containing pectin or other natural preservatives to the reservoir tip or just all over it if you plan on engaging in sodomy.
But most importantly, Jesus wants you to drink plenty of cranberry juice and to pee and wash your willie whether it just came out of the mouth, the pink, or the brown.
amen.

Originally posted by inimalist

having difficulty telling your child to wash their penis shows your own insecurities, nothing to do with them, and tbh, Penn Jillette said it best "how hard is it to get young boys to play with their penis in the shower?"

As I said, it's been both hilarious & embarrassing teaching him about washing his own penis.

Hilarious because as a 5 yr old, he can't stop talking about his "willy & peanuts" at the most random of times, around the dinner table, on car trips or seeing a statue of a naked man...

Embarrassing when his teacher asks you to explain the meaning of "Daddy was showing me how to play with my willy in the shower..."

So please don't tell me I'm insecure about my body or my son's well being.

Originally posted by Esau Cairn
As I said, it's been both hilarious & embarrassing teaching him about washing his own penis.

Hilarious because as a 5 yr old, he can't stop talking about his "willy & peanuts" at the most random of times, around the dinner table, on car trips or seeing a statue of a naked man...

Embarrassing when his teacher asks you to explain the meaning of "Daddy was showing me how to play with my willy in the shower..."

So please don't tell me I'm insecure about my body or my son's well being.

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Originally posted by inimalist

I'm also cut, it was done when I was first born. I don't really care, its not something that bothers me, ever really. However, if you asked me now, "would you have liked doctors to cut your penis for no discernible reason?" I would have said no. Not that I really want a foreskin or anything, just that I'd have rather not had a doctor cut my penis, especially against my will.

Now I'm not going to tell you how to raise you're own & I ask that you show me the same respect also.

Last year my missus was worried that our son was having trouble breathing when he slept, he was snoring louder than a child should & so out of peace of mind we spent the night at the hospital for a sleep test.

The results was that he was born with enlarged tonsils. The doctors said it didn't affect his breathing at all, however it would make his snoring sound louder & unusual than other children & the times he had the flu, his throat may be slightly more swollen & sore.

Now, we as parents, were given 3 options:
1)Realise his health was not in jeopardy & accept that his snoring was natural because of his enlarged tonsils.

2) Take the chance that as he grew older his tonsils "would adjust themselves & revert back to their natural size".

3) Remove his tonsils now for no other discernible reason but peace of mind. There was also a slight concern that it would be more difficult to remove his tonsils at an older age, if they proved to be a problem with his sleeping.

I opted against having his tonsils removed, arguing it was against his will whilst my missus countered back on how painful his throat became when he had the flu & possible sleep issues affecting his studies as he grew older.

In the end, I opted to listen to my missus & put my 5 yr old son's moral rights aside.

As a loving parent, hindsight isn't a super power one develops nor has the right to use in arguments.