Originally posted by inimalistBanks tell you that you are approved, not that you can afford it.
salesmen are not allowed to lie to youthey might, but it is fraud. Like, if a salesman says, "this is $10", but it is really $70, they have actually committed fraud (as long as it wasn't an accident).
well, yes, it actually would:
Police officer: its ok if you smoke this joint, you will be fine, its not illegal, I wont arrest you
Me: I'm not so sure about that, but you are the police officer, you would know
vs
Bank: its ok, you will be able to afford it, just sign
Me: I'm not so sure about that, but you are the bank, you would know
it is exactly the same thing, and it is problematic for the same reason. It would be like if your doctor was lying to you. Sure, you could go get your MD so that you could "know better", but like.... /sigh, **** it, you are right, your economy collapsed because of dumb consumers.
A person may not be able to afford it no matter what they make because they may be spending too much already. Affording something is based on what you do. They just put the numbers together and say what is reasonable based on your income and credit, but if you are towing the line, then you probably can't.
Originally posted by Harbinger
The "those gotdamn poor people are just so entitled" deal is beyond boilerplate at this point. It's essentially a tangent of Ray-Gun's "welfare queens in pink Cadillacs" line.Most of the poor people I knew (from growing up), and currently know, don't have fancy cars or live in nice houses. Most, if not all of them, rent their homes. They don't have cars and have to rely on Detroit's crappy public transit. They have low-paying jobs because they never went to college. They don't feel "entitled" to a Benz or a McMansion. They also usually lack the money to better themselves and their lives (whether that be by way of higher education or other means).
If people were truly interested in talking about why our economy's off in the ditch, they'd be talking about the entire spectrum or poor people, not just the part that suits their argument. Plenty of people got out, gamed the system, and contributed to collapsing the economy. There's also a lot of people that went out and got gamed by mortgage companies. But for all of the talk about the "hate the rich" undertone of this thread, the "hate and blame the poor" undertone is equally as strong.
I grew up very poor so that won't work on me. I grew up in one of the poorest areas in the country. I know their behaviors very well as I know many people personally who adhere to it. They are the ones with 4 kids at 23 years old sucking up money. The ones who are perpetually unemployed and never pay their bills. They are the ones who buy impulsively, gamble impulsively, and spend money on alcohol and drugs. I know what it's like and I know what people do as I've been on all sides. I've had friends who were broke, then go out and buy a car or a gaming system and complain that they couldn't pay their rent because the "rich man stole from them". No, they were just being stupid. These are the ones with a $500 a month apartment driving an $40,000+ vehicle.
Here are the facts:
People who are poorer are more likely to have kids out of wedlock, or more kids than they can afford, that's a fact.
People who are poor are less likely to spend money on education and more likely to spend money on drugs and alcohol.
People who are poor are more likely to abuse drugs and alcohol.
Poor people are more likely to not educate their children or really care.
Poorer people are more likely to commit crimes and be in jail.
People who are poor or more likely to be single mothers. Single mothers give birth to more dysfunctional children, drug addicts, teenage mothers, criminals, etc.
And on and on.
It isn't just the poor either, many of the middle class do some of these things (but not all) many of them signed on loans to be able to flip houses and make a quick buck. They are also fiscally irresponsible. Even though they earn more.
Poverty isn't a lack of money, it's a mindset that keeps people poor. I spend lots of time trying to educate people in real life on how to be more successful and how to not make bad decisions (knocking up your girlfriend, buying things you can't afford, etc.) Very basic stuff, and I do care about this subject quite a bit. I'm harsh because I care.