What was thee most hurtful act done to you by another person?

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What was thee most hurtful act done to you by another person?

I had a watered damage picture of my son (i had school pictures of him taken bought 10 of the same picture) since one of them was so damage I through that one out.

My then husband saw it in the trash and showed it to our son and what I did with damage picture (my son was 6 years old at the time)

Then husband and father of my son..called for our son ..come here son look at what your mother thinks of you! i must admit that was the most hurtful act that anyone has ever done to me...his father's attentions was to hurt me through making my son cry knocking his self esteem.

Wow, he must hate your guts.

I was kicked in the shins once. Hurt like hell.

Originally posted by Lord Lucien
Wow, he must hate your guts.
he was a VERY controlling cheating no good person. plus a drunk

I was kicked in the shins once. Hurt like hell.

Re: What was thee most hurtful act done to you by another person?

Originally posted by alltoomany
I had a watered damage picture of my son (i had school pictures of him taken bought 10 of the same picture) since one of them was so damage I through that one out.

My then husband saw it in the trash and showed it to our son and what I did with damage picture (my son was 6 years old at the time)

Then husband and father of my son..called for our son ..come here son look at what your mother thinks of you! i must admit that was the most hurtful act that anyone has ever done to me...his father's attentions was to hurt me through making my son cry knocking his self esteem.

Wow! You have had an easy life. I had to hide for a few years (over 30 years ago) because their was a group of people who tried to kill me.

Anal. I never should have bought her the strap on! 🙁

Re: What was thee most hurtful act done to you by another person?

Originally posted by alltoomany
I had a watered damage picture of my son (i had school pictures of him taken bought 10 of the same picture) since one of them was so damage I through that one out.

My then husband saw it in the trash and showed it to our son and what I did with damage picture (my son was 6 years old at the time)

Then husband and father of my son..called for our son ..come here son look at what your mother thinks of you! i must admit that was the most hurtful act that anyone has ever done to me...his father's attentions was to hurt me through making my son cry knocking his self esteem.

Thats not right!Hope it gets better. There is too much to name for me to say who hurt me.

Emotional abuse and PTSD from childhood trauma.

Hmmm.

Well, maybe when my best friend selected another friend to be his best man. I was fairly sad about that especially since we had talked about that, for years:

"You'll be my best man, for sure, dude."

"Yeah man, you too, no doubt."

*epic bromantic fist bump*

I understood why he selected his friend of only 1 year: my homie was not sure I was going to even be able to make it because of how poor both of us were. So he had to make a decision fast. But he never told me. I should not have waited to give me attendance confirmation a month before the wedding. 🙁

The second worse: when my best friend could not make it to my wedding to be my best man. 🙁 His connecting flight from Cincinnati was cancelled and the next flight he could get on was AFTER the wedding.

🙁

Epic fail. 🙁

I got kicked off a record label a very close friend of mine ran after he removed one of my releases from the catalog because of poor critical review.

Originally posted by Shakyamunison
Wow! You have had an easy life. I had to hide for a few years (over 30 years ago) because their was a group of people who tried to kill me.
Hokey Smokes!

You're right. Now my heart being broken by my first true love (when I was in college) doesn't seem so bad.

I interpreted the "hurtful" to be more about emotional pain, rather than people out to physically harm you.

I hear your pain by your ex. They can truly be evil and hurtful.

I could write volumes of books about what mine did in breaking Federal and local laws in court proceedings to get his way along with ruining my reputation. Very painful stuff.

Be strong! 🙂

Originally posted by inimalist
I got kicked off a record label a very close friend of mine ran after he removed one of my releases from the catalog because of poor critical review.
You're a singer?

Being essentially ditched in my first year of University by three 'friends', although being labelled lazy by my older brother when I was battling health problems two years ago probably goes above that.

Originally posted by Lord Lucien
You're a singer?

I write electronic music

YouTube video

Take your pick:
When I was around six I was doing dishes and needed to use the bathroom. Instead of letting me my father made me soil myself as punishment because I didn't do the dishes fast enough.
Being a good samaritan tried to get a stranded guy gas and got car jacked instead.
Home invaded and robbed at gun jump.
Finance cheated on me with her boss a year into engagement and give months before Wedding
Parents nicknamed me fatty, and in my thirty years alive have yet to ever tell me they have ever loved me
In high school through first three years of college had a family and their gang harass me and my family. They even showed up one night with 14 guys with bats and guns calling out for blood because someone I knew who they also hated had broke the windshields to their cars.,, same guys had punched me in my throat, thrown food and drink at me throughout my high school years. Vandalized my car in college. All because I wouldn't join their gang and we are all the same Asian race...
My boss, had me access stuff at work, then when the upper bosses found out tried to accuse me of fraud and have me fired before I could tell my side.

Originally posted by rotiart
Take your pick:
When I was around six I was doing dishes and needed to use the bathroom. Instead of letting me my father made me soil myself as punishment because I didn't do the dishes fast enough.
Being a good samaritan tried to get a stranded guy gas and got car jacked instead.
Home invaded and robbed at gun jump.
Finance cheated on me with her boss a year into engagement and give months before Wedding
Parents nicknamed me fatty, and in my thirty years alive have yet to ever tell me they have ever loved me
In high school through first three years of college had a family and their gang harass me and my family. They even showed up one night with 14 guys with bats and guns calling out for blood because someone I knew who they also hated had broke the windshields to their cars.,, same guys had punched me in my throat, thrown food and drink at me throughout my high school years. Vandalized my car in college. All because I wouldn't join their gang and we are all the same Asian race...
My boss, had me access stuff at work, then when the upper bosses found out tried to accuse me of fraud and have me fired before I could tell my side.
WOW!

I hate it when people try to pin things on you that you didn't do.

I have been accused of being demon possessed by my religously fanatic family though. 😠

Even today they try that. I told one of my family members that yeah and I'm gonna eat you too!! This is after a delusional family member accused me of sacrificing his dog. 😂

Why are there so many mentally ill people in the church? I hate that.

Originally posted by Deja~vu
WOW!

I hate it when people try to pin things on you that you didn't do.

I have been accused of being demon possessed by my religously fanatic family though. 😠

Even today they try that. I told one of my family members that yeah and I'm gonna eat you too!! This is after a delusional family member accused me of sacrificing his dog. 😂

Why are there so many mentally ill people in the church? I hate that.

This happened to my gf and not me:
Her little dog. Terrier or whatever. Was three years old. Used to run out of the house through the yard p meet the girls at the busstop.
Someone kidnapped the little dog. A week later returned the dog skinned and run through as if it had been sacrificed onto their driveway.

Its years later still don't know who did it. To me that's possibly one of the most evil things I know. Some people make me so mad how stupid they are they would hurt a small animal for whatever the reason is.

I got stabbed by my then girlfriend, for smiling at some chick. My hand has never really been the same.

Re: Re: What was thee most hurtful act done to you by another person?

Originally posted by Shakyamunison
Wow! You have had an easy life. I had to hide for a few years (over 30 years ago) because their was a group of people who tried to kill me.

Do I know you...lol