If you want to be an attractive guy, is being White important?

I know that's how the Vikings would do it. Actually if you had brown hair you were "black"

Originally posted by Greatest Gatsby
Not attractive as in "oh he has such an amazing personality", I mean attractive based on just looks alone.

...oh man, how did I not notice this thread until now?!

Originally posted by atv2
It may look favorable to be white or light skinned and the favor is there but it seems like women favor men that have alot of green on their skin. I like white women myself and have a desire to be with a caucasian woman one day but the green on the skin they can do without.

I am mixed with white/black/asian/native american. I too like white women but man it seems they have no interest in black guys, asian guys, hispanic etc. I live in n.y.c. and if you see pretty and cute white women, she is with a white man.

Also what's f**ked up is, if you see any of those interracial or just plain dating sites, women specifically ask for white dudes and black men, asian men. indian men "need not apply"

It really feels like ALL races of women go for white guys so yeah in my honest opinion I think being a white man sets you up for chance with all races of women 🙁

Indian men are hairy and smell like curry. [sonic]And that's no good.[/sonic]

I dream a dream where everyones happy being themselves. Just a thought! Its funny how dark people want to b white and white people want to b dark.

Originally posted by rudester
I dream a dream where everyones happy being themselves. Just a thought! Its funny how dark people want to b white and white people want to b dark.

Originally posted by Greatest Gatsby
Not attractive as in "oh he has such an amazing personality", I mean attractive based on just looks alone.

I have noticed on a lot of online lists for most attractive males the common names are:

Channing Tatum
Bradley Cooper
Brad Pitt
Leonardo DiCaprio
Ryan Gosling
Henry Cavill
Daniel Craig
Christian Bale

Now aside from maybe a Black guy here and there, all other races are unheard of. I am a 6 ft tall Indian guy, born and bred in the US, American in every way, olive skinned (not sure, relatively light skinned for an Indian), jet Black hair, and brown eyes.

It makes me laugh when people say tall dark and handsome when almost attractive guys are White and not even that dark for White people.

Maybe it is because I live in the bible belt but I would asusme its the same in NYC and Los Angeles.

What are your thoughts on this?

I wouldn't I'm white! Many people think I'm Greek, Italian, Lebanese and so forth...but even in a coma, I do look good! 😄

Originally posted by rudester
I dream a dream where everyones happy being themselves. Just a thought! Its funny how dark people want to b white and white people want to b dark.

It sounds great but it does not work like that. Honestly I cannot understand why a White person would want to be black. It may be me ,but don't you think in this country that a caucasian person has all of the advantages over a non caucasian person? That's the reason non white guys(myself included)have felt this way.

I remember seeing a talkshow(don't remember the name) where a black woman was a guest and stated to the audience, she wants to have a baby with only a white guy, because she in her own words stated "because she wants the baby to have a better life" and her baby would not get that from a non white man. 🙁

Also a friend of mine who is hasian and really dark skinned, has really felt this. I hear all of his horror stories on being looked at like a criminal because of being really dark..even though he does not dress thuggish. He also tells the tales of how all races of women see him and usually will cross the other street to avoid him. I thought this also has to do with him being 6ft 2 and slim. I asked him once if he wish he were White and he said most of the time he does. He stated he would not have to go through all of this. Sad but true.

I found this to answer the OP question take a look at this surveyhttp://anthrocivitas.net/forum/showthread.php?t=8056

That should answer ALOT 🙁

I'm dark from my Lebonese/Romanian GYpsie heritage and I think I'm sexy.

Daniel Craig? WTF this guy looks like a crack head.

Originally posted by P-Geyser
I am mixed with white/black/asian/native american. I too like white women but man it seems they have no interest in black guys, asian guys, hispanic etc. I live in n.y.c. and if you see pretty and cute white women, she is with a white man.

Also what's f**ked up is, if you see any of those interracial or just plain dating sites, women specifically ask for white dudes and black men, asian men. indian men "need not apply"

It really feels like ALL races of women go for white guys so yeah in my honest opinion I think being a white man sets you up for chance with all races of women 🙁

Don't be silly, the world is filled with so many women that there is certainly a women suited for you. It's more of a waiting game, and while you wait hopefully it tempers you enough that you will learn to treat the woman that you meet well. I'm half Black, and Native American, and my wife is hot, and yes she's also Caucasian.

Originally posted by Stoic
Don't be silly, the world is filled with so many women that there is certainly a women suited for you. It's more of a waiting game, and while you wait hopefully it tempers you enough that you will learn to treat the woman that you meet well. I'm half Black, and Native American, and my wife is hot, and yes she's also Caucasian.

Did you pay a young lady to pose for this picture, so you could boast on this forum?

😂

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Originally posted by wilco
Did you pay a young lady to pose for this picture, so you could boast on this forum?

😂

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I don't really have to prove anything to you now do I? But here's another pic of my best friend. My wife. I can understand the disbelief on your part. Maybe it's just that you don't have any game? Or you can't believe that anyone can get any type woman that they want? I can understand if you're one of the many that place women on pedestals. 🙂 She's also not that young btw.

Originally posted by Stoic
I don't really have to prove anything to you now do I? But here's another pic of my best friend. My wife. I can understand the disbelief on your part. Maybe it's just that you don't have any game? Or you can't believe that anyone can get any type woman that they want? I can understand if you're one of the many that place women on pedestals. 🙂 She's also not that young btw.

😂 😆

Firstly, I'm divorced and secondly - I'm nearly 40. Unless you have cash/money, young women aren't that bothered.

I don't place women on pedestals. I would prefer an even playing field. With children in the mix, it can make it even more difficult.

Occasionally I date and pick up, but you have never come out of a severe brain injury had speech problems at the best of times. 18 months ago I had to learn how to speak again and walk up stairs. If anyone has the problem, it's you 😂

Originally posted by wilco
😂 😆

Firstly, I'm divorced and secondly - I'm nearly 40. Unless you have cash/money, young women aren't that bothered.

I don't place women on pedestals. I would prefer an even playing field. With children in the mix, it can make it even more difficult.

Occasionally I date and pick up, but you have never come out of a severe brain injury had speech problems at the best of times. 18 months ago I had to learn how to speak again and walk up stairs. If anyone has the problem, it's you 😂

Oh so you admit to having several impediments?

Listen buddy, I was simply moving to the tune of the OP, and I did more than make a point at saying that it does not matter what color you are, nothing stops a person from being with whomever they want to be with but themselves. I don't know where all of the rest of the stuff that you said is coming from because it has nothing to do with the OP topic.

You're almost 40, guess what I'm 44, and she's 38.

So in answer to your first question... No I was not boasting to the forums, and no that is not some young woman that I had to pay to take a picture of. That is in fact my wife. Do I have a problem with her being my wife? Hell no. And guess what else she was the one that picked me, and I'm half Black, and Native American. Not everyone gives a phuck about the color of someones skin... I don't and neither does she. Dig it? Different strokes and all that jazz.

Oh and did I mention that not all women are after your money. Did you know that there are women that have their own money?

Originally posted by Stoic
Oh so you admit to having several impediments?

Yes, when your skull has to be put together with titanium screws. Not to mention, cognitive issues -did you understand that?

Originally posted by Stoic
Listen buddy, I was simply moving to the tune of the OP, and I did more than make a point at saying that it does not matter what color you are, nothing stops a person from being with whomever they want to be with but themselves. I don't know where all of the rest of the stuff that you said is coming from because it has nothing to do with the OP topic. /B]

I was mucking around, when I referred to you paying a young lady to pose for the pics, but you got bent out of shape in the reply. I personally don't care in the least.

Originally posted by Stoic
Oh and did I mention that not all women are after your money. Did you know that there are women that have their own money? [/B]

Yes it's great that some women make more money than some guys, however! A woman making $100,000 a year as a Manager at a major bank would date a Manager at a supermarket, just making $45,000 a year?? I very much doubt it buddy.

I was a carpenter, but with child support and the brain injury, my income has suffered dramatically.

Originally posted by wilco
Yes, when your skull has to be put together with titanium screws. Not to mention, cognitive issues -did you understand that?

I was mucking around, when I referred to you paying a young lady to pose for the pics, but you got bent out of shape in the reply. I personally don't care in the least.

Yes it's great that some women make more money than some guys, however! A woman making $100,000 a year as a Manager at a major bank would date a Manager at a supermarket, just making $45,000 a year?? I very much doubt it buddy.

I was a carpenter, but with child support and the brain injury, my income has suffered dramatically.

Are you sure that you didn't take a picture of some poor guy lying on a hospital bed, and are no pretending that it was you?
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Did you see what I did there? Don't answer because I believe you... I really do.

you're pretty funny mate, you should be a comedian.. 😂 Just mucking around.

This me about 7 months ago mucking around with a mate.

Originally posted by wilco
you're pretty funny mate, you should be a comedian.. 😂 Just mucking around.

This me about 7 months ago mucking around with a mate.

Dude did you know that you resemble one of my best friends? No shytting you. I have a friend named Harry that could be a near twin to you. I also know that you were kidding friend. Don't sweat it.

Originally posted by Stoic
Dude did you know that you resemble one of my best friends? No shytting you. I have a friend named Harry that could be a near twin to you. I also know that you were kidding friend. Don't sweat it.

Your best friend is good looking I take it? 🤣