Originally posted by Stealth MooseWhat can I do with your sympathy anyway? ?
And we can help you, but you will just likely choose not to accept our advice. All you're really doing is treating this as your own dumping ground.I'm just not sympathetic for those who want others to feel sorry for them all the time.
Originally posted by Oneness
What can I do with your sympathy anyway? ?
I don't know, but you seem to be fishing for it with a lot of bait.
Maybe you should try being introspective instead of you know, intermittently coming to KMC and spouting off how angry you are as a young male just out of his teens and how horrible life is for you in one of the wealthiest countries in the world. Until you've had to beg for food or wait for life-saving medicine from another country, you haven't hit rock-bottom, so pick yourself up and get it together.
I have this story that a friend of mine told me.
He told me that He realized how much he was screwing his life, over giving outside factors power over it.
He always thought that because he got married young He never realized his full potential, He told me that because of the economy He could not afford a lot of things and because He did not had a car He could not work.
So one day He look at his life and look at the decisions He took during it and realized that He was just a reflection of all those decision he took in the past.
His life was shitty not because he got married young, after all many people married young and become successful, He did not had money not because of the economy, but because He was not looking for work, after all is better to make $10 a day than to make $0 dollars a day, so of course he could never afford a car.
Suddenly he realized that his life was shitty not because other people or external factors, but because he was a lazy person.
He could have changed that since the beginning but he opted to give the responsability of his life to external factors, be that his wife or the economy.
Until He realized this he was able to change his life, now he is much better since he makes money and is not sitting on the couch and providing for his family his marriage is doing great, he can afford a car and he has a business, He is living much better and little by little he is realizing his full potential and his wife or the economy had nothing to do with it.
It was him.
Not saying that this will be your case, but I for one think that WE ARE WHO WE CHOOSE TO BE.
As a clear example of it, I can right now decide to be a drug addict and I could go outside buy drugs and start becoming a drug addict, the cops and friends MIGHT try to stop me, but in the end I will become what I want to be, that is how much power I have over my life, I can also decide to do something different, the good things in life take the same determination, they might seem harder to achieve, but in the end is our own desire to be what make us be.
Hope that helps you
Originally posted by Bardock42That it is, that it is.
A lot of your issues seem to stem from your mind being rather convoluted, Dolos.
It has been growing increasingly so. I still don't know what to do, I am wanting to just follow a path, living in the present, from one moment to the next.
God can see my desires, God can fulfill them when I can neither interpret nor fulfill them for myself.
Originally posted by Rao Kal ElI made her my enemy, I villainized myself and it is a tremendous psychological underpinning to accept that I cannot undo that fact. Plus, you know, there's nothing worse on God's green earth than being the villain.
I guess whatever power she might have or not have over you, is because you are allowing it.So you can kick her out of your life or mantain her around you, but in the end is up to you
However God has sent another into my life, and I need to stay compassionate, sensitive, sincere, and enlightened with her because I cannot afford to keep villainizing myself and being left alone in neurosis and in misery.