What to do in a friendship where you always feel procrastinated.
Has anyone been involved in those types of friendships/relationships/marriages where you've been the contributing factor and all the other side could do is procrastinate you/put you off and fill you with excuses? How did it feel and what was your solution?
Re: What to do in a friendship where you always feel procrastinated.
Originally posted by atv2
Has anyone been involved in those types of friendships/relationships/marriages where you've been the contributing factor and all the other side could do is procrastinate you/put you off and fill you with excuses? How did it feel and what was your solution?
Hmm, sounds like you should cut that part out and start new.
Re: What to do in a friendship where you always feel procrastinated.
Originally posted by atv2
Has anyone been involved in those types of friendships/relationships/marriages where you've been the contributing factor and all the other side could do is procrastinate you/put you off and fill you with excuses?
Two sides to every argument...
Maybe you're too demanding & expect too much back?
I seriously think every thread should be required to be prefaced with:
"Hey! F*cking strangers, in a back alley of the internet that is mostly nerds getting angry at each other over fictional vs. battles! Yeah, you f*ckers. I got something I need your input on..."
Then the OP actually starts. It would lend an entirely new, often hilarious perspective to many threads. Serious topics are fine, but there's something about advice solicitations that always tickled me in this context.
dgrin
Originally posted by Digi
I seriously think every thread should be required to be prefaced with:
"Hey! F*cking strangers, in a back alley of the internet that is mostly nerds getting angry at each other over fictional vs. battles! Yeah, you f*ckers. I got something I need your input on..."Then the OP actually starts. It would lend an entirely new, often hilarious perspective to many threads. Serious topics are fine, but there's something about advice solicitations that always tickled me in this context.
dgrin
Do you have friends?
Re: Re: What to do in a friendship where you always feel procrastinated.
Originally posted by Esau Cairn
Two sides to every argument...Maybe you're too demanding & expect too much back?
I'm far from demand; I've been making things fairly simple, extending time and keeping it basic but in spite of that they tend mess up. Some have had the nerve to complain and want to say they need their quote on quote "space" when it is them who is taking up space. They couldn't meet a 1/4th of what I've given them, go down the units. These past few friendships have been fragile.